Ok, so we've had 3 great dates so far. First two got some serious makeouts, then the last one 3 weeks ago a bit more, but could not get her up to my place. Still I know it's on, and will happen, could just feel it. But I had to go away for a 2-week holiday which broke up the magic of the moment a bit. During this time away she texts me a couple times, once saying she misses me, we've seen each other a lot and now it's weird we're not seeing one another, etc.

So I set something up for the saturday after I get back. At least I thought I did. We tentatively decide on the Wednesday to meet on Saturday, then I send out an SMS Sat afternoon around 1 saying 'hey so let's meet at 8 at xyz'. She doesn't respond immediately and even before that my spider senses tell me 'she's going to flake, I can just feel it'.

Sure enough, I get a text like 3 hours later (bad sign already) saying "hi, I'm out of town. how are you?" I don't respond, go out with a buddy to run some day game, get a number or two, and then around 4 hours later in the evening she writes "are you upset" which I know means she knows she did something wrong. I'm jetlagged as hell at this point and don't feel like bothering responding, but do the next morning i write back "I'm not upset (want to stay rationale, in control), but thought we had made a tentative date, just confused a bit". I considered calling her out and saying it was rude, but didn't. (mistake??)

Anyway, she doesn't respond back. Not that day, not at all. Nothing at all. At this point I'm like "screw her, she's playing games, whatever need to let this breath a bit". So I don't email her until today (11 days later) to re-start. I just say 'hey what's up, been busy, how are you doing?". She responds like 2 hours later saying "??...u had not one free minute during the past two weeks to write me a message? Sorry I can't belive that".

WTF? Ok, pretty sure she's playing games, feel like I've completely lost my frame, but dont' give a damn at this point so I say "I was out of town in London for a week (a lie, but whatever) and incredibly busy with a conference (true) - work has been crazy. And you can always text me too)- didn't hear back from you last week. And by the way, i think it's a bit rude that you didn't met up with me that saturday and instead went out of town after we made plans."

So that was 2 hours ago, no response. Women suck, here we go again, but she's not been good at getting back to me in a timely manner, and if she thinks she can blow me off and then lay the blame on me for not being her text beta-bitch she's wrong.

Probably a lost cause, which is a bummer bc I was one date away from the bang I think. Any thoughts would be appreciated...how can I revive this at this point?? Feels like it might be dead....ughhh.

Inb4 dick pic recommendation

You lost the frame as soon as you respond directly to her flaking.
The best way to reply to a flake is "ghey", "lol", "lulz"
It's ambiguous to send the hamster spinning.

A future tip is about 3 hours before your arranged meet up time send her a text saying you're gonna be 15 minutes late.

Keep the text communication to a minimum. Call if you need to chat with her.

The reason why she flaked on you is because she slotted you in to her beta orbiter slot. Despite the fact you had a few make-outs with her. You're just entertainment to her. That's why the text tag and bullshit over not texting her in 11 days.

Keep the texting down to minimum. When you are having a great time texting her stop responding after she gets invested.
End it on a high note.

pick one of these...

- something reminded me of you today
- your horoscope today omg i feel sorry for you
- you're immature
- girls suck
- such a slut

sorry I keep double posting...

Quote: (05-23-2013 02:38 PM)Akula Wrote:  

Ok, so we've had 3 great dates so far. First two got some serious makeouts, then the last one 3 weeks ago a bit more, but could not get her up to my place. Still I know it's on, and will happen, could just feel it. But I had to go away for a 2-week holiday which broke up the magic of the moment a bit. During this time away she texts me a couple times, once saying she misses me, we've seen each other a lot and now it's weird we're not seeing one another, etc.

So I set something up for the saturday after I get back. At least I thought I did. We tentatively decide on the Wednesday to meet on Saturday, then I send out an SMS Sat afternoon around 1 saying 'hey so let's meet at 8 at xyz'. She doesn't respond immediately and even before that my spider senses tell me 'she's going to flake, I can just feel it'.

Sure enough, I get a text like 3 hours later (bad sign already) saying "hi, I'm out of town. how are you?" I don't respond, go out with a buddy to run some day game, get a number or two, and then around 4 hours later in the evening she writes "are you upset" which I know means she knows she did something wrong. I'm jetlagged as hell at this point and don't feel like bothering responding, but do the next morning i write back "I'm not upset (want to stay rationale, in control), but thought we had made a tentative date, just confused a bit". I considered calling her out and saying it was rude, but didn't. (mistake??)

