Is it a Bad Move for a Married Man to Allow Another Man to Stay in His Home?
12-23-2015, 06:07 AM
^Fair enough.
Me and my ex used to live in the central part of a city . So we always had guests over if somebody wanted to crash after a drunken night out or something. I would regularly let my guy friends stay and she had no problems with that. She also routinely invited over her female friends who had boyfriends. But when it came to her single female friends she always came up with some bullshit excuse on why they could not stay. After a while i called her out on it. She tells me "single girls love guys who're in relationships".
I think as men we tend to give too much value to concepts like honor, trust , virtue, bro-code etc ... instead of being cold pragmatists like women. Humans are just slightly civilized animals and women seem to have a better grasp of that reality than we do.
Me and my ex used to live in the central part of a city . So we always had guests over if somebody wanted to crash after a drunken night out or something. I would regularly let my guy friends stay and she had no problems with that. She also routinely invited over her female friends who had boyfriends. But when it came to her single female friends she always came up with some bullshit excuse on why they could not stay. After a while i called her out on it. She tells me "single girls love guys who're in relationships".
I think as men we tend to give too much value to concepts like honor, trust , virtue, bro-code etc ... instead of being cold pragmatists like women. Humans are just slightly civilized animals and women seem to have a better grasp of that reality than we do.