Hey guys, no troll here. I'm genuinely curious why there's a culture of slut shaming in much of the manosphere and what's behind it. Because I honestly don't get it.
Fat shaming, I get. Maybe it's not the most elegant way to bring about social change but the idea of a bunch of fat chicks running around and proud of it is gross to any guy who's honest with himself and has a pair.
Back to the slut thing.
From an evolutionary perspective, I can see why you wouldn't want your current woman to be with other dudes, since that reduces that chance that your swimmers will fertilize the egg and pass on your genes.
On the other hand, and my grasp on this topic is amateur, YOUR genes as such aren't really relevant, are they? Isn't that why a woman seeks out many mates while she's ovulating? To get several sources of sperm, who then literally duke it out with each other for the chance to fertilize? (source: Sperm Wars)
So my understanding is that it's to the overall benefit of the human race that a woman fucks a lot of guys because that means the most robust genes get passed on.
The main argument I hear in the affirmative for slut shaming is that when a woman sleeps around, it reduces her value as a long term prospect.
I don't understand that position because:
1) if she has a lot of practice having sex, she'll know what the fuck she's doing.
And
2) what percentage of guys actually want exclusive LTRs? And if they do, then #1 would apply doubly!
I'm also totally opposed to the you go girl crap that exhorts women to do anything they want without any repercussions. But then again, I meet some very promiscuous girls here in Thailand but other than a big sexual appetite, they generally don't let themselves behave as monstrously as Western girls, so I don't think it's reasonable to conflate sluttiness with anything-goes-ism.
I'd like to wrap my head around this topic better so please share your thoughts.
Fat shaming, I get. Maybe it's not the most elegant way to bring about social change but the idea of a bunch of fat chicks running around and proud of it is gross to any guy who's honest with himself and has a pair.
Back to the slut thing.
From an evolutionary perspective, I can see why you wouldn't want your current woman to be with other dudes, since that reduces that chance that your swimmers will fertilize the egg and pass on your genes.
On the other hand, and my grasp on this topic is amateur, YOUR genes as such aren't really relevant, are they? Isn't that why a woman seeks out many mates while she's ovulating? To get several sources of sperm, who then literally duke it out with each other for the chance to fertilize? (source: Sperm Wars)
So my understanding is that it's to the overall benefit of the human race that a woman fucks a lot of guys because that means the most robust genes get passed on.
The main argument I hear in the affirmative for slut shaming is that when a woman sleeps around, it reduces her value as a long term prospect.
I don't understand that position because:
1) if she has a lot of practice having sex, she'll know what the fuck she's doing.
And
2) what percentage of guys actually want exclusive LTRs? And if they do, then #1 would apply doubly!
I'm also totally opposed to the you go girl crap that exhorts women to do anything they want without any repercussions. But then again, I meet some very promiscuous girls here in Thailand but other than a big sexual appetite, they generally don't let themselves behave as monstrously as Western girls, so I don't think it's reasonable to conflate sluttiness with anything-goes-ism.
I'd like to wrap my head around this topic better so please share your thoughts.