Anyway, she doesn't respond back. Not that day, not at all. Nothing at all. At this point I'm like "screw her, she's playing games, whatever need to let this breath a bit". So I don't email her until today (11 days later) to re-start. I just say 'hey what's up, been busy, how are you doing?". She responds like 2 hours later saying "??...u had not one free minute during the past two weeks to write me a message? Sorry I can't belive that".

WTF? Ok, pretty sure she's playing games, feel like I've completely lost my frame, but dont' give a damn at this point so I say "I was out of town in London for a week (a lie, but whatever) and incredibly busy with a conference (true) - work has been crazy. And you can always text me too)- didn't hear back from you last week. And by the way, i think it's a bit rude that you didn't met up with me that saturday and instead went out of town after we made plans."

So that was 2 hours ago, no response. Women suck, here we go again, but she's not been good at getting back to me in a timely manner, and if she thinks she can blow me off and then lay the blame on me for not being her text beta-bitch she's wrong.

Probably a lost cause, which is a bummer bc I was one date away from the bang I think. Any thoughts would be appreciated...how can I revive this at this point?? Feels like it might be dead....ughhh.

When I was getting back into dating hardcore about a year ago I had numerous experiences like this. I have to tell you - I still don't understand why or how this happens, but I can tell you emphatically that having a full pipeline of women, multiple options, constant dates will help you react to these situations in a more empowered way.

When I was only fucking 0 or 1 girls, I'd get so upset when something like this happened and play it all wrong, effectively killing the budding relationship 100% of the time... when I was fucking 3-6 girls I'd play it very cool and the situation would salvage itself about 50% of the time. The best part is that when you play it cool and she comes back to you, you're in like Errol Flynn.

Quote: (05-23-2013 02:38 PM)Akula Wrote:  

During this time away she texts me a couple times, once saying she misses me,

How old are you?
How old is she?
US or someplace else?

If you're both in your late 20's and you live in the US - bounce.
If you're both young and you live in the US - put her low priority.
If this is happening in some foreign land, I have no idea, but things might work differently.

As has been suggested, you need to increase the pipeline of chicks, thus your feelings are never tied up in any particular interaction.

And if there is social media involved, nowadays you've got to advertise how much fun you're having, to make her realize how boring she is.

WIA

Send her a dick picture if you have an MMS plan! Or just text her "DUMB", I guarantee you she will reply!

Quote: (05-23-2013 02:38 PM)Akula Wrote:  

But I had to go away for a 2-week holiday which broke up the magic of the moment a bit.

Sure enough, I get a text like 3 hours later (bad sign already) saying "hi, I'm out of town. how are you?" I don't respond, go out with a buddy to run some day game, get a number or two, and then around 4 hours later in the evening she writes "are you upset" which I know means she knows she did something wrong. I'm jetlagged as hell at this point and don't feel like bothering responding, but do the next morning i write back "I'm not upset (want to stay rationale, in control), but thought we had made a tentative date, just confused a bit". I considered calling her out and saying it was rude, but didn't. (mistake??)

So I don't email her until today (11 days later) to re-start. I just say 'hey what's up, been busy, how are you doing?". She responds like 2 hours later saying "??...u had not one free minute during the past two weeks to write me a message? Sorry I can't belive that".

WTF? Ok, pretty sure she's playing games, feel like I've completely lost my frame, but dont' give a damn at this point so I say "I was out of town in London for a week (a lie, but whatever) and incredibly busy with a conference (true) - work has been crazy. And you can always text me too)- didn't hear back from you last week. And by the way, i think it's a bit rude that you didn't met up with me that saturday and instead went out of town after we made plans."

Either get a tighter text game or start calling girls.

I would choose the second option if I was you.

She was clearly at least a bit interested in you. Don't expect for girls to wait around 2 weeks for you. It doesn't happen especially in America.
She probably forgot about meeting up or had other plans. It is a weekend, unless she is a social moron she has plans already. Next time just respond like it's nothing example:

Her: "hi, I'm out of town. how are you?"

You: "Heading to xyz club, some girls I know invited me"

Since she clearly forgot about your "date" then you act like you forgot too.

