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11-07-2011, 10:45 PM
I think one of the biggest things that chokes me is thinking that I have to perform at 100%, be the wittiest muthafucker alive and blow every girls mind out of her head.
How flawless is your game? I'm thinking of approaching the next X number of girls as bland as possible just to see if it works, to prove that I don't need to be a magician to get laid.
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11-07-2011, 10:52 PM
Just look at the mistakes that you made in the past and make tweaks. I thought at one point to add girls to facebook that I just met......
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11-07-2011, 10:54 PM
It isn't a magic show, dude. Its fishing. You hook'em, and then reel them in. If you keep pulling rabbits out of hats, the chicks will get tired of it and go search for Chris Angel or something. I believe I've flogged this analogy to death.
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11-07-2011, 11:05 PM
This isn't a science; it's an art. There is no flawlessness. There's effective and ineffective. If you paint an arresting-ass portrait, it does the job for some of the people. Now, if no one likes your paintings, then your technique needs some work. Everyone doesn't like Picasso. Enough people do that you know he's good.
You have to move away from a zero-sum model. Part of the beauty of game is that you can never perfect it. It's an organic process that varies from day to day, situation to situation, recipient to recipient.
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11-08-2011, 12:28 AM
The closest analogy to game is a sporting event.
Baseball. Sometimes you are on fire, every pitch is perfect. With every swing you make contact. You get the clutch hit. You drive one deep. And then...sometime every pitch is a hanging curve. You miss on every swing. You fail with men on base. You pop up.
Soccer. Every touch is great. Every pass in on target. Every flighted ball finds its man...every tackle wins the ball. And then...with each touch the ball bangs off your feet. You pass the ball the other team. Every flighted ball is a floater. Every tackle fails.
What do great athletes do?? Practice. Master techniques. Get up there, be fearless, accept failure as inevitable, but know that success is not only possible but also inevitable. Visualize success. Stay positive, but know it's never easy and takes work.
And when you get that home run to win the game, or score that goal from 25 yards out...or slide that cock into the warm moist pussy and hear the babe moan and say "Oh god, don't stop..."....well, all the practice, all the failure, all the work...it all becomes worth it.
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11-08-2011, 07:34 AM
I make plenty of mistakes, and I'm sure everybody does. They key for me is always focusing on the basics. Approaching, working on my looks/health, having fun and interesting conversations, escalating, isolating, and closing. A lot of things are outside of your control, whether you are hot/cold, on/off is something that is affected by a ton of variables. I just try to give it my best shot every time.
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11-08-2011, 07:47 AM
I make mistakes all the time. Roll with the punches.
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11-08-2011, 11:47 AM
I think your level of game is not entirely measured by how many girls you bed, but your ability to review your errors and constantly improve.
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11-08-2011, 02:33 PM
Being flawless is not the goal since there's no need to be perfect. If you're being perfect chances are many women will be intimidated and will try and crap on you in order to feel better about themselves. Has anyone else experienced that?
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11-08-2011, 03:08 PM
i think the questions should be.. how comfortable you are putting your true personality on the line?
that the holy grail of this IMO
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11-08-2011, 10:11 PM
Cool responses guys. Gonna go out right now actually.
@Gio: Of course blowing their minds 100% of the time would be good, but my issue is dipping when I can't think of something awesome to say. I tend to walk away rather than be 'bland.' Obviously, this is stupid and I should work on being comfortable not responding like a rockstar every time I open my mouth.