Player have to's?
02-24-2016, 02:39 PM
Anyone can be a nightlife God. Most guys at least.
But the question was about harem of tens.
And assumed in reply was the average to intermediate player who's sniping chicks one by one and taking them home. This is the guy that most night game players start as. One night stands with girls that only go to clubs on the weekend. This guy is not a nightlife God. He's a player doing what players do. Cold approaches on cute girls.
But back to tens
Ten behavior is just extreme girl behavior.
A random girl doesn't look to hook up with random dudes. She only bangs
1) guys she knows
2) guys that are off the charts in some ways
Universal constant and way before the red pill.
You know this, but *why* are girls like this?
One of the reasons is she cares a lot about her social status. Guys she knows are vetted, and a guy that is super hot, ripped, rich, famous...that is obvious.
But all the rest of the time she's cold towards strangers. You've got to have decent game to break the ice.
The Ten experiences this on a greater level. And she's even more conscious of her social status. Dealing with a woman who's been treated like a Ten runs the gamut. She can be pleasant and warm and you still can't break through. She can be a bitch, but that can work against her.
So to get to her, you have to go back to the list of who chicks bang
- guys they know, guys in their social circle
- guys that are off the charts
It's not easy to be opulently rich, famous, or have a perfect face. But those are all really secondary attraction strategies.
You know girls at this point, their social circles are in the thousands, but they typically only have close ties with a few dozen at the most.
But in a big city they often go out.
The real boss bitches aren't going into these places as civilians, they go as officers. They don't want to mix with the lower forms of life. I'm often surprised for how much hot chicks think about this.
Now, you can always cold approach a Ten. Run your game and break her mind.
But if you want success, you want warm approaches.
How do you become a guy in her real social circle?
Who does she hang with what you can get at?
In the club scene, it's promoters, djs, owners, whales.
You need to get next to them.
What do those guys want?
Fame attention accolades women drugs fun...
It's a lot of things
Owners tend to be scarce. They're usually not part of the chaos of a good club.
Club managers are working. Talk to those guys on during down time.
Whales, usually alphas in whatever made them rich are on their guard for leeches and parasites. If you're a legit up and comer in some other field, maybe you can connect, but that's never the place I've made those contacts with that angle. Rich guys especially, like to back winners.
So those three factions are on a lower level.
Promoters need chicks to come out.
Djs need a crowd to follow them from club to club
That's the set up.
What you're becoming is a free lance part time promoter without a club...kinda. You are becoming the connected guy by going out and making connections. You are the spider weaving a web.
Getting the chicks for this?
This is night game mastery, so you can't begin to do this if you're not getting regular one night stands with women that you can be seen in public with. You need to be hitting the clubs for your own immediate interests period.
Now,
I can ask two of my cute co-workers to go have done drinks after work at the chill new place. If I've already been there, I might be able to skip the line or get some special service.
If not, I make it a point to connect with staff.
Archie, how ya doing.
As happy hour goes on, I will flirt with co workers but also include passerbys into our conversation.
"Settle a bet" is the gambit I would use. If you run a holding court style game, it helps to be loud. If you're not loud, be animated. If you're not either, good material gets loud laughs.
So now I'm merging sets. I'm using co-workers as social proof and pulling in strangers.
If I'm really on my game I talk to every set that passes by, and when possible connect strangers. (This is mystery's group theory).
"Damn Sheniqua, you're from the Boot? Did you meet Darnell from Lafayette?" Then I might go find Darnell.
My co-workers will be having fun, strangers will be having fun, staff will be making money and ideally remembering the Method Man looking guy next time I show up.
I do this repeatedly, and now I'm a regular, but I also know the regulars.
When I bring Tamika and Keisha this time, I'm going to find Daqan chilling with his crew. I met Daqan a couple weeks back and turns out we're both comic book fans.
Now me and Daqan are bar buddies. And Daqan got hoes. I'll do the same thing with Miguel at the Cuban bar, and if possible with Ahmed at the hookah spot.
Everywhere I go I want to know somebody. (Right now, I'd kill for a local accountant)
These initial girls were co-workers. I'm not trying to bang, but they social proof me. They allow me to bring strangers into a conversation. I will bring a fat girl or a guy into the conversation.
I do all of these chess moves to connect with and become a part of the social fabric of that venue.
In my life, the first time this happened organically, but once you understand the incentives, you can create this artificially.
That was the happy hour version.
The night club version starts by running your typical group game at the happy hour place and heading over to the night club. Or it could be co-workers, classmates, random girls in your life.
Is it easier to convince two girls to bar hop with you, or convince one girl at the club to leave her friends and come to your place to Netflix and chill?
That's a tougher question than it sounds, but moving groups of people from place to place is part of your regular night game. Post club night, I'd say 50% of the time I'd convince a two set or three set to hit the late nite diner. This is a BASIC pickup skill. If you don't practice venue changes you will lose bangs.
This is the same thing bit earlier in the night.
You leave the happy hour with two girls you just met to hit this super happening club..you're totally overselling the dance club, but now you're walking in with two cute chicks.
Make this a part of your skill set, and you get on the radar of the regulars and the promoters and the staff.
You do the same set merger things where you hold court with the two you brought and anyone who passes by.
I'm getting in the radar of the folks that matter, but also figuring out who matters.
Approach the dj or promoter. Get their names, get on the list they have for promotion, grab a phone number.
Bring chicks you know.
Bring plates and chill fb's.
Introduce your chicks to these dudes.
This is maybe a season worth of work, but it should be fun.
WIA, WHERE ARE THE TENS? GET TO THE TENS DAMMIT!
Glad you asked
The hot girl click typically know all the different pieces of the puzzle. What they don't know is you?
They might be chilling with the promoter at goods table or in the dj booth. When you bring your regular chicks that you know from work or from happy hour, you introduce these broads to the men, and to their tens chilling with these guys in the scene. You're not running game on these tens, but now because of your association with a top guy in her social circle, you get on her radar.
Before long you can say what's up to Danette whenever you see her. She is often out with her girls or sometimes solo. But you're playing the long game here.
Danette got other hot girl friends. Plus your cool guy/dj/promoter homie might be into the girls he brings to the venues with him. The other girls are the main targets, the chicks around the nightlife providers are Secret Society.
So your aim is to get on this hot girl's radar and others, but also see what happens when you get to the after hours aspect of the night life.
None of this is Michael Jordan territory.
Your getting a cute girl or a couple of cute girls to come drink with you, hang out.
You're showing staff that you can bring in valuable bodies.
You're easily talking to strangers and making bar friends.
Your getting noticed by the people who have an interest in encouraging you, the staff.
Your just introducing random cute girls to the gatekeepers of cool, the promoter and dj.
By giving the men more chicks to possibly bang, you're then introduced to the chicks you want.
Most guys that are past the approach anxiety stage are probably doing this now, but without any sense of purpose or direction.
Sorry for the long post.
WIA