Definitely do not try to mess with the phone, and stay away from her friends.
It looks really suspicious when someone suddenly dies and then someone wants to delete messages from her phone.
Not only might raise suspicion of foul play, but also other illegal activity.
Also, my company makes me password protect voicemail, if someone bypasses that and listens to the sexual messages they have only themselves to blame.
No one will probably even try to listen to the messages, they've got other problems to worry about.
Sending an anonymous gift would be nice for you, but might baffle the parents and make the deceased look shady.
Remember you seemed to have been part of a life she didn't want them to know about.
It looks really suspicious when someone suddenly dies and then someone wants to delete messages from her phone.
Not only might raise suspicion of foul play, but also other illegal activity.
Also, my company makes me password protect voicemail, if someone bypasses that and listens to the sexual messages they have only themselves to blame.
No one will probably even try to listen to the messages, they've got other problems to worry about.
Sending an anonymous gift would be nice for you, but might baffle the parents and make the deceased look shady.
Remember you seemed to have been part of a life she didn't want them to know about.