Living in SEA, I got very picky about girls for exclusive LTR. However, please kindly advice me with the following one.
her...
21 years old
looks: 8/10
clinginess: 7/10 (good in my book, i like a hot girl who always wants cuddle, hold hands, close proximity, now I "only" need to add "often horny" and "sexually outgoing" to her)
happyness: 8/10
horniness: 3/10
sexual skills: 3/10
Easy to have fun conversation with. That's a girl worth committing to. She's very attentive in the current moment, authentic, and I believe I can read her easily.
Before she had a three years long distance relationship. Speak: barely any sex. Seems believable. Didn't ask what was before that, not sure if important, not sure if useful, not sure I should. Doubt she was virgin though. (No blood.) Math insists that she didn't have too many years and too many guys to gather sexual experience and openness. It may be up to me to teach her. How?
Before she told me she's on her period. She was buying and wearing pads. But I wouldn't let that discourage me from trying to fuck her because I know some girls had already sex during period or could be converted to trying. I personally don't mind. Did it before. Easy. Horniness is bigger than the slight discomfort. Thought, easy decision. Better try, score and bonding than slight discomfort. Didn't lick a girl on her period yet but she would have been the first one if there was actual blood. Without the licking, I don't think I could have made her horny enough to fuck her. More below. The hotter the girl, the more I am enjoying licking her. Maybe she wasn't on her period and just wanted and excuse to avoid sex or was at the very beginning or very end. Didn't deepen the subject (don't call her on her excuses designed for slowing down seduction to not harden that behavior).
Had sex with her only once in the evening.
Was very difficult to seduce her. She was very hesitant. Low horniness. Almost failed to seduce her.
She interrupted me "Do you have a girlfriend?". Answer, no. "You didn't court me yet." - had no idea what that is even supposed to mean. Never heard that before. Went on with makeout, improvised and told her, that "i want you very much", "you're the perfect girl for me". Convinced her. That allowed me to undo her pants. I went on to lick her which made her horny enough so I could fuck her. Not sure she came from the licking when she stopped me. To make sure she doesn't cool down I kept licking her while I putting on the condom.
The walls were barely soundproof. That discouraged her. Maybe that's a major obstacle. Worth asking for advice here anyhow.
Very tight for whatever that comment is worth. Is there relation between how often girls fuck and how tight they are?
Then she badly wanted to sleep. Weird. Shes's young and for our first encounter we should be banging the hell out of each other, no?
I find it difficult to make her horny. She reacts bad to even slight dominance. She doesn't like pulling her hair or choking her.
Next day she even told me the next day a horror story about her female friend and her boyfriend abusing her. She views dominance as sadism. Not as exciting / action. However, thought her that. Told her to kiss my ear, that she refused and finds gross.
She doesn't enjoy being kissed at her neck, ear or belly, she finds that ticklish. Not too uncommon in SEA. But her case is severe. Possible to rewire her ticklish feeling into arousal?
Massages she enjoys, makes her relaxed, but doesn't turn her on. She didn't let me finger her.
So to turn her on I have only a very limited repertoire of options, that is wild kissing, medium-strong hugs, lie on her and dry sex, licking tits, licking pussy.
Money: I pay hotel, food, transportation. She doesn't ask or discuss money.
She seems super hyped up about me but her horniness is low. She keep complementing me like no other girl before. I have a good connection to her. She wants me to meet her family already. This is a very big sign of interest of her, right? I said yes, but I am a bit hesitate about it. Don't want to embarrass her by leaving her after a while if the sex is rare. Such a nice guy I am still (not even convinced to stop being). My biggest doubt about her is that the sex thing won't work out. Unfortunately, I will not accept an almost perfect relationship with rare sex.
Case of LSE? Too early to tell probably? Anyhow, any advice?
goal minimum: fuck at least somewhat easy twice in the evening and once in the morning. Otherwise I am afraid I can't have a super hot girl sleep next to me for multiple days without getting off. And masturbation while she's with me seems besides the point and lame.
goal optimal: highly converted gf, being able to make her horny easily, and fuck her whenever i want (had this with an ex of mine who was sexually hyper active, wanted more sex than me or other girls who could be made horny easily)
goal optimal: make her sexually more open, this could be a very long term project
It happen to me before in similar ways. I had a super hot girl. In the first week we fucked a lot. She had many guys before me. You know, others would call her slut but got happy about sexually open girls that easy and fuck great. Then she started making excuses why she couldn't have sex with me. (Period; cramps; already helped myself; tired; sick) She was much less hyped up about me. Couldn't make the butterflies come back. Nothing even other girls interested in me could get her attraction back up. Therefore I discussed it with her twice and then ended it. Was wondering why she's with me anyhow. For food and better room only? She could have gotten more financial benefit from any other guy and she knows that. Did she just like me as "flatmate"?
Maybe the sex got boring over time. Maybe I overfucked her. Maybe I should fuck girls less during the initial butterfly phase? I am already re-reading sex god method back and forth. On the other hand, other girls were easily satisfied even long term.
her...
