People generally do what they absolutely need to do.
Sounds like she never needed to grow up.
I grew up when I needed to get my education and get a job.
Then I grew up more when my job gave me more responsibilities than I was able to handle.
I fell in love with a similar girl, except she was beautiful. Still is. Super fucked up in the head, through no fault of her own. She just never needed anything more than what she got from her friends and her dad, and dealt with a really strange childhood. Had to say goodbye. She isn't American though.
Sounds like the girl at your work has a disconnect between who she is and who she wants to be. People eat out of lack of self control. People get cats out of a need for companionship and love. People eat garbage because it gives them a temporary feeling of satisfaction that staves off the stress of life for just a moment.
Or maybe she just sucks.
Sounds like she never needed to grow up.
I grew up when I needed to get my education and get a job.
Then I grew up more when my job gave me more responsibilities than I was able to handle.
I fell in love with a similar girl, except she was beautiful. Still is. Super fucked up in the head, through no fault of her own. She just never needed anything more than what she got from her friends and her dad, and dealt with a really strange childhood. Had to say goodbye. She isn't American though.
Sounds like the girl at your work has a disconnect between who she is and who she wants to be. People eat out of lack of self control. People get cats out of a need for companionship and love. People eat garbage because it gives them a temporary feeling of satisfaction that staves off the stress of life for just a moment.
Or maybe she just sucks.