Big fish in a small pond.
I lived in a town of 120000 and managed to over come this.
Plausible deniability is your friend.
Girls speak and this will deter sex unless you can control and frame it.
a) be trustworthy and quiet about it. if your game is tight, other girls will find out from other girls but never be the one to say anything
b) be direct with your body language and indirect with verbals and what you say
c) don't be so impatient. you don't have as much leeway as a big city (i.e. replaceable girls and more volatile reputation). you should be able to tell when you can fuck and when your advances might be overkill- distinguish between ones who are keen immediately and others who will put out on a day2 and calibrate
d) given c), i disagree with OregonToSoCal (you will never see her again) as you will definitely see them again in a town of 100K- how many are bangable, in your age range, social class and frequent places you would go to get laid? this grows when you incorporate daygame but that would definitely rely on day2s
e) turn down the player vibe, turn up the mystery
I lived in a town of 120000 and managed to over come this.
Plausible deniability is your friend.
Girls speak and this will deter sex unless you can control and frame it.
a) be trustworthy and quiet about it. if your game is tight, other girls will find out from other girls but never be the one to say anything
b) be direct with your body language and indirect with verbals and what you say
c) don't be so impatient. you don't have as much leeway as a big city (i.e. replaceable girls and more volatile reputation). you should be able to tell when you can fuck and when your advances might be overkill- distinguish between ones who are keen immediately and others who will put out on a day2 and calibrate
d) given c), i disagree with OregonToSoCal (you will never see her again) as you will definitely see them again in a town of 100K- how many are bangable, in your age range, social class and frequent places you would go to get laid? this grows when you incorporate daygame but that would definitely rely on day2s
e) turn down the player vibe, turn up the mystery