Who says we're looking for "good girls"? That's a huge assumption on your part. Some guys have opted to forgo marriage.
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There are lots of "good girls" out there, who are very feminine and would make great wives.
Perhaps you could gives us details to help us understand by describing why your wife so "special" from the others. Either your wife is foreign or you're most likely lying if your wife is American. And if your
is foreign she'll end up just like American women in a few years due to the powerful cultural factors present if she lives in with you in America. I've seen it happen. America changes women. Just as men are pragmatic and adjust to environmental changes in the mating market by learning game, so do foreign women learn of the enormous benefits and privileges given to them in the West. This is why bringing a foreign wife to America is a bad idea.
Finding a young "good girl" who wants to get married, have children, and maintain a family is perhaps one of the hardest things to find in the U.S. This will be the topic of my writing. It is nigh impossible, and I'll explain why.
The marriage market in the U.S. is now a bear market. The marriage market is in a recession; in fact, I see a depression on the rise. People aren't buying marriage stocks, they're selling marriage stocks. Divorce is rampant. Couples are getting out of the marriage market, mostly due to women.
90% of all divorces are caused by women (women file 70% of the time, while the man files 20% of the other time due to abuse, adultery, etc.) We live in a divorce culture. Lawyers are selling divorce to women. See:
http://dalrock.wordpress.com/2011/03/06/...g-divorce/
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As I said above, many of you need a refresher on the basics. Too often those selling divorce get caught up thinking only about the selling points:
1.The feeling of power which divorcées initially experience.
2.The near universal assurance of child custody. (Summary, Full Analysis).
3.Divorce Fantasy.
4.Feeding choice addiction.
5.Financial gain.
6.Her friends egging her on.
The above is a pretty compelling package. When it comes to divorce, all of the legal and social incentives line up in favor of the wife.
The average 22-year-old woman has had twice as much sex as the average 22-year-old male. A woman can get sex more easily than a man can. If you're looking for a "good girl" you usually don't want her to have a high number count as part of your criteria. One look at today's dating market reveals that this type of woman is hard to come by. For a better description of the sluttiness of today's young American women, I advise you to read Tuthmosis' excellent thread, Lessons from Jailbait:
http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-5245.h...=al-fresco
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1. Young girls have sophisticated game, at the level of guys 8-10 years older than them.
These girls were in, roughly, the 9th and 10th grades, but they knew how to evade my well-polished player-advances (before I knew their ages) deftly, playing hard-to-get like a couple of 26-year-old chicks at a bar. They didn't scurry away in fear. They milked me for more attention. While most boys this age are still playing tag and video games, the girls are getting hit on by horny guys that are way older than them (e.g., Tuthmosis). These girls are definitely not hanging with guys their age, and they've definitely touched dick.
2. Young girls love weed and alcohol.
It didn't take long for our conversation to go into drugs/alcohol territory--a topic they broached. If you think the average 14- or 15-year-old girl that is even remotely cute is an innocent little flower playing with barbies, think again. American society may like to infantalize girls, but it's not grounded in anything but a vehement and foolhardy denial of the realities on the ground. These weren't pierced-up, ghetto-talking skanks either. They were a couple of nice-looking, sweet chicks who could carry on a decent conversation and made me genuinely chuckle a couple times with their wise-cracks.
Don't ever let aging harpies and jealous betas make you feel guilty for gaming 18-20 year-olds when you're 10, 15, or 20 years older than them. These girls start piling up experience early, and if you "do the right thing" and "date" a girl your own age, you're getting way more mileage than meets the eye. If you talk to any hot girl in her 20s and 30s, you'll learn that she was "hooking up with guys" as young as 11. And, you can bet your bottom dollar that most of those guys were older than them. I've had several girls that I've gone out with straight-up volunteer information like this.
Furthermore, women in the 18-24 age range are the most sought-after group of women by men. If you want to marry a woman, you want her to be as young as possible, in the 18-24 age range if possible. Let's examine why women feel that they are hot commodities in short supply during their prime years.
If there are equal numbers of men and women in the 18-24 age range, then why do women feel so entitled and bitchy and feel as if they're in short supply? It's because the demand not only comes from men in their peer group and same age range (horny 18-24 y.o. guys), but demand also comes from older men which spans just about all age ranges. Thus, one can say that 18-24 y.o. women get hit on by guys 18-100 y.o. (although 100 is stretching is exaggerating a little bit), while young, unestablished, penniless guys don't get as much attention until they get a bit older. Thus, one can hypothetically estimate that the demand for women in the 18-24 age group is at the very least two-fold, maybe three-fold, if not four-fold of the demand for men in the 18-24 age group.