Quote: (05-23-2013 04:11 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

Quote: (05-23-2013 02:38 PM)Akula Wrote:  

During this time away she texts me a couple times, once saying she misses me,

How old are you?
How old is she?
US or someplace else?

If you're both in your late 20's and you live in the US - bounce.
If you're both young and you live in the US - put her low priority.
If this is happening in some foreign land, I have no idea, but things might work differently.

As has been suggested, you need to increase the pipeline of chicks, thus your feelings are never tied up in any particular interaction.

And if there is social media involved, nowadays you've got to advertise how much fun you're having, to make her realize how boring she is.

WIA

Thanks WIA.

I'm 44 she's 25 We're in Russia. Usually this sh*t never happens to me and I get the bang after a few dates/weeks, but the timing and me being away, plus this being an internet girl has me a bit stymied as to what to do here. She is a 'new' member on Badoo, and I am on the site constantly and she has not logged on in weeks from what I can tell, so I don't think she's playing the internet game (yet).

If this were the US I fully agree with you, I would be done and dusted and need to move on. Probably still the case here too.

I have several things going on so I'm not focusing on her solely (thank G*d, sage advice), but this was a good lead, and my trip away effed things up I was sooo close IMHO. Anyway, I think it's pretty much done now, oh well. But will see what transpires. It's not over until the fat lady sings....

Quote: (05-23-2013 05:58 PM)Doulos2Game Wrote:  

Quote: (05-23-2013 02:38 PM)Akula Wrote:  

But I had to go away for a 2-week holiday which broke up the magic of the moment a bit.

Sure enough, I get a text like 3 hours later (bad sign already) saying "hi, I'm out of town. how are you?" I don't respond, go out with a buddy to run some day game, get a number or two, and then around 4 hours later in the evening she writes "are you upset" which I know means she knows she did something wrong. I'm jetlagged as hell at this point and don't feel like bothering responding, but do the next morning i write back "I'm not upset (want to stay rationale, in control), but thought we had made a tentative date, just confused a bit". I considered calling her out and saying it was rude, but didn't. (mistake??)

So I don't email her until today (11 days later) to re-start. I just say 'hey what's up, been busy, how are you doing?". She responds like 2 hours later saying "??...u had not one free minute during the past two weeks to write me a message? Sorry I can't belive that".

WTF? Ok, pretty sure she's playing games, feel like I've completely lost my frame, but dont' give a damn at this point so I say "I was out of town in London for a week (a lie, but whatever) and incredibly busy with a conference (true) - work has been crazy. And you can always text me too)- didn't hear back from you last week. And by the way, i think it's a bit rude that you didn't met up with me that saturday and instead went out of town after we made plans."

Either get a tighter text game or start calling girls.

I would choose the second option if I was you.

She was clearly at least a bit interested in you. Don't expect for girls to wait around 2 weeks for you. It doesn't happen especially in America.
She probably forgot about meeting up or had other plans. It is a weekend, unless she is a social moron she has plans already. Next time just respond like it's nothing example:

Her: "hi, I'm out of town. how are you?"

You: "Heading to xyz club, some girls I know invited me"

Since she clearly forgot about your "date" then you act like you forgot too.

Thx - these would have worked better. I particularly like "heading to xyz club, some girls I know invited me." (especially since it was kinda true!)

But frankly we'd agreed on Wednesday to meet up on Saturday, so not buying she 'forgot'. I should have played it cooler, but frankly thought she was pretty done with me if she wasn't running into my arms after not seeing me for 3 weeks - but instead completely forgetting or not caring. That's probably my first mistake - i.e. trying to make it something more than it was, and assuming just bc she said 'she misses me' that I somehow had her (particularly bc I had not banged yet).

Would you run into the arms of a girl you haven't seen in three weeks and also haven't even bang yet?



Don't expect women to do what you see on those chick flicks you been watching.

This might shed some light.

Move on.

Fuck her already. Thats why she is flaking, you get her all hot and bothered and do nothing about it.

Quote: (05-25-2013 12:15 AM)germanico Wrote:  

Fuck her already. Thats why she is flaking, you get her all hot and bothered and do nothing about it.

Ok so I went into 'Beta makeup' mode last night and texted her saying I "think there's been a misunderstanding, want to see you/meet up and talk etc." Nothing too weak really, but wanted to make sure she knows I'm interested and re-start. I sensed I needed to go nuclear and 're-frame' the conversation a bit as I could feel I might lose this one if I didn't do some damage control, and there's zero reason to give up.

