Well, still learning the game, trying to get a girlfriend or girl. Past 2 weeks, I've hitting up the language department. My current game is bring a Russian literature book and ask people questions about words I don't know, or stop reading it and talk to girls next to me in English, even though I already know good Russian and reasonable Ukrainian. I scan where are there hot girls and a free bench, and sit there. I've been trying harder to be describe my life more thought and emotion provoking(in the beginning, my game is boring, I just tell them I'm from America and ask all these questions in Ukrainian, I sound an interviewer like are u you student, what do you study, do you have a boyfriend....). Hopefully, I didn't leave a lame impression. i try to talk about adventure/travel and my lifestyle so on, but I need to make it more vivid and exciting. I also start to switch to Ukrainian after a while, they get a little impressed. They often ask where I'm from and what I do, and I answer them in a lame way. Still figuring out more and new clever ways to answer these questions. I need to move on more to teasing and jokes, so on. Girls are usually in groups waiting for a class. I can sense that they know I'm interested in them and I'm hitting on them.
There are so many hotties walking out classes and in hurry to leave, I don't know to how to approach hotties leaving without looking I'm here just to chase them. I could get off the chair and walk up to them, then all the girls sitting and waiting will notice. Another problem is that new girls I approach are with girls I already approached previously or within sight to girls I already approached.
one psych girl prepping for a test made me ask her about personalities. Then I tried to palm read her, but then I forgot all about the reading, I even said I don't remember how to do it really![[Image: huh.gif]](https://rooshvforum.network/images/smilies/huh.gif)
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Shit,sometimes tell too much about life in boring and brief way. I should've never said I'm still looking for more jobs here, now I think they think less of me. Maybe I should wear a little less casual attire and have nicer gadgets( maybe a blazer and not a cheap phone). Need to be more mysterious
My approaches feel really forced, nervous, boring,a little creepy and desperate. I feel if I'm too direct I will scare them away, so my approaches are still more friendly and more to draw their interests for the next time. I've avoided giving compliments before, but I realized maybe a compliment plus a neg might do some good.
My apartment is at the center of city and the uni is really close.
I'm still building a social circle, but I need to try a little harder. Had a party, but only three people came(one girl).
Sometimes I wait too long to call, like a week, they start to forgot about me. Text messaging hasn't fared so well, lack of responses.(I say boring shit, like hello, how are you in Ukrainian and text multiples texts before she even responds back, ) Still improving on my text game
I need more to figure how to ask more effective questions, but this can be hard in Ukrainian. I need to learn how to build more rapport. So many things to do.
Street approaches are even harder.
I need some help on some openers, how to ask basic questions in interesting way, more logistics, building attraction, example approaches, so on. Someone told me that can I sit here and a compliment on her attire are not bad openers.
There are so many hotties walking out classes and in hurry to leave, I don't know to how to approach hotties leaving without looking I'm here just to chase them. I could get off the chair and walk up to them, then all the girls sitting and waiting will notice. Another problem is that new girls I approach are with girls I already approached previously or within sight to girls I already approached.
one psych girl prepping for a test made me ask her about personalities. Then I tried to palm read her, but then I forgot all about the reading, I even said I don't remember how to do it really
. Shit,sometimes tell too much about life in boring and brief way. I should've never said I'm still looking for more jobs here, now I think they think less of me. Maybe I should wear a little less casual attire and have nicer gadgets( maybe a blazer and not a cheap phone). Need to be more mysterious
My approaches feel really forced, nervous, boring,a little creepy and desperate. I feel if I'm too direct I will scare them away, so my approaches are still more friendly and more to draw their interests for the next time. I've avoided giving compliments before, but I realized maybe a compliment plus a neg might do some good.
My apartment is at the center of city and the uni is really close.
I'm still building a social circle, but I need to try a little harder. Had a party, but only three people came(one girl).
Sometimes I wait too long to call, like a week, they start to forgot about me. Text messaging hasn't fared so well, lack of responses.(I say boring shit, like hello, how are you in Ukrainian and text multiples texts before she even responds back, ) Still improving on my text game
I need more to figure how to ask more effective questions, but this can be hard in Ukrainian. I need to learn how to build more rapport. So many things to do.
Street approaches are even harder.
I need some help on some openers, how to ask basic questions in interesting way, more logistics, building attraction, example approaches, so on. Someone told me that can I sit here and a compliment on her attire are not bad openers.
