I went on a nofap and pulled through (not literally) till around the one week mark, now me personally at 29 I tend to have an insatiable diet for women regardless of if I fap or not. However something strange started happening.

Where as before I felt I had to go out there and build up and escalate with women directly myself, they were more so noticing me. Coincidence? Sure, possibly. But if I was a betting man, which i am- my money would be on the fact something about me was exhuming sexual energy.

I had one girl at an airport start eye fucking me which has turned into filth talk, I am still looking forward to when we are in the same city. She likes long walks on the beach, moonlit dinners, anal sex and other unmentionable filthy acts.
Once arriving a very attractive French Belgium girl jumped me without a good understanding of the english language. The sex was better than expected. She was looking at me like I had no chance.

I also had an 8 who I thought played too many shit tests that I could not end up with that ended up dripping and escalating with me. It was such a surprise, I have since been back to see her and it was.. well worth it.

Why am i writing this? I have not been meeting new girls, lately I filled up my time with girls I met, enjoyed sex on the regular and filled the gaps with fap. I fapped three times yesterday and stayed in, today I feel useless and have no desire to go out. I feel a little anxious and am low in energy. I've slept just fine.

I meet new girls when I do not do the deed myself. For me, it works..
I'm not here to tell anyone what to do or recommend something that may not work for them.. Just sharing my experience and letting people know that for me it's all the difference.

I totally believe in the benefits of not fapping. I've overdone it for years now, had several occasions on which I pulled unexpectedly and didnt enjoy it nearly as much as I could have if I hadnt been fapping two or three times a day in the week before. On moments I knew I was gonna get laid and have been able to restrain myself for a couple of days sex is way better. Harder dick, bigger dick, more lust, more cum. In other words enriching my quality of life.

My problem is I need to study at home a lot, behind my laptop.. Requires so much of my selfdiscipline not to let my dirty mind wander off with so much porn just one click away. This group is inspiring.

I gave in an fapped...

Boredom is my enemy

Caught myself doing a little more than I should when I wake up with the everlasting cockmonster in my pants.

Just want to rededicate. I think I'm on Day 23. I have to check my journal.

Not for nothing and I appreciate what you guys are doing but this thread is fucking hilarious.

Day 25. My morning woods are consistent now. I installed a porn blocker to help me with my porn addiction. Haven't looked at the stuff since 11/05/12

Success....but still a long road to travel.

One day at a time.

and did u get lai in along this 25 days?

Some years ago, I went as many as 60 days without an orgasm (no porn, bitchez--nothing). It was incredibly difficult but the benefits were equally remarkable---I was able to figure out which women I was most viscerally attracted to and I was more focused, had more energy, etc. After the 60 days I broke the streak but since then have kept my porn-watching/masturbation to much lower levels than before. But if I'm honest, part of the reason I didn't keep my streak going is because it was just too difficult and I wimped out.

But reading through this thread (and watching the TED lecture) really made me want to give it another go, so I think I will. No way I can do 90 days without sex these days (I'm seeing a few different girls), but I think I can pull off 90 days without porn or masturbation.

One day at a time.

Quote: (12-29-2012 09:02 AM)spanish_courage Wrote:  

and did u get lai in along this 25 days?

No. I haven't been gaming at all. I'm am doing the Roosh Program next year.

Reading slubu's posts on the last page have inspired to do no fap for the long haul. The last time I did it I had a one night stand a week into the challenge and then fell into the habit of masturbating again right after. Especially the last couple weeks I've been fapping daily, I've noticed my motivation to go out and to get non-game related shit done has declined. I'm going to aim for 100 days of no fap. I'll keep track of it here.

I will go 100 days to P Dog, should be easier for me since its almost new years I can make it a resolution. Plus if im taking it as well as you I dont wanna be the one that has to come on here an type that fapped... ha

FapScience 101

http://www.bakadesuyo.com/2012/02/can-lu...u-smarter/

I was going to wait until Jan 1 to re-start but I didn't masturbate yesterday because I was too tired.

So yesterday was day one today is day 2. Attempting 90 days no porn or masturbation.

Ok I surrender.

I'll join this challenge of no-fapping.

Even though I decided to start the actual challenge yesterday, today is actually my 4th day of no fap because I was too tired to fap by the time I got back home over the weekend.

"Edged" a lot this morning and yesterday. I can edge a lot without cumming if I don't have any visual stimulus. I know that before long I won't be able to get away this.

Every time I find a really hot image/video I normally would've fapped to that night I've saved it to a folder for future use. I'm more into this for the No Fap to get more sex rather then No Porn aspect, I've never had any porn addiction problems or anything.

