I was reading a book regarding wealth creation, financial freedom, and your belief system; the similarities were uncanny when it comes to game.
Much has been said on this forum when it comes to approaching, nutrition, working out, day game, logistics, looks and generating wealth. We all know these have a cumulative effect on our ability to attract and bang women. They should all be addressed to maximise your success in the sexual market.
However of equal importance, IMO, is our ingrained belief system when it comes to women. Our past experiences and what we are taught at a young age shape all our interactions with new women we interact with - whether we are aware of this or not. These beliefs become a self-fulfilling prophecy throughout our life and will be directly translated into our actions.
Want to work out your current beliefs when it comes to women?
Think of your results.
How many notches have you had?
How attractive and desirable were the last few women you slept with?
How regularly do you have sex with new women?
How many 8s or 9s have you banged?
How do you respond when you see another man easily pick-up women?
The fruits can always be traced back to your roots.
The man who only ever has sex with 7s and below, believes 8s and above are out of his league and will act accordingly.
The man who struggles to get consistently laid, believes the process of bedding a girl is a struggle and will act accordingly.
The 'average' man who thinks only good-looking men can attract good-looking women, will never be able to bed the 8s or 9s.
If you believe that you have to be rich or famous to pick up 8's or 9's, then you won't have an 8 or 9 until you rich or famous.
These beliefs can be easily stored subconsciously, for example, I remember as a kid whenever I would talk to girls (especially attractive ones), my family would make such a big deal about it. Eventually when I was a teenager, I began to believe that hot women WERE a big deal, and not everyone is entitled to them.
This belief wasn't clear for me until I was in my early 20s that I realised most of my bangs were from 7s or below.
Once I realised this, I was able to understand why whenever I would approach an 8, nothing ever seemed transpire. Even though I was working out regularly and had decent game, I'm convinced it was my belief system about attractive women that was holding me back.
It wasn't until I started actively challenging these beliefs and observing myself in action that things started to change. Whenever I would see a group of women, and was inclined to settle for the 7, I reminded myself that this was my faulty belief pattern kicking in, and would keep my eyes on the 8. I no longer buy the rationale that hot women are hard to get, or such a big deal.
As a result, I've noticed that 8's are JUST as responsive as 7's.
Do you guys relate to this at all?
Much has been said on this forum when it comes to approaching, nutrition, working out, day game, logistics, looks and generating wealth. We all know these have a cumulative effect on our ability to attract and bang women. They should all be addressed to maximise your success in the sexual market.
However of equal importance, IMO, is our ingrained belief system when it comes to women. Our past experiences and what we are taught at a young age shape all our interactions with new women we interact with - whether we are aware of this or not. These beliefs become a self-fulfilling prophecy throughout our life and will be directly translated into our actions.
Want to work out your current beliefs when it comes to women?
Think of your results.
How many notches have you had?
How attractive and desirable were the last few women you slept with?
How regularly do you have sex with new women?
How many 8s or 9s have you banged?
How do you respond when you see another man easily pick-up women?
The fruits can always be traced back to your roots.
The man who only ever has sex with 7s and below, believes 8s and above are out of his league and will act accordingly.
The man who struggles to get consistently laid, believes the process of bedding a girl is a struggle and will act accordingly.
The 'average' man who thinks only good-looking men can attract good-looking women, will never be able to bed the 8s or 9s.
If you believe that you have to be rich or famous to pick up 8's or 9's, then you won't have an 8 or 9 until you rich or famous.
These beliefs can be easily stored subconsciously, for example, I remember as a kid whenever I would talk to girls (especially attractive ones), my family would make such a big deal about it. Eventually when I was a teenager, I began to believe that hot women WERE a big deal, and not everyone is entitled to them.
This belief wasn't clear for me until I was in my early 20s that I realised most of my bangs were from 7s or below.
Once I realised this, I was able to understand why whenever I would approach an 8, nothing ever seemed transpire. Even though I was working out regularly and had decent game, I'm convinced it was my belief system about attractive women that was holding me back.
It wasn't until I started actively challenging these beliefs and observing myself in action that things started to change. Whenever I would see a group of women, and was inclined to settle for the 7, I reminded myself that this was my faulty belief pattern kicking in, and would keep my eyes on the 8. I no longer buy the rationale that hot women are hard to get, or such a big deal.
As a result, I've noticed that 8's are JUST as responsive as 7's.
Do you guys relate to this at all?
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