Gentlemen,
I've been in a LTR for about 15 months now with a girl that is potentially my future wife. Having said that, we are going to live separately for the next 2-5 years; I plan to see her every 3-4 months and "fuck her good (XIV)".
She has stated that she not only will not cheat, but has absolutely no desire to. She has been with 2 guys before she met me.
An interesting consideration: I have not agreed to be abstinent, and she has in fact given me the green light to proceed, although she doesn't like it.
My question is, for those of you that have or are going through a similar situation, how would you maximise the probability she will stay faithful? I realize that she's a girl and the chances are high she will not stay faithful regardless of what she says, but ideally I'd like to have her around later.
Let me make this clear: I have no problem moving on without her if she fails.
I've been in a LTR for about 15 months now with a girl that is potentially my future wife. Having said that, we are going to live separately for the next 2-5 years; I plan to see her every 3-4 months and "fuck her good (XIV)".
She has stated that she not only will not cheat, but has absolutely no desire to. She has been with 2 guys before she met me.
An interesting consideration: I have not agreed to be abstinent, and she has in fact given me the green light to proceed, although she doesn't like it.
My question is, for those of you that have or are going through a similar situation, how would you maximise the probability she will stay faithful? I realize that she's a girl and the chances are high she will not stay faithful regardless of what she says, but ideally I'd like to have her around later.
Let me make this clear: I have no problem moving on without her if she fails.