Quote: (04-23-2016 08:26 PM)Vaun Wrote:
Quote: (04-23-2016 06:46 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
So even if you're dumb enough to go exclusive, you're still very social. And if you can't go out, have a good time, meet new people when you have a chick - you need to work on your game. Because she can multi-task. She'll have drinks with friends, go out with co-workers, get involved in hobbies and meet ups. Even homebodies got a book club.
A woman's life is social, especially if she's attractive.
Men typically are not. That's why they atrophy and die.
8 years of marriage and doing this ^ atrophied me into a friendless, sexless gimp.
Quote: (04-23-2016 06:46 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
If you let her monopolize all of your time - so that it's just you reacting to her and her events - she's fucking you over w/o realizing it. None of that shit is malicious, but it will encircle you and attack you when you least expect it.
She can't be the center of your activity.
Why is it so easy to go there. Its happened to me a few times. Each time it ends in disaster and defeat, everyone is hurt, and no one is happy. It affects every part of your life, whether you know it or not.
Sometimes chicks take an active role, and they don't want you hanging out with certain friends. But Allah forbid you mention the same...
Going into an LTR w/your eyes open, and actively managing her unconscious attempts to turn you into a bitch is hard as fuck. It will always be easier to juggle 4-5 chicks than to manage 1.
It's one of the last areas of "pick up"/game that needs a lot more exploration.
Shame, Dread, Married Man Sex Life...yadda yadda yadda - those just scratch the surface.
Considering the depth and breadth of material on how to get a chick in the sack the first night, what exists on surviving and running a good relationship is quite paltry.
WIA