I know I'm not the only fan of easy lays on here, there is something to be said when you "rise to the occasion" and your game is "next level", but typically I prefer it when a girl cooperates from the get go. I've had my fair share of bangs where I had to disarm cock blockers, befriend "mother hens", game the group, and jump through a bunch of hoops to get the lay.
There is a certain level of satisfaction when you get the pussy on nights like those, a sense of victory or conquest, especially if the girls is mad fine. That said, if I had the option of having to deal with all that shit, or chat up a girl for 30 minutes at the bar and then say "lets get out of here", and then go straight to my house to bang, then I'd take the easier route 9 out of 10 times.
I've stated in the past that the hotter the girl, especially in relation to your looks, the tighter your game needs to be and the more "hoops" you may have potentially jump through. I suppose that it's just a fact of life, that higher caliber women will require more "work" or higher "value" to attain.
Recently my bangs for 2013, with the exception of new years' morning bang, have been pretty exceptionally easy to pull. Unfortunately keeping it 100% these chicks have been in the 5-7 range, which isn't anything to write home about, but a "6" on average in terms of looks. It probably helps my case that women most likely would rate me a "7" so a 6 is going to be about 10 X easier for me to pull than say an 8 or 9.
Last night for example I was about to throw in the towel, the bar scene was fucking weak as shit, probably about 4 to 1 guys to girls ratio, and only a few "lookers". Around 12:30 right when I was going to bail an influx of people showed up to fill in the bar, which was more or less empty, aside from all the sausage that was there previously.
I decided to linger and scope out the scene and if I eyed any prospects, I'd maybe grab one more beer and see what's popping, I rationalized spending an extra 45 mins at the bar may be worth the loss of sleep if I get something going, or at least add a prospect or two to my phone to work with.
I noticed a brunette with her friend eye fucking the shit out of me on the corner of the dancefloor, she was probably a 7 for this town. In the past I kind of would second guess these signals, but now with my experience in game knowledge, plus studying of facial expressions and body language, I'm pretty confident on picking up the signals.
I probably should have just approached the girl out right, but I kind of bitched out and rationalized that she's talking to her friend and it's too loud by the dancefloor. However, I figured I'd grab a drink and try to wait for a more strategic opportunity to try and step to her.
While I'm ordering my beer a Latina chick with a slight hippyish vibe rolled up next to me to get a drink. She wasn't that fine, probably a 6, but I figured I'd open her anyways, to at least warm up and see if I couldn't maybe create some intrigue with some other honeys.
The Latina seemed to be feeling me pretty good from the onset, the conversation was flowing pretty good, and I guess maybe because I wasn't that into her, that I didn't get any level of nervousness, my game that I was spitting was especially crisp and smooth. I conciously was aware that my game was good, my body language was on point and confident/dominant.
The Latina started to give me some cues that she was into me, so I started kinoing and flirting a bit more. At this point I wasn't really that into this chick, but she's all I really had worked with at this point in the night, and figured I'd just try to go for the easy lay up, because why not if I could get my dick sucked right?
The crucial point came when she some how said something about how she's doing laundry tomarrow and how she hated the dress she was wearing, but was running out of clean clothes. I made the comment that I thought she looked good and I liked her dress, then said with a coy smile, "how about me, how am I looking tonight?"
She said something some what dismissive, like "you're not looking that bad", but the way she said it, her facial expression and the look in her eyes, the way she kind of slightly bit her lip, etc., told me that she was in fact pretty damn attracted to me.
I replied with "oh really", and then I leaned in and went straight for a sloppy wet kiss, which she responded to by acting kind of like a dude trying to run caveman game, and straight up pulled me in and started to make out hard. It kind of caught me off guard and I actually had to physically pull myself away from her, and kind of push her off of me.
After about another 20 minutes of conversing at the bar and a couple more make outs, I suggested that "we get out of here", she gave me a little bit of resistance, saying that she had to pick up her younger 18 year old sister from some house party. I was like okay whatever is clever, your sister is an adult she'll be okay, the Latina chick was like well let me text her real quick, and apparently her sister said she was just going to crash at the house, since it was her friends place.
After about a total of 30 minutes of conversation she agreed to leave with me, she said that she wanted to drive herself and would follow me to my house. I was kind of half expecting that she wasn't going to come back when she went to retrieve her car which she had parked a couple streets away from me, but right as I was about to say fuck it and leave, she pulled up behind me.
She followed me to my house, we chilled and talked for maybe 5-10 minutes and then started going at it on the couch, then we went to my room and got down to business. It was particularly lame that she insisted that she wouldn't suck my dick without a condom on, this was the first time this has happened to me on U.S. soil, and only the second time it's happened at all.
Getting your dick sucked with a condom on is lame as shit, but I don't have to tell you guys that. Fortunately she had a really tight puss and I broke two magnum condom fucking her, and ended up raw dogging, while hitting it doggie style, when the second condom broke, pulled out and blasted all over her ass.
As soon as I busted she was like well that was fun and got her shit together and left. It was cool with me, didn't have to drive her anywhere, I got to smoke some weed and pass the fuck out.
I "invested" about 30 minutes of conversation in this girl, didn't spend a dime on her, didn't have to drive her any where, got to bust a nut, and go to sleep, without having to deal with awkwardness, or having some chick I'm not that into spend the night.
Now I know this posted dragged on and you might be thinking what's the point, the point is I like it when I don't have to put any real "work" into getting laid. It's refreshing to just meet a girl who is DTF and cooperates with no hassle or bullshit.
However, let me state that I'm not advocating that guys all go out and strive to "pick low hanging fruit" because it's easier, but there is a time and place for everything, and for some guys a nice easy lay can be what they need at times.