Also, remember we're in Russia here guys not the US so as Roosh says you need to be more beta here many times, these girls get plenty of douchebag's treating them like sh*t 24-7 so nice guy game when done strategically combined with a strong "I"m the man" frame can work or at least has in the past for me. I'm happy to go with longer game. She texted me late last night saying let's meet tomorrow later, so we'll see.

FYI I was out last night til 3am and did about 6-7 approaches at the bar, got 2 numbers (neither of which I think are good leads though) so I'm working my game hard and trying to improve.

I've also triple booked today with 2 separate girls + am supposed to meet my buddy and his gf's friend for drinks later in the evening so this could be an interesting day of juggling my time and the ladies!!

Will post after the meetup and let u know how it goes.

Update: so I met with her last week and with her friend who was in town. Bad situation I know, but had to re-engage after not seeing her for 4 weeks, so I figure I'll have to do some rebuilding here. Didn't go too well, she is clearly upset I didn't call for so long, and seems to have this undercurrent of anger - which means I think she sees me as 'relationship guy' who no doubt she thinks she can control. I played it totally cool and left around 2am as she was headed to another party and I was pretty tired from going on the 3 previous nights. But it was kinda a 'meh' night. I did a lot of touching, light kissing etc. but given we were with her friend who was in town for the weekend didn't get an opportunity to make any moves.

So then I texted her the next day to keep her interested, and she wrote back saying 'let's meet up this Friday before my hen party'. Totally can sense she's playing hard to get, trying to put me on her schedule, not mine etc. So I'll meet her but at this point I could give a sh*t about this one honestly. Just can't believe it's gone this far off the tracks. And I have noticed some troubling signs from the last meeting - she's got a close gay dude she hangs with, has completely stopped her attempt to quit smoking, mentioned something about her wanting to experiment with her sexuality, etc. I am 50% sure she' probably been more slutty and b@nged other dudes on the first date before, but at 25 in Russia that might be like hitting the 30s wall in the US so she's going into 'hard to get mode'.

If she gives me one bit of crap tonight I'm going to just say 'listen, I'm not here to have you give me a hard time or stay angry with me, etc. and 'tell you what let's go back to my place'. If that doesn't work just blow out of there. Not wasting a Friday night on her if she won't play ball. This would be the 6th time we've seen each other and if she's not DTF no idea why even with the 4 week hiatus. Frankly I'm thinking of cancelling last minute, but I want to see what sort of reception she gives me when I give her a warm approach and start to touch/kiss her.

Quote: (05-23-2013 03:04 PM)ryanf Wrote:  

Inb4 dick pic recommendation

It may be a little late for that. If she had responded with a bitchy or flaky text, the best thing to do is to send her a dick pic with no text. If she said "wow wtf is wrong with you?" just say "your communication sucks."

In general, if someone flakes, I think it is up to them to reschedule, otherwise it is safe to say they lost interest.

Quote: (05-31-2013 07:58 AM)master_thespian Wrote:  

Quote: (05-23-2013 03:04 PM)ryanf Wrote:  

Inb4 dick pic recommendation

It may be a little late for that. If she had responded with a bitchy or flaky text, the best thing to do is to send her a dick pic with no text. If she said "wow wtf is wrong with you?" just say "your communication sucks."

In general, if someone flakes, I think it is up to them to reschedule, otherwise it is safe to say they lost interest.

I think this is true in general, but guys gotta develop the instinct for when the flake is genuine, other things did intrude upon her time, and when she's still interested. I agree you should let her reschedule normally, but if you sense the girl's still attracted you can contact her again by text.

There's always a fine balance here between being the aloof confident guy with an abundance of girls in his life and being an assertive guy who goes for what he wants.

Quote: (05-31-2013 09:47 AM)Therapsid Wrote:  

Quote: (05-31-2013 07:58 AM)master_thespian Wrote:  

Quote: (05-23-2013 03:04 PM)ryanf Wrote:  

Inb4 dick pic recommendation

It may be a little late for that. If she had responded with a bitchy or flaky text, the best thing to do is to send her a dick pic with no text. If she said "wow wtf is wrong with you?" just say "your communication sucks."

