That's the hardest leap for chicks to make. To be self-critical and work on their shortcomings, as opposed to simply blaming men, or simply trying to find a wealthy guy that will have certain things taken care of (like having a cook and bring in a cleaning lady). Too many of them believe that all they need to bring to the table is good looks, and when a man rejects them despite those looks, they don't know what else to do.
"The best kind of pride is that which compels a man to do his best when no one is watching."