I had a distance relationship with a Russian girl for almost a year. She came 4 times to visit me in Spain, I went once to Berlin where she lived last year.

When she returned to complete her studies in Moscow (Law) she needed a visa to come to Spain. She didnt had the money to proove she could support herself here for the tourist visa application, so she asked me to loan her for it. I loaned her 1615 euros.

Things when well, for some time.
She came 2 times here after that, paying her own flights (or so I thought)

During this year she has been a model girlfriend. Very pleasing, smiling, everything. Too good to be true, right?

Well, for this last trip (she was suppossed to come last Saturday) she asked me explicitly if she could you my money (the loan) for buying the tickets. I said yes.

Long story short. She didnt come. No communication, no explanation, nothing besides a short whatsapp message sent after she didnt board the plane. She spent the night in the airport but didnt board, then sent me this form the train:

"buenosaires! I am terribly sorry - I do not know what I am doing - but I could not come - I feel this the wrong thing that we do/ I feel I do not belong there - I want to stay in Russia. You are going to hate - but I feel that this that I had to do - before it is not to late, I seriously tried and it was from my soul - and I wish you only happiness - but is too hard for me..."

This was completely unexpected for everyone that knows her (quite well we thought) on my side.

After that, complete radio silence.

Phone off.

No answer to facebook, whatsapp, nothing.

Afer 2 days of incomunication, I assume the worst and think of what do I have as leverage to get my money back.

REVENGE PORN

I have load of sexy photos she sent me and HARDCORE PORN videos I did with her. (do you want to see a sample?)

I gave her a date until Friday 15th (yesterday) to pay me back my money. She said she would (via facebook, vk, but since then she has deleted her profiles), but hasnt.

I have copied all her contacts from vk, facebook.
I have her address. I have her family address.

I am trwowing the question to you guys,
How would you go about getting my money back?

I have to do something NOW to prove I am serious. Then I could give her another week to pay.

Road trip. Show up at her house with two or three guys and demand she pay back the money.

Not willing to do that? Charge it to the game.

You could definitely go the revenge porn route. E-mail or text her that you will upload your homemade porn with her on a tube site if she doesn't give you back your money. Tell her you will give her a week to get back to you or else you will upload the video.

In the end it might not work, but at least you taught her a lesson. As they say, turnabout is fair play.

Always wanted to use this:

I hope she taught you a lesson here - rule number one - never lend a woman money. If you ever lend a woman money, assume that she won't pay you back. Also, why would you lend her 1650 euros when she was a long distance girlfriend? Majority of people dont have good morals, of course she wasn't going to pay you back.

I will let the other guys tell you what to do about the porn thing.

Quote: (03-16-2013 06:21 AM)pitt Wrote:  

I hope she taught you a lesson here - rule number one - never lend a woman money. If you ever lend a woman money, assume that she won't pay you back. Also, why would you lend her 1650 euros when she was a long distance girlfriend? Majority of people dont have good morals, of course she wasn't going to pay you back.

I will let the other guys tell you what to do about the porn thing.

Not beat up on the OP, but this type of scam is actually somewhat common for Russian chicks to pull on unsuspecting foreigners. Charge it to the game, I guess.

Also, what if she already spent the money (likely)? I guess the OP can ask for her to pay it back in installments, but that seems unlikely.

Quote: (03-16-2013 06:21 AM)pitt Wrote:  

I hope she taught you a lesson here - rule number one - never lend a woman money. If you ever lend a woman money, assume that she won't pay you back. Also, why would you lend her 1650 euros when she was a long distance girlfriend? Majority of people dont have good morals, of course she wasn't going to pay you back.

I will let the other guys tell you what to do about the porn thing.

Lesson learned!

I think you should post some samples just to make sure us RVFers are aware what she looks like in case we ever run into her in Russia....

Quote: (03-16-2013 06:24 AM)The Texas Prophet Wrote:  

Quote: (03-16-2013 06:21 AM)pitt Wrote:  

I hope she taught you a lesson here - rule number one - never lend a woman money. If you ever lend a woman money, assume that she won't pay you back. Also, why would you lend her 1650 euros when she was a long distance girlfriend? Majority of people dont have good morals, of course she wasn't going to pay you back.

I will let the other guys tell you what to do about the porn thing.

Not beat up on the OP, but this scam is actually somewhat common for Russian chicks to pull on unsuspecting foreigners. Charge it to the game, I guess.

This was suppossed to be a "good girl"

Anyways this is what happens when you trust women. Will not happen again. I am cured.

Some non porn photos she sent attached. The porn videos have lots of dick in them, not sure you want that here guys.

