Quote: (09-01-2015 04:21 PM)Barbarian_Brad Wrote:
On the other hand, women get so much attention that remaining aloof and not displaying too much interest too early could lead to actually getting to handle that beauty. Plus, in many circles now, checking a woman out with the "male gaze" could bring unnecessary drama and criticism.
So what do you guys think? Let women see you checking them out, or hide it till you've got the bang?
I'd always favour aloof game on very beautiful women.
As such, don't leer and howl at women: you're a man who is in control of his sexuality, not an overwhelmed boy. The company of beautiful women is simply your day to day reality and not a rare occurrence. Since she's well-aware that her beauty is a tempestuous wind that always bends the young saplings to her will, she can't fail to notice that she barely stirs the branches of your solid Oak form.
You don't ogle her: you appraise her. She realises she is being measured by your high standards, and is unsure if you think she's worthy of your attention, since you're a connoisseur of beauty, not high from the merest whiff of its scent on a cork.
This is the aura of masculine power and sexual experience with women. This is what triggers her deep feminine mating instinct to obsessively-pursue you, steal your sexual and emotional attention away from all your other options, and capture it to focus it solely on her.
In a day game situation, you want her to think you were intrigued just enough to open her in conversation for potentially-nothing more than an brief, amusing distraction - during which you're studying her with mild curiosity - but you could have just as happily gone on your way without needing to escalate to digits / logistics. When that comes, it should seem unplanned, casual - like you reconsidered for some reason - but firm enough in action that it doesn't seem to have come from nervous waffling or fear.
Control around beauty. Always control. Even when I smile, all they get out of me is one corner of my mouth, and the smile is never visible in my eyes.
Just my two cents on the matter. Experiment or discard if it seems useful to your game construct.