I would prefer to deal with a bit more hassle and put in more work if it means fucking a hotter girl who is 7.5+, but the hope is one day I will be able to fuck those chicks with the same ease that I fuck 6's...
There is a certain level of satisfaction when you get the pussy on nights like those, a sense of victory or conquest, especially if the girls is mad fine. That said, if I had the option of having to deal with all that shit, or chat up a girl for 30 minutes at the bar and then say "lets get out of here", and then go straight to my house to bang, then I'd take the easier route 9 out of 10 times.
I've stated in the past that the hotter the girl, especially in relation to your looks, the tighter your game needs to be and the more "hoops" you may have potentially jump through. I suppose that it's just a fact of life, that higher caliber women will require more "work" or higher "value" to attain.
Recently my bangs for 2013, with the exception of new years' morning bang, have been pretty exceptionally easy to pull. Unfortunately keeping it 100% these chicks have been in the 5-7 range, which isn't anything to write home about, but a "6" on average in terms of looks. It probably helps my case that women most likely would rate me a "7" so a 6 is going to be about 10 X easier for me to pull than say an 8 or 9.
Last night for example I was about to throw in the towel, the bar scene was fucking weak as shit, probably about 4 to 1 guys to girls ratio, and only a few "lookers". Around 12:30 right when I was going to bail an influx of people showed up to fill in the bar, which was more or less empty, aside from all the sausage that was there previously.
I decided to linger and scope out the scene and if I eyed any prospects, I'd maybe grab one more beer and see what's popping, I rationalized spending an extra 45 mins at the bar may be worth the loss of sleep if I get something going, or at least add a prospect or two to my phone to work with.
I noticed a brunette with her friend eye fucking the shit out of me on the corner of the dancefloor, she was probably a 7 for this town. In the past I kind of would second guess these signals, but now with my experience in game knowledge, plus studying of facial expressions and body language, I'm pretty confident on picking up the signals.
I probably should have just approached the girl out right, but I kind of bitched out and rationalized that she's talking to her friend and it's too loud by the dancefloor. However, I figured I'd grab a drink and try to wait for a more strategic opportunity to try and step to her.
While I'm ordering my beer a Latina chick with a slight hippyish vibe rolled up next to me to get a drink. She wasn't that fine, probably a 6, but I figured I'd open her anyways, to at least warm up and see if I couldn't maybe create some intrigue with some other honeys.
The Latina seemed to be feeling me pretty good from the onset, the conversation was flowing pretty good, and I guess maybe because I wasn't that into her, that I didn't get any level of nervousness, my game that I was spitting was especially crisp and smooth. I conciously was aware that my game was good, my body language was on point and confident/dominant.
The Latina started to give me some cues that she was into me, so I started kinoing and flirting a bit more. At this point I wasn't really that into this chick, but she's all I really had worked with at this point in the night, and figured I'd just try to go for the easy lay up, because why not if I could get my dick sucked right?
The crucial point came when she some how said something about how she's doing laundry tomarrow and how she hated the dress she was wearing, but was running out of clean clothes. I made the comment that I thought she looked good and I liked her dress, then said with a coy smile, "how about me, how am I looking tonight?"
She said something some what dismissive, like "you're not looking that bad", but the way she said it, her facial expression and the look in her eyes, the way she kind of slightly bit her lip, etc., told me that she was in fact pretty damn attracted to me.
I replied with "oh really", and then I leaned in and went straight for a sloppy wet kiss, which she responded to by acting kind of like a dude trying to run caveman game, and straight up pulled me in and started to make out hard. It kind of caught me off guard and I actually had to physically pull myself away from her, and kind of push her off of me.
After about another 20 minutes of conversing at the bar and a couple more make outs, I suggested that "we get out of here", she gave me a little bit of resistance, saying that she had to pick up her younger 18 year old sister from some house party. I was like okay whatever is clever, your sister is an adult she'll be okay, the Latina chick was like well let me text her real quick, and apparently her sister said she was just going to crash at the house, since it was her friends place.
After about a total of 30 minutes of conversation she agreed to leave with me, she said that she wanted to drive herself and would follow me to my house. I was kind of half expecting that she wasn't going to come back when she went to retrieve her car which she had parked a couple streets away from me, but right as I was about to say fuck it and leave, she pulled up behind me.
She followed me to my house, we chilled and talked for maybe 5-10 minutes and then started going at it on the couch, then we went to my room and got down to business. It was particularly lame that she insisted that she wouldn't suck my dick without a condom on, this was the first time this has happened to me on U.S. soil, and only the second time it's happened at all.
Getting your dick sucked with a condom on is lame as shit, but I don't have to tell you guys that. Fortunately she had a really tight puss and I broke two magnum condom fucking her, and ended up raw dogging, while hitting it doggie style, when the second condom broke, pulled out and blasted all over her ass.
As soon as I busted she was like well that was fun and got her shit together and left. It was cool with me, didn't have to drive her anywhere, I got to smoke some weed and pass the fuck out.
I "invested" about 30 minutes of conversation in this girl, didn't spend a dime on her, didn't have to drive her any where, got to bust a nut, and go to sleep, without having to deal with awkwardness, or having some chick I'm not that into spend the night.
Now I know this posted dragged on and you might be thinking what's the point, the point is I like it when I don't have to put any real "work" into getting laid. It's refreshing to just meet a girl who is DTF and cooperates with no hassle or bullshit.
However, let me state that I'm not advocating that guys all go out and strive to "pick low hanging fruit" because it's easier, but there is a time and place for everything, and for some guys a nice easy lay can be what they need at times.
I would prefer to deal with a bit more hassle and put in more work if it means fucking a hotter girl who is 7.5+, but the hope is one day I will be able to fuck those chicks with the same ease that I fuck 6's...