Seems like two big mistakes.
1. Didn't bounce to another venue. Her interest could have been slipping and a bounce (and more alcohol) would loosen her up more.
2. Didn't handle your baiting well.
"Yeah." Don't leave it open ended like you did. That leaves her to make a decision right that moment. You should slowly be dropping your bait through the date and then at the end of the night, say "oh hey remember that thing I talked about earlier? Come by yada yada yada."
So instead of saying "yeah" you say "yeah" and then talk about your photos in order to change the subject.
The key is to have her thinking about sex without her knowing it. And then, when "it just happens."
1. Didn't bounce to another venue. Her interest could have been slipping and a bounce (and more alcohol) would loosen her up more.
2. Didn't handle your baiting well.
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"Hey, I have quite a few nice images that are printed on metal, you should come see them."
She paused and then said "oh, you mean at your place?"
"Yeah"
"Hmm, I don't think I should be going back to your place on our first date"
I looked at her slightly grinning and said "We'll be fine, I promise"
"I have to get up early, next time...." Dodgy
"Yeah." Don't leave it open ended like you did. That leaves her to make a decision right that moment. You should slowly be dropping your bait through the date and then at the end of the night, say "oh hey remember that thing I talked about earlier? Come by yada yada yada."
So instead of saying "yeah" you say "yeah" and then talk about your photos in order to change the subject.
The key is to have her thinking about sex without her knowing it. And then, when "it just happens."