Quote: (05-05-2015 05:47 PM)Alfa Wrote:
I feel like with every approach I'm investing ego into a more effective way to game (lines, thoughts, and beliefs) and slowly stripping away past constructs that feel just as genuine as the new ones (usually more so).
So it's making you feel better about approaching.
Has it changed your
- approach rate
- initial feedback after the first few seconds of the approach
- how she handles the opener
- the transition
- whether she opens?
I'd be careful of words like "genuine" and "construct"
Words have a ton of power in that they shape the way you approach the world.
Before long you're going to be saying "authentic" and "real". Feel good words are important so that you enjoy the process of meeting women, but as soon as you say "real" that begs the question of what is "fake".
Before a man actively started to talk to woman, was he fake?
He was as real as he could be. Doing what he liked.
When he does something new, is he being real or fake?
Lots of keyboard jockey/male hamster stuff.
The end goal is to enjoy the process of meeting women, communicating, asserting yourself, guiding and leading her to a wonderful time with you.
Good stuff so far Alfa.
WIA