Quote: (01-11-2016 11:56 PM)Mr.Conflicted Wrote:
I didn't want to create a new thread so I'll ask my question here. My issue isn't getting it up. I just can't fucking last 90% of the time and it's extremely frustrating. Sometimes I can only go for a few strokes. With oral I can last much longer but once it comes to me putting my bad boy in....welp! I'm trying kegels now but I'm getting desperate. Granted I'm not having regular sex so maybe that's it?
I get this problem sometimes. Particularly with new girls. And yes, the more regular sex the less of a problem it becomes. I bought some Cialis just to get my head in the right place when having a new girl over, like an emergency option.
It's all in your head. Been said a thousand times before but focus on your breathing, what she's doing to you, her body. I usually have the girl go down on me a good while to get in the "second wind" where I'm used to the sensation. It's a actually a great opportunity to introduce some dominance and make her submit to you; start directing her on how you want your dick sucked, grab her jaw and stuff your dick down her throat while you run your hands all over her. When you're ready and in the zone, it's time to go in.
Also, reverse kegels. It's weird to describe but it's like doing a soft push when you're taking a shit. When you cum your PC muscle contracts like crazy; reverse kegels "forces" it to relax so you can go longer. Kinda like you can't fully tense your biceps if you're doing a tricep pushdown in the gym. "Push out" during sex when you feel you're getting close.
Read The Sex God Method. In the end it's all about immersion and getting out of your head. And it's okay to go slow at first. She enjoys it when you enjoy it. Don't remember who said it on here but girls love to be fucked by guys who love to fuck them.