Often times I find myself in a mall on a first date.

The girl wonders into the store and starts grabbing clothes and saying she wants them. Then she walks up to the register places the clothes on the counter the salesperson rings them up and the girl walks away and looks at me to pay for them. Or some actually tell me to buy them the clothes.

Now this is an awkward situation and I realize the girl has no money and I do not want to pay for the clothes. I never told her I would buy her anything. The last girl stuck me with $200 charged to my credit card. afterward I feel like a heel for not being a man and saying no. But how do you say no without them thinking your a cheap ass?

Today I am meeting a girl for lunch. I just meet her yesterday. She is a stripper. She needed a ride home at bar time and so I did and she took me up to her apt. and give me about a 40 minutes of coach dances with just a G-string on. Just me and her in the apt. She charged me for the coach dances as if I was sitting in the bar. But that's all she would do.

Yesterday I told her I had to return some clothes I bought to the mall. So she texts me a message and says are we meeting for lunch and shopping. So I am suppose to go back to her apt. to get her. I am hoping we end up in the bedroom before the lunch!


so back to the mall issue

I am thinking #@#@%$%, I know what her plan is, she going to grab some clothes and expect me to pay for them.

PLEASE give me some wise responses to say to the girl that pulls this stunt without me feeling like a cheap ass for not buying her the clothes.

Say nothing, walk away, stop being such a bitch. You don't owe these women anything and they don't owe you anything. If you didn't agree to pay before the lap dance then don't pay. You don't have to explain yourself, you don't need clever lines to avoid looking like a cheap skate. Just been a man and do exactly what you feel.

Genuinely you can't control what women think of you, only what you are. If a Girl thinks you're a cheap skate and won't sleep with you then fuck her, that's her loss, next girl. Don't go on shit dates you don't enjoy, get alcohol or weed involved, get them somewhere private, force the rejection.

200 bucks and you didn't tell her anything?

Stand up for yourself. Tell her you ain't buying her anything before you hit that pussy and when you hit that pussy you be gone for good. Don't be a simp man.

If you're not kidding/trolling, I don't know what to say to you. I a chick tried to pull this off on me in the US, depending on my mood I would either turn around and walk away without saying anything or even tell her to fuck off and than walk away. However, in poorer countries I bought girls small gifts, like a new set of uniform for a Thai nurse in Bangkok. It was cheap anyway (something like $30-40), and I felt good about doing it. But even there, I would not buy clothes for a girl I haven't slept with.

Yes, I hate it when girls pull this stunt. I also buy girls in poorer countries alots of gifts. I usually hit the Walmart clearance section before I take a trip. The girls that show true desire to be with me and love being in bed get the gifts.

Take the clothes. Hold them up to her face "Do you want these clothed?" She will no happily. "Do you have the money to pay for them?". Hold frame.
Then put them away. You are a man, not a cash register.

You spent $200 on clothes for a girl on your first date?!?!?


Why would you put up with that? It is your responsibility to hold a strong frame. IT IS OKAY TO SAY NO. Especially, when you two barely know each other. Please, stop buying girls gifts.

The only time I will buy something for a girl is maybe a lunch or a drink as a reward for their performance in the bedroom.

SHE'S A FUCKING STRIPPER, ENOUGH SAID.

Don't buy her shit, a lot of other betas she dances for do that already.

Keep your frame, rebuke her ass if she tries to call you cheap in a "keep your frame" or "funny" way.

I don't think he's a troll. He might be a guy beginning to take the red pill, at least he acknowledged the situation.

Again, DON'T BUY HER SHIT. She makes enough money.

Quote: (02-02-2014 12:42 PM)batmanMNUSA Wrote:  

Yes, I hate it when girls pull this stunt. I also buy girls in poorer countries alots of gifts. I usually hit the Walmart clearance section before I take a trip. The girls that show true desire to be with me and love being in bed get the gifts.

They pull no stunt buddy. If you appear like a cash cow, they'll try to milk you. Even the poorest guys on earth can get quality lays.

I recommend you to read these articles by RooshV :
- http://www.rooshv.com/rich-guys-who-still-dont-get-laid
- http://www.rooshv.com/how-to-pick-up-gir...00-a-month

You should also learn about shit tests. Women test you all the time and if you fall in there frame then you fail and they lose their interest. Saying firm no will lead you to sex way more than confused yes.

If you are actually rich, you have to use it to you own advantage. Let her think she'll get what she want after you receive what you want. Don't let them milk you, milk them. You have that power.

   

Show some spine.

My favorite part is how he drove the stripper home and she charged him for the dances she gave him at her place. Either trolling or in the running for world's biggest chode.

What are you doing on a mall at a date?

6/10 troll... better than the offerings we've seen lately.

Bitch slap yourself ! Sorry man, tough love.. This has to stop!

Tell her "you're not a clothes whore are you? because if you are I pay up after sex" then fuck her, give her your dirty laundry and tell her how you like it folded. Here's your clothes trick

Pay for my Gold Membership and Ill send you a detailed PM

I don't believe that such stupid men exists.

A troll. Wow, I thought I was in a newbie forum for advice. I guess I will think twice before I post here again. Even Roosh 6/10 a troll. come on.

I explained actually what happened, yes it was a stupid mistake buying the other girl clothes but it won't happened again.

Thanks for the advice, for the guys that gave it.

We ended up going on a lunch date and after lunch she immediately said lets go shopping at the mall so I looked at her and simply said I am not into buying gifts before the girl has played with me and said if I choose to buy you a gift at some point in the future because I want to then that will be my choice but don't tell me to buy you things ok.

She accepted my response and never pushed again toward going to the mall.

Quote: (02-02-2014 11:02 PM)Mind Trip Wrote:  

I don't believe that such stupid men exists.

They really do.

My man....either:

1) You are trolling...or
2) You will win the 2014 "Simp of the Year"

$200 on clothes om first date???

Urban nerd,

You had your laugh at my expense so I thought I would help you with an event where you can practice your game for which you apparently have never made a mistake.

http://www.yelp.com/events/minneapolis-f...-love-fest

For 1/4 of that money you could've just fucked a prostitute if you were that desperate, next time use a bit of common sense.

Quote: (02-02-2014 11:02 PM)Mind Trip Wrote:  

I don't believe that such stupid men exists.

Hold that thought...

BTW to the people that mock my move and like to suggest I am a stupid guy, you may want to read rule number 1 of becoming a registered user on this forum which states not to be make such remarks and I thought the newbie forum was for learning from mistakes. All I asked for was some advice to respond to any future clothes whores.

The girl I bought the clothes for spend several days with me and I banged her many times. And she never asked to go out for dinners or to purchase more clothes so maybe it wasn't such a stupid move as you all assume. What's your cost per bang? Mine was probably lower. And as I explained when a 2nd girl tried to pull that move on me today I completely stopped that from happening and was direct with her that it wasn't going to happen. Again thanks to those that responded with real useful advice with helped me greatly today!

8/10 for trollish storytelling would read again.