I have always believed that we transfer our state to other people. And that we can do this either consciously or unconsciously. Ever notice how you get a lift whenever you meet a happy person? Well, I also thinks this works with attraction and I got to personally experience it the other night.
I was talking to this girl, her husband, and his sister - pretty face but not so great body. Initially, I thought she was cute but I wasn't really sexual attracted to her. But I could also tell she was sexually attracted to me. Anyway, I ended up talking to this girl for most of the night even though she wasn't the best looking girl I had met that night. And an interesting thing happened, the more I interacted with this girl the more attracted I found her to be. If she wasn't there with her husband I would have pushed for a close towards the end of the night. In a matter of two hours this girl was able to raise MY attraction level to her quite a bit. Now how did she do this?
She did it by expressing her attraction to me. When we were talking she would lean into me, press her breast against my arm. She would look at me directly in my eyes. Her eyes would sparkle with excitement when she was talking to me. She would touch me a lot. She would talk very close to my mouth - her mouth being just a few inches away from mine. By doing all of these things she was conveying her attraction for me TO me. And by doing so she slowly raised MY attraction level for her. And it pretty much happened automatically I didn't even realize it was happening until I started to feel uncomfortable because her husband was sitting right there. I don't think there was anything I could have done to stop it even if I wanted to except to leave. Actually, I did leave a few times, but I kept going back - that's how strong this kind of stuff is...
This is what I mean when I say your desire is your strongest weapon. The ability to express your desire, the way this girl did that night - in a blatant and apologetic manner, can and will increase someone attraction level for you. This is also a good filter for girls that just want some attention and are not attracted to you at all - they will simply become uncomfortable and leave. I was impressed how smooth and confident this young girl was - I felt like I was the girl being picked up. And she served to remind me that this is an area I have to tighten up on.
PS This is not the first time this has happened to me but it's the most recent and it just served to remind me about how powerful this can be. The only problem with using this is that you can't fake it, it's not a "pickup" technique, your attraction has to be real. I wonder if you can fake this through standard kino escalation...I think if you are good enough actor you might be able to.
I was talking to this girl, her husband, and his sister - pretty face but not so great body. Initially, I thought she was cute but I wasn't really sexual attracted to her. But I could also tell she was sexually attracted to me. Anyway, I ended up talking to this girl for most of the night even though she wasn't the best looking girl I had met that night. And an interesting thing happened, the more I interacted with this girl the more attracted I found her to be. If she wasn't there with her husband I would have pushed for a close towards the end of the night. In a matter of two hours this girl was able to raise MY attraction level to her quite a bit. Now how did she do this?
She did it by expressing her attraction to me. When we were talking she would lean into me, press her breast against my arm. She would look at me directly in my eyes. Her eyes would sparkle with excitement when she was talking to me. She would touch me a lot. She would talk very close to my mouth - her mouth being just a few inches away from mine. By doing all of these things she was conveying her attraction for me TO me. And by doing so she slowly raised MY attraction level for her. And it pretty much happened automatically I didn't even realize it was happening until I started to feel uncomfortable because her husband was sitting right there. I don't think there was anything I could have done to stop it even if I wanted to except to leave. Actually, I did leave a few times, but I kept going back - that's how strong this kind of stuff is...
This is what I mean when I say your desire is your strongest weapon. The ability to express your desire, the way this girl did that night - in a blatant and apologetic manner, can and will increase someone attraction level for you. This is also a good filter for girls that just want some attention and are not attracted to you at all - they will simply become uncomfortable and leave. I was impressed how smooth and confident this young girl was - I felt like I was the girl being picked up. And she served to remind me that this is an area I have to tighten up on.
PS This is not the first time this has happened to me but it's the most recent and it just served to remind me about how powerful this can be. The only problem with using this is that you can't fake it, it's not a "pickup" technique, your attraction has to be real. I wonder if you can fake this through standard kino escalation...I think if you are good enough actor you might be able to.