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Conservative virgin - Mission impossible?
10-04-2015, 05:35 AM
Hey guys,
I'm kinda stuck with this girl. She's a 19-year-old Chinese exchange student who is staying here for a couple of months. She's pretty conservative, most likely virgin and probably never even got close to a guy in her entire life. I went on 3 dates with her so far, one being salsa class. The only escalation that happened was apparently in the salsa class, hugging and putting my arm around her when sitting close to each other. That's all she was comfortable with. At first she wasn't even comfortable with hugging. She seems to enjoy spending time with me but is very shy with escalation in public.
My place is not an option at the moment. She has a single room in a student dorm.
I don't want to do many more dates which go nowhere.
What is the best way to losen her up and invite myself back into her dorm?
Or is this simply mission impossible?
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10-04-2015, 08:00 AM
This is the kind of girl that makes a perfect wife for a white guy living in China, if she has the physical looks on the acceptable side and is a virgin. A conservative exchange student will be VERY hard to bang, as they often have strict rules and curfews at the dorm.
Those girls are the perfect example of why Western guys go wife-hunting abroad. I'd say that unless she makes a move to make it happen, your energy would be better spent getting easier chicks. It will be a very small reward if you get her IMO.
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10-04-2015, 12:00 PM
I would just make a move and see what happens.
I went on a few dates with a Chinese virgin with huge knockers (9)
I finally made the move to my place to go for the bang, she came over, but it didn't pan out, and I knew I was wasting my time.
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10-04-2015, 02:04 PM
Quote: (10-04-2015 08:00 AM)Rawmeo Wrote:
A conservative exchange student will be VERY hard to bang, as they often have strict rules and curfews at the dorm.
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10-06-2015, 02:08 PM
If she drinks, get her drunk. Then pull off your best game.
If she doesn't, then that's going to be tough, but not impossible. My advice would be to use salsa, get the dance between you more hot. But just like Rawmeo said, your energy would be better spend on another girl.
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10-06-2015, 02:12 PM
You can bang her eventually but you should be prepared to LTR her.
If she isn't LTR material let her go.
PM me for accommodation options in Bangkok.
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06-10-2016, 02:02 PM
Get to know her parents, get married, learn some Chinese, and enjoy good cooking for the rest of your life.
If you're just trying to screw around, find a slut.
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06-10-2016, 04:53 PM
are you guys serious? you really believe in this virgin nonsense. I dated virgin chicks when I was younger, they all were more perverted than other chicks, blowed many dudes, cum on their faces, but hey they kept their virginity and the guys who married them had no idea, many of these chicks were even religious and very conservative. You built yourself an illusion and by the way they cheated, but blowing doesn't count right?
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06-10-2016, 08:55 PM
a) If she is attractive, she is most likely not a virgin.
b) Public displays of affection in China (and many Asian countries) are taboo, so don't be too worried about her apparent reluctance about you hugging her.
c) She's an exchange student. Offer to go with her to a nearby tourist destination for the weekend - she will want to see your country and if she's into you she will accept or at the very least show IOIs (not only is she on holidays where she can keep her fucking a secret, but it will remove her from any toxic female influences in your own country)
d) In the unlikely event she is a virgin and you fuck her, be prepared for drama.
Good luck.
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06-17-2016, 08:54 PM
I was in a very similar situation a few years back. I met a cute girl from China and asked her out. It didn't take long for me to figure out she was a virgin, as she was so socially awkward with me in a one-on-one setting. My suspicions were confirmed when I went for and successfully got a kiss -- and she confessed she'd never done that before (and it was obvious she hadn't). I believe this was the look on my face after finding that out...
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From there, we started spending more time together. Not every day though, as I was still spinning other plates. Initially, I would see her once maybe twice a week but more frequently later on. Each time I'd see her, I'd try pushing the interaction further than I'd gotten the time before. It was awesome being able to "train" a girl how to pleasure me in exactly the ways I wanted it.
If you want a short cut to getting in her pants, agree to enter into a relationship with her once it's obvious that's what she wants. Don't worry, you can still see other girls if you want, just don't let her find out. From her perspective, she should think you're taking the relationship seriously. Maybe it wasn't the nicest thing in the world for me to do -- but I'd often visit my other spinning plates to let loose a sexually frustrated nut when my attempts to get into the virgin's pants were shot down because she wasn't "ready" yet. I don't think I would've been able to hold out long enough to get the bang had I not had other sloots to rely on in the interim.
In all, it took me four-and-a-half months to go from first date to actual sex. In my opinion, it was well worth it. It's good for a man's psyche to bang at least one virgin in his life. I made sure to be her first with everything from making out to ultimately raw dog vaginal/anal sex. I was just in the right time and place to capitalize on meeting a girl who had a strict upbringing, at a time she was prepared to lose her virginity to a worthy guy.
Pros:
Getting to be a girl's first
Training her to do what you like
She'll grow very attached, giving you the upper-hand in the relationship
Cons:
You'll have to invest a lot of time in order to get the notch (wait time is somewhat negated by spinning other plates during your v-card pursuit)
First time banging her will likely be awful/it will take some time to "break her in")
She'll grow very attached, making you feel smothered at times
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06-18-2016, 03:18 PM
Study together at her place or ask her to show you something in her dorm. I used to get in to girl's dorms by asking what they study and being curious in their notes on subjects I find interesting. Whatever. Bring wine or other booze to drink in the meantime. The rest is in your hands.
Do not escalate in public places. Never.
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06-20-2016, 05:02 PM
For this kind of girl you need to spent a lot of time and energy in order to get her into her pants, you know all the stupid bases like Highschool and there is a VERY big chance that she will leave you empty handed. My advice, don't even waste your time, if she is in exchange ( 6 months or so?) not even worth it.