Ok so the last time I posted about a girl here I was talking about someone I knew online, you guys said it wouldn't work out and yeah, it hasn't yet, but it may in the future. But I agree that there's no substitute for getting shit done irl.
I'm not one to club or to have one night stands really, but I really like the idea of friends with benefits. Some emotion there, a friendship but with great, regular sex. My ideal right now would be to have 3 or 4 girls who might come over every week or so to just hang out, watch TV and eat with and then sleep with.
^ Do any of you guys have this kind of situation successful established? Is it an unachievable holy grail or perfectly possible?
Anyway I have a few candidates in mind but I am completely new to this and not sure how to go about it without causing drama or making an ass of myself.
Also, side question: girls that say they are not down for anything casual, should I just move on or is there usually some room to change their minds? I don't want to play anyone though, honesty is a must, can't be ruining friendships and getting a bad rep.
I'm not one to club or to have one night stands really, but I really like the idea of friends with benefits. Some emotion there, a friendship but with great, regular sex. My ideal right now would be to have 3 or 4 girls who might come over every week or so to just hang out, watch TV and eat with and then sleep with.
^ Do any of you guys have this kind of situation successful established? Is it an unachievable holy grail or perfectly possible?
Anyway I have a few candidates in mind but I am completely new to this and not sure how to go about it without causing drama or making an ass of myself.
Also, side question: girls that say they are not down for anything casual, should I just move on or is there usually some room to change their minds? I don't want to play anyone though, honesty is a must, can't be ruining friendships and getting a bad rep.