all i can say about the OP, STOP WATCHING PORN.
in a serious note, not trying be a jerk or anything but thats not how your suppose to get pussy, the people who get the pussy are straight forward people who make things clear right off the bat or give clues about who they are if a female sees that your beating around the bush just to get ass shes gonna disrespect you the only way i see it happening is if THEY KNOW you just wanna get ass but other than that you sound like a guy who never got pussy in his life. just some helpful advice.
in a serious note, not trying be a jerk or anything but thats not how your suppose to get pussy, the people who get the pussy are straight forward people who make things clear right off the bat or give clues about who they are if a female sees that your beating around the bush just to get ass shes gonna disrespect you the only way i see it happening is if THEY KNOW you just wanna get ass but other than that you sound like a guy who never got pussy in his life. just some helpful advice.