@JWLZG: Textbook ASD (Anti-Slut Defenses) on that girl. I suppose she really likes you, but does not want to feel like a slut. She knows that meeting you on her own would allow you to seduce her and bang her without social commitment on your side. What she suggests is meeting within the circle so she can feel the approval from the herd to sleep with you so its in turn 'not slutty'.
Considering she is an '8' and you consider her GF material, I would put in the time.
Considering she is an '8' and you consider her GF material, I would put in the time.