Quote: (04-24-2016 10:20 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
Quote: (04-24-2016 02:27 AM)Hazaer Wrote:
Quote: (04-23-2016 01:29 AM)XPQ22 Wrote:
If hoe asks you out for drinks and then you have drinks and dance with hoe all sexy-like and you try to kiss and she pulls away then go bye-bye.
I write this in cave man language because the same question seems to come up over and over in the "newbie" forum.
If you're escalating normally and appropriately with a new girl in your life and she's not escalating appropriately in return there's basically one of two possibilities:
She don't like you
There's someone else she likes better at the moment
Or some combination, I guess.
Some people in the forum recommend persistence and I have seen some guys in clubs dancing with a girls trying to kiss her, she resists and after 2 or 3 times, she gives up and he gets what he wants and they leave.In these cases, these girls are alone so group dynamics doesnt seem to come in to play. But these are approaches are done on the floor itself without the drinking together part.
When should one persist and when is it a lost cause when escalating at the venue? This is an important question.
Got the blind leading the blind in here.
Scenario - chick asks you out for drinks, you drink, you dance, you try to kiss, she denies
- if she asks you out - she's interested and investing. Assume attraction
- drink - lowers her inhibitions, but lowers yours as well. This can hurt you, which is why guys that are good at game, keep the drinking to the minimum.
- dancing - increases the sexual tension, but not at the same rate for the two of you. She wants to feel sexy, you're getting horny.
- kissing her on the dance floor in public? - rookie mistake, shows your thirst. Always pull her off to the side, semi-private area or bounce to a new more private location. You're not her boyfriend, you're just a guy she's on a date with. So public displays of affection don't really do much for her.
And the chick that slobs guys up on the dance floor, will do so, and then be frigid the whole night. She can get sex and affection ANYTIME so it's not valuable to her. Kissing her means nothing in terms of holding her.
Young chicks especially.
Guys that turn into horn dogs are predictable and controllable. That's not turning her on. That's not game.
That's blue pill/square dating.
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When to persist?
- If she's solo - persist. But don't try to stick your tongue down her throat on the dance floor. Smoke break, grab a drink, take a step outside - then do it there.
- If she's with 1 other girl/they came as a group - ease back on the heat, try to do a quick isolation with the one girl, and then give them a place to go with you, after the venue.
Some good points raised.
A few quick qns.. If she is solo, for the drink part, should I offer her a drink? Conventional game says no, but here, some attraction has already been formed in the dance floor and she seems receptive. What do you think?
If she is with a friend, its definitely not advisable to go for the kiss in the dance floor. What about a makeout session? Would that come out too sleazy with a friend watching on?
Also, the problem with pairs of girls is the final stretch of bringing her home for the bang. The other girl is definitely there and watching what you are going to do with her friend. How do you go about this?
Thanks.