This is a complete shame post. I thought I was beyond this stage, humble pie is served.
I got a girl's number at a university campus (I work there doing a contract, there is no rules against dating a student because I am not faculty). She is my ideal girl type short blonde, sweet demeanor, yoga body.
First date I played it safe, this could have been my downfall. I got a coffee with her on campus and went for a walk which went well, walked to a pub after for one beer before she needs to go. Date ends with a hug only, escalation would have felt forced otherwise too sober of an environment or was I a pussy?
Cut to second date, I try to set up for Sunday she cancels due to getting back from out of town late, but asks if I am available the next night (Monday). I agree and she drives to my place (20 min drive) the next night. I give her a tour of my place. She agrees to a pre-game shot of Jager. We walk to a dark classy intimate bar that is usually catnip for girls (I am new to town but already took a date I banged after taking her to this same bar, so it has been vetted).
She agrees to drinks and shots we have good conversation. I go for the kiss at the bar she makes out with me for a bit. We leave to a second bar 100ft from my house. I make out with her again during the tour of the second bar. We get a quick drink and I say let's get a nightcap at my place.
We get to my place I pour myself a drink, she wants water... FUCK. I get her water (what's the move here?)... the music is queued up - I am drinking and I go for the make out on the couch. I get my hand down her shirt play with her tit. Pull the aggressive placing her hand to my hard-on through my jeans bit. I pick her up and carry her to the bedroom. I act dominant and pin her arms back and grind as we make out. I put my hand down the back of her jeans and squeeze her ass. She is kissing back, but it seems weak. I chalk it up to her sobering up and being decided on going home. She held her liquor from the shots and drinks well. Usually at 4 or 5 drinks a girl is tipsy enough, she was deadpan sober it seemed. I give in after a few futile extra pushes and did not want to see too try hard if it wasn't happening at all.
This was Monday night.
Wednesday our text conversation:
Trav 1pm: "hey XXXX"
Her 5pm: "hey Trav"
Trav 9:30pm: left voicemail "hey its Trav, catch ya later"
Thursday(today) text conversation:
Trav 5:30pm: "whats up gonna go out tonight causin trouble?"
Her 6:30pm: Generic Friendzone Text
My reaction after reading
This sucks because I have NEVER gotten a girl into my bed and groped her bare tit and ass then get Friend Zoned. It feels like a huge regression and I am livid about it right now.
This girl was very cool, mellow, and genuine. I did not see this coming.
Please lay the truth on thick.
I got a girl's number at a university campus (I work there doing a contract, there is no rules against dating a student because I am not faculty). She is my ideal girl type short blonde, sweet demeanor, yoga body.
First date I played it safe, this could have been my downfall. I got a coffee with her on campus and went for a walk which went well, walked to a pub after for one beer before she needs to go. Date ends with a hug only, escalation would have felt forced otherwise too sober of an environment or was I a pussy?
Cut to second date, I try to set up for Sunday she cancels due to getting back from out of town late, but asks if I am available the next night (Monday). I agree and she drives to my place (20 min drive) the next night. I give her a tour of my place. She agrees to a pre-game shot of Jager. We walk to a dark classy intimate bar that is usually catnip for girls (I am new to town but already took a date I banged after taking her to this same bar, so it has been vetted).
She agrees to drinks and shots we have good conversation. I go for the kiss at the bar she makes out with me for a bit. We leave to a second bar 100ft from my house. I make out with her again during the tour of the second bar. We get a quick drink and I say let's get a nightcap at my place.
We get to my place I pour myself a drink, she wants water... FUCK. I get her water (what's the move here?)... the music is queued up - I am drinking and I go for the make out on the couch. I get my hand down her shirt play with her tit. Pull the aggressive placing her hand to my hard-on through my jeans bit. I pick her up and carry her to the bedroom. I act dominant and pin her arms back and grind as we make out. I put my hand down the back of her jeans and squeeze her ass. She is kissing back, but it seems weak. I chalk it up to her sobering up and being decided on going home. She held her liquor from the shots and drinks well. Usually at 4 or 5 drinks a girl is tipsy enough, she was deadpan sober it seemed. I give in after a few futile extra pushes and did not want to see too try hard if it wasn't happening at all.
This was Monday night.
Wednesday our text conversation:
Trav 1pm: "hey XXXX"
Her 5pm: "hey Trav"
Trav 9:30pm: left voicemail "hey its Trav, catch ya later"
Thursday(today) text conversation:
Trav 5:30pm: "whats up gonna go out tonight causin trouble?"
Her 6:30pm: Generic Friendzone Text
My reaction after reading
This sucks because I have NEVER gotten a girl into my bed and groped her bare tit and ass then get Friend Zoned. It feels like a huge regression and I am livid about it right now.
This girl was very cool, mellow, and genuine. I did not see this coming.
Please lay the truth on thick.
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Quote: (05-19-2016 12:01 PM)Giovonny Wrote:
If I talk to 100 19 year old girls, at least one of them is getting fucked!
Quote:WestIndianArchie Wrote:
Am I reacting to her? No pussy, all problems
Or
Is she reacting to me? All pussy, no problems