In general, if someone flakes, I think it is up to them to reschedule, otherwise it is safe to say they lost interest.

I think this is true in general, but guys gotta develop the instinct for when the flake is genuine, other things did intrude upon her time, and when she's still interested. I agree you should let her reschedule normally, but if you sense the girl's still attracted you can contact her again by text.

There's always a fine balance here between being the aloof confident guy with an abundance of girls in his life and being an assertive guy who goes for what he wants.

Ok so I texted her today, saying hey what's up, how's your week, let's meet on the weekend (that's an early in the week text for Russia, but she was super into me last week, at least I thought, and I'm doing a bit of damage control after not having any contact with her for almost 2 weeks previously, so wanted to touch base mid week).

So she writes back to me 3 hours later saying "Hi, the week is good, I'm having dinner at xyz restaurant...alone. What about you?", then "what about the weekend? I think it's too early for planning that"...followed by this (at 10:30 p.m.) "maybe let's go for a walk now?"

Ok, I know 1) she definitely wants to go out with me this weekend, and 2) she's definitely playing games with me to a certain extent. But what's up with telling me she's out along? And then 'let's take a walk thing?"

I am pretty sure I'm close to the bang, am going to politely refuse to meet up tonight, and maybe let her get in touch with me instead of me trying her again, but sh*t I've got a massive weekend planned and wanted to try to fit her in someway. As it stands I'm booked now with girls tomorrow night and Sat afternoon, and probably Sunday, and I want to have some beers with a bunch of guys after work on Friday. And I'm worried she's got relationship plans for me with all this careful maneuvering on her part about weekend plans and timing + how upset she seemed when I went AWOL for 2 weeks. Plus, to make it worse, she proactively sms'd me last week setting up a meeting with me last Friday - so I feel that she's trying to control the frame a bit and wrap me around her finger slowly.

Sooo...Ok for me to go radio silent until late Friday when I'm out and only then text her if I haven't heard back? Or just wait til Sat? Or don't even respond until I hear back from her and if she complains say "i made other plans"?)). I'm suppose do day game all Sat with my buddy too, so I'm running out of weekend time....

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So she writes back to me 3 hours later saying "Hi, the week is good, I'm having dinner at xyz restaurant...alone. What about you?", then "what about the weekend? I think it's too early for planning that"...followed by this (at 10:30 p.m.) "maybe let's go for a walk now?"

Dude, if you weren't already balls deep in another girl's pussy when that text came through why in the world would you decline? So much of game and getting the bang is catching a woman when she's DTF and it sounds like she very much was. I honestly think a lot of us get so wrapped up in "gaming" a woman that we pass opportunity up when it hits us in the face in order to remain "aloof" or "alpha". Look no further than Soup's OKC field reports. The guy makes a living by capitalizing on last minute meet ups when a girl is DTF. I think you missed a possible sure thing here. Just my two cents...

Quote: (06-05-2013 06:03 PM)RCron Wrote:  

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So she writes back to me 3 hours later saying "Hi, the week is good, I'm having dinner at xyz restaurant...alone. What about you?", then "what about the weekend? I think it's too early for planning that"...followed by this (at 10:30 p.m.) "maybe let's go for a walk now?"

Dude, if you weren't already balls deep in another girl's pussy when that text came through why in the world would you decline? So much of game and getting the bang is catching a woman when she's DTF and it sounds like she very much was. I honestly think a lot of us get so wrapped up in "gaming" a woman that we pass opportunity up when it hits us in the face in order to remain "aloof" or "alpha". Look no further than Soup's OKC field reports. The guy makes a living by capitalizing on last minute meet ups when a girl is DTF. I think you missed a possible sure thing here. Just my two cents...

Interesting point of view, thanks Rcron. U may be right.
Let me go through my reaction and rationale at the time:

1. she sms'd me 3.5 hours after I texted her on a Wednesday, indicating she could care less;
2. she said she was alone at a rather expensive coffee shop/restaurant in the center of town that would have been a 20 minute trip just to get there; I thought maybe she was trying to entrap me to come help pay, and above all didn't want to act too interested or excited to see her on a 'spur of the moment' idea she had (i.e. on her terms & timing);
3. it was getting late on a Wednesday night and I would not have been able to meet her until 11:45 at the earliest given the timing and when I saw her responses. I really thought at the time that given her track record (lost of messing around, no b@ngs) that she was once again trying to set me up to hang out but no nookie with it being a school nite and all; and
4. I seriously didn't want to drink and she drinks a lot usually, had a big weekend and trying to cut back.

