Quote: (04-17-2011 09:38 PM)Chad Daring Wrote:
Surprise surprise this doesn't work. Third volley seems to quick. The few times I've tried it the girl responded very well to the opener but then didn't even reply after a message implying that we should make plans to go out.
Are you doing everything through the messaging? Then it is harder. The role of initial messaging is to build some level of interest so she visits your profile and replies. Then your goal should be to get her into IM, skype or another kind of chat. It is much easier to build the attraction via IM, as you have significantly more control over her emotional state, and can play push-pull game.
While it is possible to build attraction via playing emotional strings even through the messaging, it would require writing pretty large messages, as you have to do everything in a single message. Therefore it only works with chicks who read those large messages (they are easy to spot as they typically reply with larger messages as well), and it is very rare.
So your schedule must be:
- Your opener
- Her response
(maybe a couple of extra more exchanges depending on how generic your opener was; if you just said "hi" and she replied with "hi" inviting her to IM right away might not work)
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Wait until she's online, and invite her to talk over IM. Here it basically goes three ways:
1. She accepts your invitation; progress there now.
2. She ignored your invitation and didn't reply. Forget about her (you can try to restart a few weeks after, but it will unlikely to work)
3. She'll reply she'd like it, but she doesn't have time right now. It may be sincere, or it may be denial as 2). Proceed as with date rescheduling.