The Modern Harem Thread: How to Build, Maintain, and Expand your own Group of Girls
06-05-2015, 09:58 PM
Love two weeks between first date and second. Going to try that out for a while.
In the past, I've done a week between first and second. Then a few weeks after that to third, then casual hanging out every week or so.
It's casual out of the gate, clear expectations. But, once it goes to more weekly, every other week, things fall apart after a month and a half or so. "Defining the relationship" talk, gets messy, and it ends on a bad note.
Two weeks right away, then 3 weeks between hanging out, sounds perfect - and makes it way easier to keep things fun.
In the past, I've done a week between first and second. Then a few weeks after that to third, then casual hanging out every week or so.
It's casual out of the gate, clear expectations. But, once it goes to more weekly, every other week, things fall apart after a month and a half or so. "Defining the relationship" talk, gets messy, and it ends on a bad note.
Two weeks right away, then 3 weeks between hanging out, sounds perfect - and makes it way easier to keep things fun.