Hey guys, I had an unusual encounter with a girl this weekend that has set me back a bit, and I'd appreciate some input.
Basic story:
Met the girl for coffee last week. Quick cool conversation... usually first dates go well for me (about 3/4 end up in second dates).
I meet here for drinks a few days later, all goes well, and I invite her back to watch a movie. She seems enthusiastic about the idea.
She seems a bit uptight, sitting on the other side of the couch when we arrive. I end up escalating a little kino, which she doesn't resist, but informs me she 'doesn't want to go any farther tonight". Movie ends, I walk her out and close with a kiss that she doesn't resist, and seems to enjoy. Over all things seem to have went well for a second date, she seemed comfortable with me and as best I could tell had fun.
Two days later I get a text stating that she had fun, but as I alluded to, 'does not believe were are a good match'. I know this post sounds a bit lame, but it seemed like I did everything right, and also gave the girl plenty of time to bail if she wasn't feeling it.
Also, in general she seemed pretty uptight, esp sexually, so I'm wondering if perhaps I came on too strong. She was also younger (23, wheres I'm 27).
Any thoughts on this one? I kind of want to bang her more now that shes resisting a bit, but not sure if thats a possibility or how to spin the situation.
Thanks guys!
Basic story:
Met the girl for coffee last week. Quick cool conversation... usually first dates go well for me (about 3/4 end up in second dates).
I meet here for drinks a few days later, all goes well, and I invite her back to watch a movie. She seems enthusiastic about the idea.
She seems a bit uptight, sitting on the other side of the couch when we arrive. I end up escalating a little kino, which she doesn't resist, but informs me she 'doesn't want to go any farther tonight". Movie ends, I walk her out and close with a kiss that she doesn't resist, and seems to enjoy. Over all things seem to have went well for a second date, she seemed comfortable with me and as best I could tell had fun.
Two days later I get a text stating that she had fun, but as I alluded to, 'does not believe were are a good match'. I know this post sounds a bit lame, but it seemed like I did everything right, and also gave the girl plenty of time to bail if she wasn't feeling it.
Also, in general she seemed pretty uptight, esp sexually, so I'm wondering if perhaps I came on too strong. She was also younger (23, wheres I'm 27).
Any thoughts on this one? I kind of want to bang her more now that shes resisting a bit, but not sure if thats a possibility or how to spin the situation.
Thanks guys!