21 years old
looks: 8/10
clinginess: 7/10 (good in my book, i like a hot girl who always wants cuddle, hold hands, close proximity, now I "only" need to add "often horny" and "sexually outgoing" to her)
happyness: 8/10
horniness: 3/10
sexual skills: 3/10
Easy to have fun conversation with. That's a girl worth committing to. She's very attentive in the current moment, authentic, and I believe I can read her easily.
Before she had a three years long distance relationship. Speak: barely any sex. Seems believable. Didn't ask what was before that, not sure if important, not sure if useful, not sure I should. Doubt she was virgin though. (No blood.) Math insists that she didn't have too many years and too many guys to gather sexual experience and openness. It may be up to me to teach her. How?
Before she told me she's on her period. She was buying and wearing pads. But I wouldn't let that discourage me from trying to fuck her because I know some girls had already sex during period or could be converted to trying. I personally don't mind. Did it before. Easy. Horniness is bigger than the slight discomfort. Thought, easy decision. Better try, score and bonding than slight discomfort. Didn't lick a girl on her period yet but she would have been the first one if there was actual blood. Without the licking, I don't think I could have made her horny enough to fuck her. More below. The hotter the girl, the more I am enjoying licking her. Maybe she wasn't on her period and just wanted and excuse to avoid sex or was at the very beginning or very end. Didn't deepen the subject (don't call her on her excuses designed for slowing down seduction to not harden that behavior).
Had sex with her only once in the evening.
Was very difficult to seduce her. She was very hesitant. Low horniness. Almost failed to seduce her.
She interrupted me "Do you have a girlfriend?". Answer, no. "You didn't court me yet." - had no idea what that is even supposed to mean. Never heard that before. Went on with makeout, improvised and told her, that "i want you very much", "you're the perfect girl for me". Convinced her. That allowed me to undo her pants. I went on to lick her which made her horny enough so I could fuck her. Not sure she came from the licking when she stopped me. To make sure she doesn't cool down I kept licking her while I putting on the condom.
The walls were barely soundproof. That discouraged her. Maybe that's a major obstacle. Worth asking for advice here anyhow.
Very tight for whatever that comment is worth. Is there relation between how often girls fuck and how tight they are?
Then she badly wanted to sleep. Weird. Shes's young and for our first encounter we should be banging the hell out of each other, no?
I find it difficult to make her horny. She reacts bad to even slight dominance. She doesn't like pulling her hair or choking her.
Next day she even told me the next day a horror story about her female friend and her boyfriend abusing her. She views dominance as sadism. Not as exciting / action. However, thought her that. Told her to kiss my ear, that she refused and finds gross.
She doesn't enjoy being kissed at her neck, ear or belly, she finds that ticklish. Not too uncommon in SEA. But her case is severe. Possible to rewire her ticklish feeling into arousal?
Massages she enjoys, makes her relaxed, but doesn't turn her on. She didn't let me finger her.
So to turn her on I have only a very limited repertoire of options, that is wild kissing, medium-strong hugs, lie on her and dry sex, licking tits, licking pussy.
Money: I pay hotel, food, transportation. She doesn't ask or discuss money.
She seems super hyped up about me but her horniness is low. She keep complementing me like no other girl before. I have a good connection to her. She wants me to meet her family already. This is a very big sign of interest of her, right? I said yes, but I am a bit hesitate about it. Don't want to embarrass her by leaving her after a while if the sex is rare. Such a nice guy I am still (not even convinced to stop being). My biggest doubt about her is that the sex thing won't work out. Unfortunately, I will not accept an almost perfect relationship with rare sex.
Case of LSE? Too early to tell probably? Anyhow, any advice?
goal minimum: fuck at least somewhat easy twice in the evening and once in the morning. Otherwise I am afraid I can't have a super hot girl sleep next to me for multiple days without getting off. And masturbation while she's with me seems besides the point and lame.
goal optimal: highly converted gf, being able to make her horny easily, and fuck her whenever i want (had this with an ex of mine who was sexually hyper active, wanted more sex than me or other girls who could be made horny easily)
goal optimal: make her sexually more open, this could be a very long term project
It happen to me before in similar ways. I had a super hot girl. In the first week we fucked a lot. She had many guys before me. You know, others would call her slut but got happy about sexually open girls that easy and fuck great. Then she started making excuses why she couldn't have sex with me. (Period; cramps; already helped myself; tired; sick) She was much less hyped up about me. Couldn't make the butterflies come back. Nothing even other girls interested in me could get her attraction back up. Therefore I discussed it with her twice and then ended it. Was wondering why she's with me anyhow. For food and better room only? She could have gotten more financial benefit from any other guy and she knows that. Did she just like me as "flatmate"?
Maybe the sex got boring over time. Maybe I overfucked her. Maybe I should fuck girls less during the initial butterfly phase? I am already re-reading sex god method back and forth. On the other hand, other girls were easily satisfied even long term.