Quote: (08-05-2011 04:02 PM)Sonsowey Wrote:
My daygame has always been indirect, I always start with something situational and build interesting convo and attraction from there.
That is a great way to open. You can do this while just walking down the street. You don't have to be inside a store, cafe, or park. I often use:
"Shit, its freeezing today"
"Whole Foods is this way right?"
"Excuse me, I'm looking for the Whole Foods around here"
"I like your shoes, did you get them at NikeTown"
Just like you said, indirect, situational, build conversation from there.
Quote: (08-05-2011 04:02 PM)Sonsowey Wrote:
What I never do is just stop a girl on the street out of nowhere. If we're in the same store, concert, same line, same park, I'll go up and do that no problem. But stopping a girl dead in her tracks out of nowhere, I don't do that.
There is no reason to stop her "dead in her tracks". Just walk in the same direction as her. Now you have something in common. I will talk about stores, bars, restaurants that I know are a block or 2 ahead of us.
"Joes Bar is this way right?"
"Is this the way to Whole Foods?"
"Have you been to that new restaurant around the corner?"
Quote: (08-05-2011 04:02 PM)Sonsowey Wrote:
Honestly, it just seems creepy without something shared (ie being in the same place).
Walking down the street together gives you something in common. If you would rather be inside of a store/cafe/etc. Then just walk behind her until she goes into a place. She will never know that you followed her in there.
With practice, it will seem less creepy. You will adjust your tone, vibe, and body language. You are just a cool, confident guy walking down the street. Why wouldn't you say hi to a pretty girl?
Quote: (08-05-2011 04:02 PM)Sonsowey Wrote:
Does anyone out there do direct street daygame, just stopping girls outta nowhere, or are most of you daygamers lurking in cafés, grocery stores, record shops, parks etc.?
I open girls on the street almost everyday. Sometimes I go more direct, sometimes I go more indirect. It just depends on the vibe I get from the girl. I look at the way she dresses and the way she carries herself and adjust accordingly.
Also,
I like to use my cell phone to built some common ground. I will walk ahead of the girl a few steps. I pretend to be on my phone talking about a popular place in the neighborhood. I speak loud enough so that she can here me:
"I gotta go see Mike and Amy at (insert name of popular bar)"
"I'm going to (insert name of popular store) to get the steaks, you want a t-bone or a porterhouse"
Or, I pretend that I'm lost:
"Let me find this place and I'll call you back"
Then I hang up and ask her for directions.
Talking into your phone for a minute or 2 gives her a chance to hear your voice and soak up your vibe. You can drop DHV's and present yourself in a strong way. Talk and carry yourself with energy and confidence. You gotta be a good actor. ha
Quote: (08-07-2011 07:44 AM)Richie Wrote:
I'd love to hear some openers for those kind of situations... Bearing in mind you have literally have seconds!
"Hey,whats up?"
"Hi, how are you?"
"Hello"
"Hi"
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This lines have gotten me laid just walking down the street. Not same day bangs, but they led to conversation which led to a number close which led to a date. Keep it simple.