[TripleG]

(06-21-2015 01:40 PM)The_Wonder Wrote:  

I made a couple of observations last night that got me thinking. I was out at a club for the first time in ages. I've been experimenting with a new look and it seemed good because I can't remember the last time I got so many IOI's in a club. I even got approached which has barely happened before. One girl used the "I thought you were someone else" line. And another came up to me and put a flower behind my ear (women are weird).

The annoying thing is my logistics are shit, which means the motivation is just not there because I am not giving myself the best chance before I even come out of the starting blocks! However, it gives me confidence for the future when my logistics will improve significantly.

But what I am asking is, do you guys continuously try and optimise your look so it works well with your game? I know the game you spit is more important than your look, but when the two are in perfect harmony I get the impression that it would be a pretty powerful thing.

Any guy can make himself look good, and what works for one man will not necessarily work for next man, it's about finding what works best for you (or this is the impression I get).

Of course, you always have to optimize your look. I've recently been getting more numbers and kiss closes in clubs as i've put in a lot of time outdoors working out to get cut and to get a natural tan. With a tan (i am a pale dude) and more slim fitting shirts the IOI's have improved. My game hasn't changed that much but before I used to be more self-conscious of my looks, now I approach more leading to more numbers and dates. Also, since it is summer I have noticed that wearing bright colors (not all guys can pull this off without looking gay) for example red shorts with blue shirt and boat shoes is giving me more smiles and eye attention when I approach sets, similar to look below: