Quote: (08-02-2016 04:46 PM)Kona Wrote:
This just reads like an advice column from cosmopolitan to me.
Especially the "gather enough evidence then go to hr" that the guy says he does because he's "ruthless." Even the definition of ruthless has changed.
I fraternized with lots of women for nine years in the navy. Some of those bangs could have landed me in jail. I never had one single problem. I suppose it is because I used what we call "frame" properly.
Make sure its understood that nobody is telling anyone. Make sure the situation ends on a friendly note, also.
And the perfect quote in this thread above by kaotic: " when has shit that's almost fantasy like played out nicely"
Not very often. So when it does, capitalize. Don't complain to human recources.
Aloha!
I agree, no need to snitch or any of that shit, just hold your frame if you don't want her advances.
Stay cool and aloof.
Last thing you want to show a predatory female is any sign of weakness.