If i may bring my own personal opinion to bear on this matter.
#1. I hardly post in the game forum myself. In fact, i think i have only posted once
"ISOLATING THE CASHIER" in the game forum. There is simply not much to write about game that isnt found already in the game forum. Almost everything has been exhausted to death. Before i post anything, i first search the database for it. If covered before, i stop myself from posting. My preferential game is: I like direct approach and i like to do dance approach. This has already been beaten to death, covered ad nauseaum. What is the point of repeating what others have written numerous times? The only reason i even wrote "
"ISOLATING THE CASHIER" is because i havent seen anybody write anything like it. Otherwise, i wont even post it. If the criteria is that you must write about game. no problemo. Just for you, I can even approach 10 girls today and write about it by monday. Just dont be surprised if you learn nothing new from my write up. Some game reports, i read them halfway then i skipped the rest because they are simply repetition of what i already know, or (b) what others have written before.
And not to be condescending, 99% of newbie questions are already answered in the forum archives. Whenever i read a question that i think it is a newbie. I simply dont bother replying to that thread. Use the search function.
#2. On the issue of negative postings about feminism, politics, race, iq, etc. I will recommend two things: ( a ) Ignore them and focus on what is of value to you. If the topic gets turned into the issue of race/iq/politics/feminism/etc, the best thing to do is to stop posting on that thread. for example, i
posted this on epigenetics ...i tried to keep the issue around genetics/epigenetics, and the whole thing get turned into race/iq/feminism...at that point, i completely stopped posting. That was intentional. There is no gun to my head that says i have to reply to every post. Filter. Ignore. I have zero intent of getting myself dragged into race/iq debate.
The second option: Try to bring a positive, less angry angle to these threads. Case in point, there was a popular thread last week about "women claiming mental rape", my approach to the
subject was this. I too could have written a polemic about that issue. But i prefer to take a less vituperative approach. Instead of joining the heated debate on obamacare, i went this
positive route.(my stock LPNT went up by 4% on friday(yesterday) alone. check it out). On the issue of selfies and women narcissism, again i went with a
positive approach. Thedude3737 recently gave me some
good tips. Stuff like these add value to my life.
Instead of getting my knickers twisted into a bunch, I prefer the positive to the negative... though, sometimes, my frustration gets the better of me.
for example. we are only human.
You dont have to do exactly what i do when it comes to feminism, politics, race, iq, etc.... but this is my may of filtering out the good from the bad. My
mark minter post is another one.
To be fair and balanced, the avalanche of threads after threads constantly complaining about feminism, social malaise, white knights, etc do sometimes serves a useful purpose. what do i mean? Every now and then, people that are barristers(lawyers) will say or comment on those threads with their legal background perspective. Discussing all the clever legal way your life can get messed up by a copper(police) or judge etc. e.g. MikeCF invaluable commentaries. During those times, i learn something new. After all, i am not a barrister. Also, some of the comments can be funny and wise-arse. which is not bad. It also serves as a selection for me in determining who i want to eventually meet in real life or not.
#3. One last thing, I hope that you, mr.muc, are simply not jealous that 2wycked have more rep points than you. at the risk of abusing my rep points priviledge, i wont mind giving you a rep point, and also, one for my 2wycked too. To make things amicable. Everybody brings what they think adds value as long as a person is not trolling.
I like some of 2wycked psychoanalysis, the same way i like T aka rickyraw; if that is his domain, that is his domain.
Since this forum covers game, traveling, lifestyle, knowledge/arts, and everything else. Let people contribute where they are comfortable and knowledgeable instead of pulling a dashglobal(making shite up). It is a buffet. Pick and choose which area you are most comfortable, just make sure you fulfill a fundamental criterion: that you are adding value.
that is my humble opinion,
-Nemencine