Is it a Bad Move for a Married Man to Allow Another Man to Stay in His Home?
12-23-2015, 11:38 AM
Women get bored/curious and they cheat. It happens a lot. A dude's dick has some serious power over his actions. It gets him into a lot of trouble that we can surely all attest to. OP poses a difficult scenario to navigate for sure. This also reminds me of a great porn clip with Nicole Aniston where she sneaks downstairs while her husband is still asleep and fucks his best friend who has been sleeping on there couch for a little while.
I'm a firm believer in that you can never 100% trust anyone except yourself, this goes for family and best friends alike. I'm sure many of us, myself included, have war stories of being burned by people you thought you could rely on. The romantic in us wants to believe in the positive virtues of man, but the realist in us knows everyone is naive, selfish, and wholly ignorant.
The best answer may be to live life how you want to live it and be prepared for the consequences. If you want to be a generous man, then be prepared to get nothing in return and often times be taken complete advantage of. If you want to be selfish then be prepared to be held in contempt by others. There is not "right" way to live.
I've had a girl I was seeing for years cheat on me with a close friend of mine. It happened behind my back for a couple months before I found out. I am no longer friends with that dude and have no spoken to him since that day. I've also had taken women come on to me (I shot them down). Never fully trust anyone.
Can't honestly say how I would handle this hypothetical personally, though. I suppose it would depend on the friend and the situation. I've been burned by "best friends" being around my girl alone in the past so my instinct is to say pass, but I don't like to be a baggage toting fuck who wants to let one bad experience soil my morals.
I'm a firm believer in that you can never 100% trust anyone except yourself, this goes for family and best friends alike. I'm sure many of us, myself included, have war stories of being burned by people you thought you could rely on. The romantic in us wants to believe in the positive virtues of man, but the realist in us knows everyone is naive, selfish, and wholly ignorant.
The best answer may be to live life how you want to live it and be prepared for the consequences. If you want to be a generous man, then be prepared to get nothing in return and often times be taken complete advantage of. If you want to be selfish then be prepared to be held in contempt by others. There is not "right" way to live.
I've had a girl I was seeing for years cheat on me with a close friend of mine. It happened behind my back for a couple months before I found out. I am no longer friends with that dude and have no spoken to him since that day. I've also had taken women come on to me (I shot them down). Never fully trust anyone.
Can't honestly say how I would handle this hypothetical personally, though. I suppose it would depend on the friend and the situation. I've been burned by "best friends" being around my girl alone in the past so my instinct is to say pass, but I don't like to be a baggage toting fuck who wants to let one bad experience soil my morals.