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11-19-2012, 06:33 AM
Aren't most of these online girls in the Philippines basically just prostitutes? When I was there I remember talking to a hooker chick in Boracay and she told me how this works: most of the girls on the online dating sites are just hookers. They communicate with tons of western men and bang them when they come in country. The grls aren't even looking for instant money. Their strategy is that for maybe every 10 guys they get 1-2 who will "fall in love" with them and then send them money every month.
I have a hard time believing that in such a conservative Catholic country as the Phil even Brad Pitt could go there and bang tons of legit non-hooker local girls, especially within just a few hours or less of meeting them. It seems to me that the girls interested in doing this are at the very bottom of society and have no choice.
Not trying to be a dick but sometimes it gets tiring on this board reading guys stories of going to XYZ place and banging 5 chicks in 6 days or whatever and NO ONE even bothers to question whether these chicks are legit or really just undercover whores.
I know when I was in Boracay a couple times girls came back to my place and let me fuck them and didn't ask for shit. They basically just wanted a place to sleep that night with AC, and the possibility that I would "fall in love" and then turn money over to her. To me they are just hookers, plain and simple.
I see this shit in Bali too- Aussie guys come here for short term holidays and there's all these whores from Java who are pretending to be regular girls and they don't ask for money at first but after 1-2 weeks when the guy is about to leave they get some money out of him.
I guess it's a smart strategy, but really... does this count as a legit lay?
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11-19-2012, 08:08 AM
nomadic according to your definition, all women are whores.
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11-19-2012, 10:00 AM
If I had to bet, I'd say an above average white guy in the Phil has a really low chance of banging a legit upper middle class or above Phil girl. I was in Boracay during Easter last year when it was packed with richer Phils and those chicks aren't looking to fuck around. It's still a Catholic conservative society.
And yeah, I do think all women are whores so this is all sorta irrelevant but I think in poor countries it's important to distinguish these types of girls who aren't straightforward about being whores.
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11-21-2012, 01:26 AM
I banged tons of chicks in Davao. An only 2 accepted the cab money I offered them when they left. Even the ones I kept in the rotation never ended up asking for money. The ones that came over an cooked for me wouldnt even let me pay them for the food they brought an cooked.
I did have ONE girl I met online an kicked it with one day text me the next week asking for money for a school book.
Then again Im a good looking, in shape, charismatic, cracker.
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11-21-2012, 07:12 PM
Calling them hookers is a bit strong as most are not looking for outright cash, but many are trying to fuck their way to a better life (especially the ones who put on their profile that they want a certain type of foreign man). How do I know this? It was told to me by several filipino men and women I met both in and out of the Philippines. When I stayed there for a month with the family of a girl I was dating a worker at an Internet cafe asked if we met on the Internet (we actually met in Malaysia) and when we got back to the house her family had a pretty big laugh about it. They all went on to explain that most filipinas, especially young ones, go on the Internet hoping to find foreign men to take care of them. They even had one of the cousins show me her dating account which had about 10 foreign guys who were committed to visiting within the next few months.
I originally did not plan on going to the Philippines with a girl in tow so I talked to tons of guys who have been gone there for decades and some who actually live there. The general consensus was that younger girls are easier for foreign men because they are naive enough to think all foreigners from America and Europe are rich and that the guys coming to see them are looking for a relationship (like in most poorer countries). It is amazing how many filipinas I have met who don't prefer foreigners because they were either burned when they were young or have worked in America or Europe and realize that most foreign men are far from rich.
As far as how much connection is needed I throw my hands up. Just because one slept with you does not mean a connection so much as her manipulative way of trying to get you to stick with them instead of going elsewhere. If you can randomly pop up 3 months later and the same filipina is eager to see you and willing to drop everything she's doing for you then you know there was a connection. The truth is that most of them are actively talking to several men, you just happen to be the one who is physically there and if they can get something from you great if not the next guy will probably give something. Pinays also tend to play the long game which means most would rather spend money today in hopes of a guy who will take care of them for life than to put their hand out and get enough to last maybe a month.
I will say the middle class thing was bs. That's kind of like me saying I fucked a waitress and then you calling it worthless because she wasn't a model. Not in the Philippines, but I met guys in Thailand who consistently banged middle and upper middle class women. They do it because they can show and prove substance beyond being just a foreigner.
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11-22-2012, 12:47 AM
20nation seem to pull this Filipino women with ease, but do you think your looks played a major role in getting with these girls. Can you describe your looks? I keep hearing about how
they like white skin but do you think a black guy will have any problems pulling any women over there?
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02-11-2014, 11:36 PM
20,
Just saw that you had a site where you put pics of the pinay girls but when I clicked on the link, it's no longer available. Do you have another site? IF yes d love to see them man!
Cheers!
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02-12-2014, 07:04 AM
Quote: (02-12-2014 01:29 AM)Dagnasty Wrote:
Quote: (11-22-2012 02:08 AM)20Nation Wrote:
I keep hearing about how
they like white skin but do you think a black guy will have any problems pulling any women over there?
Black guy in PI here.
It's not as easy as some of the white guys have it (They can pull with NO game) but if you have a little bit of game, it is FAR easier than the states to pull non-Black women.
All of the chicks I know are 100% DTF and it's easy to filter them. Just make sure they know you're from the US.
I personally don't spin many plates like some guys here but my main girl knows I could bang them all if I decided to - and that's why she "acts right"...
Good to hear. Phil girls a back home are the most black friendly girls I have encountered. A couple who go back every year always tell me I will have fun but to watch out for lady boys lol.
It's true they really do love basketball so when I go I plan on using that angle.
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02-12-2014, 10:02 AM
Dagnasty where in the Phils are you? I did not notice very many lady boys in Davao as I did in other parts of Asia. There was no shortage of very flamboyant gay guys calling me "gwapo" however.
I'm pretty sure I got a hand job from a lady boy in Hong Kong then I almost got jumped by a 60+ year old Madam and her army of about 8 lady boys in lingerie..good times.
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02-12-2014, 01:59 PM
how do you screen for under age, hard to tell tiny 18 yo from well-developed 16 year old. Age of consent in Phils now is 18.
I advocate following and myself follow all laws.
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02-12-2014, 09:06 PM
Quote: (02-12-2014 01:59 PM)iknowexactly Wrote:
how do you screen for under age, hard to tell tiny 18 yo from well-developed 16 year old. Age of consent in Phils now is 18.
I advocate following and myself follow all laws.
Not that I am into banging 14 year olds but when did they change that?
I feel like in 2011 when I was there it was much lower but I never dipped under 18..... I did however bang a ton of 18 year olds.
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02-12-2014, 10:34 PM
As a rule of thumb stay away from any girl that's under 18 even if they are mature enough and are all over you. It's just not worth the hassle and trouble it could lead to. Currently there's a smoking hot 17 year old who's going crazy over me on FB but I told her straight up that Until she turns 18 that is this October we're only going to be just friends.