   
   

Quote: (03-16-2013 06:32 AM)buenosaires Wrote:  

Quote: (03-16-2013 06:24 AM)The Texas Prophet Wrote:  

Quote: (03-16-2013 06:21 AM)pitt Wrote:  

I hope she taught you a lesson here - rule number one - never lend a woman money. If you ever lend a woman money, assume that she won't pay you back. Also, why would you lend her 1650 euros when she was a long distance girlfriend? Majority of people dont have good morals, of course she wasn't going to pay you back.

I will let the other guys tell you what to do about the porn thing.

Not beat up on the OP, but this scam is actually somewhat common for Russian chicks to pull on unsuspecting foreigners. Charge it to the game, I guess.

This was suppossed to be a "good girl"

Anyways this is what happens when you trust women. Will not happen again. I am cured.

Some non porn photos she sent attached. The porn videos have lots of dick in them, not sure you want that here guys.

Some porn "slipped in"

I want details on how to do it. I need to upload something now, likely the softer stuff, to drive her to action and show her I am serious.

Also, I forgot to mention I had death threats from Russia?

haha nice shit, I think you should send some videos to her email direct and say, stop the death threats and pay the money back or everyone in your country/whole world is going to know you're a slut.

Quote: (03-16-2013 06:43 AM)bojangles Wrote:  

haha nice shit, I think you should send some videos to her email direct and say, stop the death threats and pay the money back or everyone in your country/whole world is going to know you're a slut.

I did. Via facebook on Monday. She has deleted her profile.
I dont have her email.

The idiot as actually made her difficult to reach.

I guess she will have a "media appearance"

This girl wanted to go into politics!!! she has the whoring part figured out.

Quote: (03-16-2013 06:36 AM)buenosaires Wrote:  

Quote: (03-16-2013 06:32 AM)buenosaires Wrote:  

Quote: (03-16-2013 06:24 AM)The Texas Prophet Wrote:  

Quote: (03-16-2013 06:21 AM)pitt Wrote:  

I hope she taught you a lesson here - rule number one - never lend a woman money. If you ever lend a woman money, assume that she won't pay you back. Also, why would you lend her 1650 euros when she was a long distance girlfriend? Majority of people dont have good morals, of course she wasn't going to pay you back.

I will let the other guys tell you what to do about the porn thing.

Not beat up on the OP, but this scam is actually somewhat common for Russian chicks to pull on unsuspecting foreigners. Charge it to the game, I guess.

This was suppossed to be a "good girl"

Anyways this is what happens when you trust women. Will not happen again. I am cured.

Some non porn photos she sent attached. The porn videos have lots of dick in them, not sure you want that here guys.

Some porn "slipped in"

I want details on how to do it. I need to upload something now, likely the softer stuff, to drive her to action and show her I am serious.

Also, I forgot to mention I had death threats from Russia?

Most tube sites have a pretty easy way to upload videos. Just look for the upload icon/link.

Here is the upload section for xvideos.com:

http://upload.xvideos.com/account/uploads/new

Here is the faq for xvideos.com (scroll down to the uploaders section):

http://info.xvideos.com/faq/

LTR + RUSSIAN + loaning money?

People in the newbie forum could have told you how this one was going to end dude. I would do nothing, she doesn't deserve any type of revenge and you deserved the slap in the face for being so dumb. She ain't going to care if you send your pornos to her family, she is probably using that money to survive and dig herself out of the ditch she lives in.

I'd upload some of the stuff without showing her face and demand the money in X days or you put everything online and she will never be able to remove it again.

buenosaires you're probably not going to like what I have to say because you're caught up in the moment. You've been made a fool of, ripped off, and just thinking about it is making your blood boil.

As the saying goes, revenge is a dish best served cold and right now you are way too fired up. In this type of situation I've learned you must sit on your hands and bide your time before embarking on any type of revenge campaign. My rule is that if someone or something has pissed me off so bad that I feel the need to get back at them then I have a 90 day waiting period before I do anything.

Usually by the end of 90 days I no longer care enough, the anger has receded and I've saved myself from doing something stupid and rash the consequences of which could potentially get me into great trouble. I got a temper and a short fuse but I've learned it's best to control your emotions, not let them control you.

90 days gives you plenty of time to dream up the perfect revenge scheme if your target is deserving. 90 days also takes you off your targets radar, although in your specific situation the bitch is obviously going to recognize your cock in her mouth (hopefully). She knows what you have on her, she will go crazy waiting and wondering when or how you're going to use it and the longer you wait, the crazier she'll get. I might do something like wait 90 days and send her that blowjob picture you got, no text, just the picture, then wait another 90 days and see if I feel like sending the same picture to her parents or her work or her friends.

Set a time limit far past what your anger tells you right now to do and wait. You've got a ton of damaging stuff on her. Sit on it and keep radio silence, bide your time and the perfect situation usually presents itself in order for you to have your revenge.

Remember, it's best served ice fucking cold.

Whatever happens, please update.

good post painter.

I have some naked pics of a girl who pissed me off a while back. Can anyone spread them around the internet for me?

