I keep an a box I call my "Ex Files" that dates all the way back to just after college. It's literally a bunch pics (and a few videos) of every LTR and semi LTR I've had over the last 20+ years. If I banged em and they were around long enough for me to get a pic they're in there.
I don't ever show it to any of them (though I've had a couple stumble across it when they were snooping when/where they shouldn't have...now there's some drama for another thread!) but I always let them know "Once you get filed in the Ex Files there's no ever coming back"
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Ever.
That's my little ritual for closure that's worked well for me
I don't ever show it to any of them (though I've had a couple stumble across it when they were snooping when/where they shouldn't have...now there's some drama for another thread!) but I always let them know "Once you get filed in the Ex Files there's no ever coming back"
Ever.
That's my little ritual for closure that's worked well for me
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- Does She Have The "Happy Gene" ?
-Inversion Therapy
-Let's lead by example
"Leap, and the net will appear". John Burroughs
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Joseph Campbell