This is my specialty.
Over the last few years I've banged dozens and dozens of women, mostly on the first or second date, and never once has the notch occurred at my place. In fact, only a couple of them have
ever been to my place regardless of how many times I banged them. Why? I like my privacy, bitches be crazy, some have husbands/boyfriends necessitating security measures, I've had stalkers, and some of them I just didn't want hanging around.
So, I'm banging them at hotels or their place. Hotels aren't the subject of this thread, but sometimes they are the best option if both of you are far away from home or drunk. I did a mini datasheet on hotel game if that helps
http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-22114-...#pid404419.
I wish I could give you a script, but I can't because I don't use one. One thing I rarely do is say "Hey let's go to your place" or similar-I think that often invites resistance. In some cases, if she asks what we should do next, I've said "Well, we could go watch a movie (or TV)" without specifying where. If she's thinking about it, this gives her an opportunity to invite you. but mostly, I don't even do that. I just game her, and kino and kiss her
just enough to get her horny.
Then I wait for her gambit. By this I refer to her ploy to set up a situation that will get you to her place with plausible deniability meaning for some reason other than sex.
The most common one is the "Are you ok to drive?" and its variants. She is casting herself in the role of good samaritan, helping this poor man out who is too drunk/tired to drive and might be involved in a crash on his way home. You need her help! She can offer you a place to sleep so that you can go home safely in the morning. Actually, it's a cover to get you home with her. You response to this should be a reluctant "Well...probably not" or similar with a resigned shrug. She will then tell you that you can come home with her. sometimes this is accompanied by a "no funny business" warning and sometimes not. Either way, say "Well, ok, thanks a lot I really appreciate it" in a sincere way and go from there. Once at her place, settle in a bit then make your move. You will get the bang in a very high percentage of these cases.
Another gambit used while driving- "Let's stop at a convenience store and get some beer" or similar. She doesn't really say why, but when you buy the beer she'll suggest drinking it at her house
"Do you want to watch a movie?" Yes, girls use this too for the same reason.
"I have to go home" suddenly for some reason to check on her dog, hamster, whatever. She invites you along.
Whatever the gambit is, the key is that you must play along as if it is
real. No smirks, not sexual innuendos. You are the straight man in this little mini drama. She knows it, you know it, she may know or not that you know it, but you can never
show that you know it. If you do, plausible deniability is destroyed and her ASD will kick in, and you'll probably end up sleeping on the couch, if you make it that far.
That said, every once in a while a woman will just outright invite you home. "Do you want to come home with me?" or Do you want to stay with me tonight?" You can't depend on this though.
Other than responding to her what can you do?
One thing you can do is try to pick her up at her house in the first place. This is best done on a second date when she trust you more. Most girls will not allow this on the first date for understandable reasons though it does happen sometimes and I seldom ask to do this on the first date because i think it might put them off. Second date though , I often suggest this. When you drop her off, hope for an invite in and if not try to weasel your way in.
A good proactive technique is what I will call the
Reverse Good Samaritan. You and she have driven separate cars to a meeting spot and had some drinks and things are going well but it's getting late. You tell her you don't think she should be driving and you offer to drive her to her place and tell her she can take a cab to her car the next day. I used this technique this past week to excellent effect
I met a woman for a first date at a lounge in a city neither of us lived in. We both drove. We hit it off immediately and I suggested we go to another venue. She said she could just ride with me. We went to several more spots and it got late. She was in town on business and staying at a hotel. I told her I didn't think she should be driving especially as the cops in this city are notorious for pulling drivers over at night to check for DUI (true). I would drop her at her hotel and she could get a cab to her car in the morning. As we got close to the hotel she told me I should just stay with her rather than driving all the way back home to my town. Well, ok, thanks. Enthusiastic bang.
I will admit, however, in a small number of cases I have gone very direct. A couple of years ago I was on a second date with a chick in her town and after a lot of drinking I turned toward her at the bar and said "I want to fuck you" She responded "I want you to" and we left and went to her house.
In another case last year, I was on a first date with a girl I was really attracted to and after drinking at several places i walked he back to her car. I was rather drunk and after several minutes of kissing she sat down in the driver's sea to leave and I just decided to go for it. I leaned in and said "I want to go home with you." She looked at me shocked and said "OK' and I followed her to her house and we banged. But these were exceptions in which the sexual vibe was really high and we both were drunk. I don't think very direct will work in most cases.
This is mostly a game of subtlety; game her well and wait for an opening if she's going to give you one. I might be criticized for not being aggressive enough, but I can tell you that playing it like this has worked for me many times