Taking a cold shower at night and bathing my groin in cold ass water kills the urge for a late night fap.

I have a loaded gun in my pants right now for tonight's New Years Eve celebrations.

Quote: (12-31-2012 02:10 AM)P Dog Wrote:  

Even though I decided to start the actual challenge yesterday, today is actually my 4th day of no fap because I was too tired to fap by the time I got back home over the weekend.

"Edged" a lot this morning and yesterday. I can edge a lot without cumming if I don't have any visual stimulus. I know that before long I won't be able to get away this.

Every time I find a really hot image/video I normally would've fapped to that night I've saved it to a folder for future use. I'm more into this for the No Fap to get more sex rather then No Porn aspect, I've never had any porn addiction problems or anything.

Taking a cold shower at night and bathing my groin in cold ass water kills the urge for a late night fap.

I have a loaded gun in my pants right now for tonight's New Years Eve celebrations.

http://www.yourbrainonporn.com/what-if-i...out-orgasm

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Whether you edge with porn or without, it is far worse than simply having an orgasm and getting it over with. Why is that? It all comes down to dopamine.

Had a bit of a scare last night. Definitely was packing a hard on for the ages. I came close but willpower took over. I finally gained the strength to last on this no fap thing.


Closing in on 30 days. 60 days will be my " success" 90 "my goal" 120 my "Supreme Victory"

Also, I am stopping sexual fantasy as well. That is tough but it can be done. I think my daily meditations have really been aiding me in this effort.

One day at a time...

I'm on my 15th day, I think my longest was 3 weeks to a month.

Horny as fuck, and almost pulled a SNL yesterday. I think one of my recent sticking points is that I don't handle the pulling logistics very well. I'm used to more drunk and sluttier girls who are so DTF the only thing you have to do is walk out with them from the venue and going to your place is just an afterthought. But now that I'm more comfortable with and can attract these "better" quality girls I need to put a lot more effort into pushing for the lay and taking responsibility off the girl.

Day 5 complete.

I'm watching RSD Foundations (also re-reading Bang and Day Bang.. reviewing the basics) and had a good laugh at this.

First time I seen this idea but I am going to try it starting today and see what happens.

Day 31. I feel like a monster. My big hurdle is the sexual fantasy now. I have overcome porn. 59 days left. Let's do it.

this is unreal...keep up the good work. isn't it hurting a lot?

I do actually believe there is something in this worth researching. There are too many reports of it having good effects for there not to be. I did actually give it a go, before I got into game though, and lasted about 2 weeks. Then I couldn't last anymore! But I might give it a go now I'm into game and do actually approach real women rather than watch them on a screen. What I found last time (again, probably because I wasn't frequently meeting/laying real women) I was fantasizing about porn rather than actual sex. I think this generation of men is fucked in that regard actually. EVERY man needs to take the red pill, enter the manosphere and things will improve from there. That said, if every man got into this stuff, then we'd need to really up our game!

Quote: (01-05-2013 03:51 PM)Teedub Wrote:  

I do actually believe there is something in this worth researching. There are too many reports of it having good effects for there not to be. I did actually give it a go, before I got into game though, and lasted about 2 weeks. Then I couldn't last anymore! But I might give it a go now I'm into game and do actually approach real women rather than watch them on a screen. What I found last time (again, probably because I wasn't frequently meeting/laying real women) I was fantasizing about porn rather than actual sex. I think this generation of men is fucked in that regard actually. EVERY man needs to take the red pill, enter the manosphere and things will improve from there. That said, if every man got into this stuff, then we'd need to really up our game!

I agree.

I think the manosphere is a rational response to the betaization of men. Not to say some elements of the movement can be a bit extreme, but I think it is necessary to offset the complete control women have over men in the American and European marketplace.

Quote: (01-04-2013 11:29 PM)garygroundwork Wrote:  

this is unreal...keep up the good work. isn't it hurting a lot?

It does not really hurt but it makes you feel like your carrying a weight sometimes. I am for the most part normal, horny as hell but I'm used to that being I am in my 20s. The key is not allow yourself to get aroused via masturbation, sexual fantasy, etc. Once you rev up your engine it becomes difficult to navigate the day as you have 32 days of unreleased sperm waiting to explode.

It has given me a lot of clarity about my sexual future, my sexual hang ups, and where to put my sperm next time (in a woman's mouth rather than in a towel). I feel a lot more charged to go out at night and try and get some since the only alternative is to fuck myself up psychologically.

One day at a time, One day at a time, One day at a time. That is how you succeed in doing this. I don't think about day 90. I focus on DAY 32!