There's plenty of guys that let their girlfriends have unreasonable control over their lives. But is there any evidence that's true here? Is there any evidence his girlfriend is crazy?
Someone claiming to be the real Kevin posted to the thread with some more details. Apparently he has 2 children with this "crazy" woman and he didn't want to go on this trip anyway. Wanting to be with your kids and woman on your birthday instead of going to your friends drunk party weekend is not unreasonable. He was also told that he couldn't bring his girlfriend and kids. If what this Kevin says is true, it's his friends who are controlling assholes and not his girlfriend.
Someone claiming to be the real Kevin posted to the thread with some more details. Apparently he has 2 children with this "crazy" woman and he didn't want to go on this trip anyway. Wanting to be with your kids and woman on your birthday instead of going to your friends drunk party weekend is not unreasonable. He was also told that he couldn't bring his girlfriend and kids. If what this Kevin says is true, it's his friends who are controlling assholes and not his girlfriend.
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The Real Kevin Here. Let's set this straight.
OP asks me if I want to go away for a birthday weekend. I say no day one. This was in January. I was never told where the trip was, only that I needed to go away from Friday to Sunday. That is it. I have a family, and my second daughter was just born. I didn't want to be away from my family for 3 days. I love them. OP doesn't seem to understand the concept of family as none of his like him. I propose to him that I bring my family on this undisclosed trip or that we do a day trip. OP says no.
So day one I was already not going on this trip. So months later (it is now April) they still haven't told me anything about the trip. I find out that they are going to Montreal when I see the first picture on facebook.
The entire trip was planned to bring cardboard Kevin. I was not included in the planning process at all. Additionally, I don't have a passport and they never told me I would need one. For those not aware, you need a passport to go to Canada. So even if I wanted to go I would have been unable to.
Basically OP and and my amazing friends planned this the whole time as a big prank. And then as icing on the shit-cake they made me for my birthday, they decided to publicly shame my fiance in front of millions of strangers.
OP is a fantastic friend to have. You guys are welcome to be best buds with him because I personally am done.
This is the product of the big surprise my friends cooked up for me for my birthday. Thanks guys, you are the best friends someone could ever ask for.