I just got back from a solo night out, this thread really put me in the mood.
Threw on some jeans, v-neck t, nicer shoes (usual) and headed out. Bought a pack of cigs on the way. Went to a bar that I'm familiar with which usually has a solid ratio and cuter girls.
Tonight was an off night, very little talent to work with.
Bought a Sprite ($2) at the bar and started walkin around scoping out opportunities. This is a country bar and the crowd was mostly women in their 30s. Fat, hopeless, masculine, women in their 30s.
Anyway, America sucks but whatever, u do the best you can with what you've got.
So I saw a few cute girls but didn't approach right away cuz I was still kidna scared. Make my way outside to the patio for a smoke, which is the perfect home base for solo. Outside I ask some chick for a lighter (she was gross) who was with some dude. The three of us start talking about guns and stuff as I kill time waiting for real opportunities.
A 6.5 comes out with her phone by herself and sits nearby me. The people I was talking to left so I took advantage. "Hey what's the weather like for tomorrow?" (fav cell phone opener) and it was taken warmly. We talk for a little while and all im thinking is 'eh, i'd hit it but this girl is a mess'. Do I really even like her? (no)
So whatever, doesn't really go anywhere and thats cool. Roll back inside pick a spot to stand confidently and comfortably. The shot girl ends up approaching me (obv for a shot) which I denied. Still, she hung around and started talkin about some shit which I nodded to (it was loud) for a little while and threw some fake smiles. She mighta liked me but I don't game shot girls (not worth it).
Opened up a set of 3 girls at some table... 5, 6.5 and 6 which was fun for a little bit. I told them a story of how I got free shots because I made a bet with the bartender or something. I make up a lot of dumb shit for the sake of conversation. Anyway that was cool then went kinda nowhere.
At the end of the night I got no numbers and no makeouts. More importantly I have NO regrets.
I did the best I could with what I had. I stepped out of my comfort zone. I worked my social mojo. I participated. I put my destiny in my own hands. I tried.
And let me tell you I will be going out alone tomorrow night too. You just give yourself so many more opportunities to meet girls. Friends do nothing but hold you back. Fuck em.
Threw on some jeans, v-neck t, nicer shoes (usual) and headed out. Bought a pack of cigs on the way. Went to a bar that I'm familiar with which usually has a solid ratio and cuter girls.
Tonight was an off night, very little talent to work with.
Bought a Sprite ($2) at the bar and started walkin around scoping out opportunities. This is a country bar and the crowd was mostly women in their 30s. Fat, hopeless, masculine, women in their 30s.
Anyway, America sucks but whatever, u do the best you can with what you've got.
So I saw a few cute girls but didn't approach right away cuz I was still kidna scared. Make my way outside to the patio for a smoke, which is the perfect home base for solo. Outside I ask some chick for a lighter (she was gross) who was with some dude. The three of us start talking about guns and stuff as I kill time waiting for real opportunities.
A 6.5 comes out with her phone by herself and sits nearby me. The people I was talking to left so I took advantage. "Hey what's the weather like for tomorrow?" (fav cell phone opener) and it was taken warmly. We talk for a little while and all im thinking is 'eh, i'd hit it but this girl is a mess'. Do I really even like her? (no)
So whatever, doesn't really go anywhere and thats cool. Roll back inside pick a spot to stand confidently and comfortably. The shot girl ends up approaching me (obv for a shot) which I denied. Still, she hung around and started talkin about some shit which I nodded to (it was loud) for a little while and threw some fake smiles. She mighta liked me but I don't game shot girls (not worth it).
Opened up a set of 3 girls at some table... 5, 6.5 and 6 which was fun for a little bit. I told them a story of how I got free shots because I made a bet with the bartender or something. I make up a lot of dumb shit for the sake of conversation. Anyway that was cool then went kinda nowhere.
At the end of the night I got no numbers and no makeouts. More importantly I have NO regrets.
I did the best I could with what I had. I stepped out of my comfort zone. I worked my social mojo. I participated. I put my destiny in my own hands. I tried.
And let me tell you I will be going out alone tomorrow night too. You just give yourself so many more opportunities to meet girls. Friends do nothing but hold you back. Fuck em.