[Gmac]

I think people do take the whole "I'm never paying for anything" bit too far. The POINT is to get into the mentality of not taking care of everything, not showering a girl with gifts, not acting how all most AFC's do, not buying drinks for random strangers as a rule or standard (there are exceptions). Using your money as your own competitive advantage is ok when done right, but there is a fine line between making strategic choices and just being used. With experience you learn how to tell the difference between the two. Of course, a lot of it does depend on your personal financial situation too -- and can hurt your odds if you're unable or unwilling to shell out some cash for certain situations (i.e. a cab ride when you are in the position to offer one).