I met a cute Chinese girl at the coffee shop that is a block away from both of us. She's in the US for a couple months as a visiting student. Her English skills are pretty low.
First date, we had frozen yogurt. Chatted, some touching, I didn't go for a kiss because she seemed shy and I didn't have a good opportunity.
Second date, we went out to dinner, and I was hoping to get a drink into her, but she forgot her ID. So I brought her back to my apartment to have a little champagne. I put on some music and then started dancing with her. She seemed into it, and I kissed her. Then we started making out on my couch. She'd occasionally stop and have a look of bewilderment on her face, but otherwise she seemed to be enjoying my advances.
After I escalated a bit she started to look legitimately uneasy.
I didn't want to push too hard since she lives near me, so it won't be hard to make another opportunity.
So I walked her home.
Later she texted me saying that (1) she's Christian and a virgin and doesn't want to have sex before marriage, (2) she's confused and didn't know we were dating before tonight, (3) she just wants to be friends
Is this just some harmless "good girl" behavior, which I should ignore and plow through, or have my dreams of getting her naked just been given the death penalty?
First date, we had frozen yogurt. Chatted, some touching, I didn't go for a kiss because she seemed shy and I didn't have a good opportunity.
Second date, we went out to dinner, and I was hoping to get a drink into her, but she forgot her ID. So I brought her back to my apartment to have a little champagne. I put on some music and then started dancing with her. She seemed into it, and I kissed her. Then we started making out on my couch. She'd occasionally stop and have a look of bewilderment on her face, but otherwise she seemed to be enjoying my advances.
After I escalated a bit she started to look legitimately uneasy.
I didn't want to push too hard since she lives near me, so it won't be hard to make another opportunity.
So I walked her home.
Later she texted me saying that (1) she's Christian and a virgin and doesn't want to have sex before marriage, (2) she's confused and didn't know we were dating before tonight, (3) she just wants to be friends
Is this just some harmless "good girl" behavior, which I should ignore and plow through, or have my dreams of getting her naked just been given the death penalty?