To address your point that there are "good girls," I reply that there are none. Women are driven by specific biomechanics that respond to game. I do not think that you have fully digested the red pill. Do you have any idea of the depravity you're up against?
http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2011/09/2...s-in-jail/Norwegian Terrorist Gets Love Letters in Jail
http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2009/11/1...st-losers/Meet the Real Biggest Losers
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"Mike’s first inkling that something was amiss in his marriage was in 2000, when he was digging through a closet looking for the source of some mice. He didn’t find any nests, but he did come upon a plastic grocery bag of love letters to his wife, Stephanie, from her co-worker Rob. Confronted, Stephanie confessed to a fleeting affair but assured Mike that L., then nearly 3, was his."
If you recorded the answers of one million cheating whores at the moment when their doubting husbands questioned them about the paternity of their kids, only one woman would tell the truth to the man she married “till death do us part”. The other 999,999 women would lie. This is the juggernaut of female depravity you are up against, men. Never forget that.
Chicks Dig Jerks: Prison Tryst Edition
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Yep, women can’t get enough of that asshole vibe. So much so, that they’ll even leave a man whose occupation — prison warden — suggests authentic asshole, to be with an even bigger asshole — a convicted murderer. Talk about hypergamy.
See:
http://alcuin-constant.blogspot.com/2011...eally.html
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Put your hand in fire and got burned? No problem. Try it again. Not all fire is like that.
Walked into a lion's cage and lost your arm? No problem. Try it again. Not all lions are like that.
Spilled acid on your skin and needed grafts? No problem. Try it again. Not all acid is like that.
Pissed into the wind and got a bit smelly? No problem. Try it again. Not all wind is like that.
Jumped into the lake and got wet? No problem. Try it again. Not all lakes are like that.
Got bitten by a cobra and died? No problem. Try it again. Not all cobras are like that.
Jumped from the fourth floor and cracked your head? No problem. Try it again. Not all gravity is like that.
Argued with a women's studies major and felt like banging your head against the wall? No problem. Try it again. Not all women's studies majors are like that.
Sat on a bee and got stung? No problem. Try again. Not all bees are like that.
Got fucked on the house and kids? No problem. Try again. Not all women are like that.
I've lived in several countries in Asia and elsewhere (Turkey, Hungary). Trust me, the gals are the same wherever you go. It's a question of the social constraints put on them.
Women seem to be happiest where they are closest to their families, and where they don't have a lot of options. The more options and ambition given to women, the unhappier they become. As we know, western women emulate men. They like to act how they think we act. Raunch culture, it seems, is a way for women to act "like a guy." Makes them unhappy, if you ask me. But they don't know why they are unhappy, so they blame men.
Women do not want marriage, they want a wedding. They want the parade, the party, the ceremony, the ring, and all the privileges associated with it. They do not think of the years of drudgery of sticking by her man through thick and thin through good times and bad times. This is the difference between the outlook of a foreign woman and an American woman. Other more knowledgable posters can correct me if I'm wrong, but Russian women have little or no expectations from their husbands. They just want a NORMAL husband. In Russia, the ratio of men to women is 88:100. Applied to the entire population, around 10
million Russian women will end up marriageless. So, they are happy because they know that not all women will get married and so they try everything to keep the marriage together. Contrast this with the average American woman who will divorce over the most trivial of things.
An American woman getting married can be compared to an Olympic athlete. The athlete trains hard for years and years (the woman preps herself, trying out new guys, etc.), enters into a roaring stadium (the altar for the woman), competes fiercely with other competitors for the gold (competes for the alpha male with other women), and after winning the gold, the athlete has to return to a normal life at a normal job where the media frenzy eventually dries up and is eventually forgotten (the honeymoon is over). "That's it?" she wonders. Then she realizes that marriage isn't what she thought it would be. Marriage requires work from both sides, something she's unaccumosted to doing.
In Summary, the average 18-24 y.o. American woman isn't interested in marriage until they're older, when you probably don't want them and don't see them as marriage material anymore. How many 19-year-olds do you know that are interested in marriage? Probably very few.
They also lack the skills of a proper wife. Cooking skills? Laundry? Patience? Ability to raise children?
She is at a high risk of divorcing you and making large dents in your finances.
In short, marriage in America is a fruitless endeavor for men, doomed to end in the shambles of divorce, poverty, and deserts of sexless marriages. Some men may contend that they can game their wives 24/7. While this may be true, he is grossly ignorant of the sex appeal and femininity that foreign women have to offer.
I once knew a young man from Eastern Europe who made the mistake of marrying an American woman. They had a young daughter. He was a firefighter. He once got injured on the job but refused to sue because he needed the job. He couldn't come home often because he had to work so much. His wife ended up cheating on him at bars. He filed for divorce.
Learn from the mistakes of others so you don't make them yourself.
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