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How to play long game?
05-23-2017, 12:48 PM
You have a chick who you cannot bang due to logistical reasons, so you decide to go the long game route. What is the best way to go about this?
Do you ping every now and then to keep you fresh in their minds, or do you let them come to you.
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How to play long game?
05-23-2017, 01:32 PM
I'm assuming you haven't banged her at all, right? If so, this is likely a lost cause. You don't build attraction via the phone, or by friendzoning yourself because logistics don't work for the bang. My strategy is, if I know I'm going to be away from a girl I want to see in the future, I push hard for repeated bangs, and then deliver my best. If I do well, I have a much greater chance of reheating the leftovers later because I've made a serious emotional imprint. If you haven't banged this chick, it's going to be a lot harder, and odds are, she will forget about you and branch to someone else. That said:
1: Don't waste too much time on this girl because you're not banging her. Most important piece of advice. Bang other women that logistically work. If you're already doing this, proceed to step 2.
2: Determine if/when the logistical situation is going to change. If this is due to your logistics and not hers, okay. You may proceed. If it's her logistics that don't work? Don't bother. You'll be wasting time. Once you know your time horizon, you can plan using step 3.
3: If somehow it seems all the stars are going to align, then you hit her up a a few days to a week ahead of time and set something up where you can push for the bang. The phone is not a device used to build attraction. If you've already banged her twice, you should be able to pull this off with no problem. If you haven't? Try anyway and see what happens. Don't be too hopeful, but it's better than wasting your time texting her every couple of weeks like an orbiter.
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How to play long game?
05-23-2017, 02:13 PM
as the opportunity presents itself, demonstrate pre-selection, social proof, dread game. i.e. have her see you with other women with an attitude of abundance.
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How to play long game?
05-23-2017, 03:21 PM
Don't even worry about it.
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How to play long game?
05-23-2017, 03:28 PM
Just talk with her through facebook or whats app anything that wont cost you anything to keep in contact. Also allows you send funny photos and videos.
I'm doing this right now with a korean ex gf. Things ended well between her and i so it's very easy to go sexual with her.
However, IF you want to keep in contact with her with no plans to meet her you'll have to be ok with her dating and fucking other guys.