But most of all, I didn't want to be her lap dog and act like I was dying to come see her on her terms. Basically I wanted to see aloof and unavailable a bit and make her chase me. I gave some thought to not responding until today given the texting 'rules' but thought I'd at least get back to her saying I was not coming. She's been tricky and sly all along, seemingly playing games & re-frame things to her liking, and I would rather not be her little beta-b*tch who comes running at a moment's notice the minute she bothers to text me back 3.5 hours later.

All that said, maybe I missed something here. Wondering what u think after my reasons highllighted above. Thx.

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1. she sms'd me 3.5 hours after I texted her on a Wednesday, indicating she could care less;

Not necessarily. Some women are just slow with texting. The girl I'm currently banging sometimes takes the same amount of time to reply yet she happily comes over every week to get her pussy beat up by me so you can't base interest solely on text response time.

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2. she said she was alone at a rather expensive coffee shop/restaurant in the center of town that would have been a 20 minute trip just to get there; I thought maybe she was trying to entrap me to come help pay, and above all didn't want to act too interested or excited to see her on a 'spur of the moment' idea she had (i.e. on her terms & timing);

I get what you're trying to do and for the most part that's a solid play but in certain circumstances when it's been tough to pin her down to a specific time sometimes you have to be spontaneous and strike while the pussy is hot. As for paying for her meal you could have avoided that whole discussion by just meeting her for the walk after she was done like she suggested.

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3. it was getting late on a Wednesday night and I would not have been able to meet her until 11:45 at the earliest given the timing and when I saw her responses. I really thought at the time that given her track record (lost of messing around, no b@ngs) that she was once again trying to set me up to hang out but no nookie with it being a school nite and all; and

Maybe or maybe not. The one thing I've learned is that you never want to assume you're going to see a woman again if you haven't banged her yet. In other words, don't think "I'll pass on her invite to see me tonight because I think we're going to get together over the weekend." I've been burned by this more times than I can count.

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4. I seriously didn't want to drink and she drinks a lot usually, had a big weekend and trying to cut back.

Can't help you much there. You could always have drank club soda, water or something else and joked about how you went a little crazy last weekend and are trying to detox. Spin it into a funny story.

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Basically I wanted to see aloof and unavailable a bit and make her chase me.

But she was chasing you when she invited you out for the walk. It sounds like you want her to chase you in the specific way you want to be chased. Sorry, not likely going to happen. Many times women will not give us any kind of chase and it's up to us to make everything happen.

Postmortem:

So I finally dropped her. I guess not contacting her for 11+ days really p*ssed her off and turned her on me. She was visibly p*ssed the date we had when I got back from vacation. I tried to re-frame and sooth her concerns and the situation, but she was pretty icy from then on. The next time I saw her we kissed a bit, but then she had to go meet her friend at a B-day party and I didn't seem to be invited. Whatever I went to another bar and got a couple numbers.

But man, can't believe I didnt get the bang on this one. Really thought this was done and dusted and only a matter of time before I went away on vacation for two weeks. When I got back and re-engaged it was different and she seemed to be playing games and less responsive. I think she's obv got another dude or two on the side, and she keeps talking about wanting to spend time with her gay friend, which is a bad sign as well. I might have missed an opportunity on that Wednesday evening when I decided not to meet up with her, but honestly at the time I felt she was just using me for more drinks. Who the hell knows maybe she's been reading Cosmo and her horoscope daily as well and 'this just wasn't the time'.

So on to the next.....live and learn...but what a waste of time!! The forum hath spoken and were right in this instance I think.

Don't beat yourself up too much on this one Akula. At the very least you learned a lot of hard earned lessons on what to do next time. For what it's worth, it seems as though some magical, mumbo jumbo bullshit happens when someone goes on vacation early in the dating process. I don't think I've ever salvaged one after either she or I went away for a week or more.

Also, I've had the experience of losing touch with someone I've seen a time or two and then they agree to another date and they're cold as ice. No amount of cocky/funny/kino/callback humor has been able to save the situation. I can't help but wonder, if they're just going to be a cold bitch the entire time why did they agree to come out in the first place!?!

I would just chalk this one up to the game and plow on...