Quote: (03-16-2013 07:15 AM)painter Wrote:  

buenosaires you're probably not going to like what I have to say because you're caught up in the moment. You've been made a fool of, ripped off, and just thinking about it is making your blood boil.

As the saying goes, revenge is a dish best served cold and right now you are way too fired up. In this type of situation I've learned you must sit on your hands and bide your time before embarking on any type of revenge campaign. My rule is that if someone or something has pissed me off so bad that I feel the need to get back at them then I have a 90 day waiting period before I do anything.

Usually by the end of 90 days I no longer care enough, the anger has receded and I've saved myself from doing something stupid and rash the consequences of which could potentially get me into great trouble. I got a temper and a short fuse but I've learned it's best to control your emotions, not let them control you.

90 days gives you plenty of time to dream up the perfect revenge scheme if your target is deserving. 90 days also takes you off your targets radar, although in your specific situation the bitch is obviously going to recognize your cock in her mouth (hopefully). She knows what you have on her, she will go crazy waiting and wondering when or how you're going to use it and the longer you wait, the crazier she'll get. I might do something like wait 90 days and send her that blowjob picture you got, no text, just the picture, then wait another 90 days and see if I feel like sending the same picture to her parents or her work or her friends.

Set a time limit far past what your anger tells you right now to do and wait. You've got a ton of damaging stuff on her. Sit on it and keep radio silence, bide your time and the perfect situation usually presents itself in order for you to have your revenge.

Remember, it's best served ice fucking cold.

Thank you for the good advice. That's exactly why I posted this here.

I will wait. Do nothing. I can hurt her anytime and she knows it. The anxiety and fear she will carry on waiting for this to unravel is a good tool.

Quote: (03-16-2013 07:01 AM)Jaylow Wrote:  

LTR + RUSSIAN + loaning money?

People in the newbie forum could have told you how this one was going to end dude. I would do nothing, she doesn't deserve any type of revenge and you deserved the slap in the face for being so dumb. She ain't going to care if you send your pornos to her family, she is probably using that money to survive and dig herself out of the ditch she lives in.

You are making too many assuptions.

Sucks man. She's a babe for what it's worth. Sounds like you've had some great times together. It could have been worse - you could have knocked her up.

I'd give a second thought before fucking with the Russians (especially if this girl wants to enter politics/has connections). Last thing you want is Boris on your doorstep.

As G would say,

Quote: (03-16-2013 06:00 AM)buenosaires Wrote:  

She came 4 times to visit me in Spain, I went once to Berlin.

I loaned her 1615 euros.
She came 2 times here after that, paying her own flights
During this year she has been a model girlfriend.

She is allowed to have a change of heart. She might have spent the money on nonrefundable tickets. You can take the hard line and say she failed to honor an agreement.

But look you cheap bastard, she spent money to visit you four times, and you visited her only one. Financially you are still ahead. Moreover, if you had forgiven the loan, then she would not have felt guilty or pressured and would have visited you. Russian women have a mercenary culture, and it might be a financial hardship for her to visit you. Paying for her tickets (or visiting her) would have been a sign that you are committed and at least sharing travel expenses. If you forgave the debt, you could even recover this now.

If she visits me and is a model girlfriend for a year then I'll gladly pay 1615 euros for travel expenses.

Quote: (03-16-2013 08:07 AM)Prophylaxis Wrote:  

Sucks man. She's a babe for what it's worth. Sounds like you've had some great times together. It could have been worse - you could have knocked her up.

I'd give a second thought before fucking with the Russians (especially if this girl wants to enter politics/has connections). Last thing you want is Boris on your doorstep.

As G would say,

I will not be intimidated. Besides, I have Russian connections myself that clearly told me not to buckle, its all bluffing.

Quote: (03-16-2013 08:08 AM)Divorco Wrote:  

Quote: (03-16-2013 06:00 AM)buenosaires Wrote:  

She came 4 times to visit me in Spain, I went once to Berlin.

I loaned her 1615 euros.
She came 2 times here after that, paying her own flights
During this year she has been a model girlfriend.

She is allowed to have a change of heart. She might have spent the money on nonrefundable tickets. You can take the hard line and say she failed to honor an agreement.

But look you cheap bastard, she spent money to visit you four times, and you visited her only one. Financially you are still ahead. Moreover, if you had forgiven the loan, then she would not have felt guilty or pressured and would have visited you. Russian women have a mercenary culture, and it might be a financial hardship for her to visit you. Paying for her tickets (or visiting her) would have been a sign that you are committed and at least sharing travel expenses. If you forgave the debt, you could even recover this now.

If she visits me and is a model girlfriend for a year then I'll gladly pay 1615 euros for travel expenses.

Making too many assumptions, you.

I guess you are used to having girlfriends do whoreish things, for me this is a first. I never thought I had to pay to bring her for zero expense times in my mediterranean island.

Fuck that!