Chatted up a girl and her friend at a happy hr last week, escalated with only light kino but ended up grabbing her # and heading to meet a friend after about 45 min. Texted her a couple days later and we have a playful exchange where she is asking me questions to keep convo going, I am only responding with statements.
Then I throw it out there that we should get together for a drink the following week. She suddenly takes a lot longer to get back to me and writes this long txt response basically telling me how busy she is this week, that she just started seeing someone and basically LJBF.
Now, I feel like this objection would've come up right away when I initially approached her. So I'm wondering how to move forward from here. Basically considering the following:
a. short response ignoring her previous txt like "lol ok so drinks on Tues?"
b. change the frame "..I expect friends of mine to hook me up with their cute female friends, etc."
c. don't respond, cut off contact and write it off as a lost cause
Any other ideas are welcome tho..
Then I throw it out there that we should get together for a drink the following week. She suddenly takes a lot longer to get back to me and writes this long txt response basically telling me how busy she is this week, that she just started seeing someone and basically LJBF.
Now, I feel like this objection would've come up right away when I initially approached her. So I'm wondering how to move forward from here. Basically considering the following:
a. short response ignoring her previous txt like "lol ok so drinks on Tues?"
b. change the frame "..I expect friends of mine to hook me up with their cute female friends, etc."
c. don't respond, cut off contact and write it off as a lost cause
Any other ideas are welcome tho..