Tuthmosis,
Have you ever hit a woman? Break it down....what happened?
Have you ever hit a woman? Break it down....what happened?
Quote: (10-17-2012 08:52 AM)Vorkuta Wrote:
Quote: (10-17-2012 04:55 AM)Thomas the Rhymer Wrote:
Beaten women tend to be very loyal from what I've seen. Even when they're afraid their partner is going to kill them, they still go back, saying "I'm afraid... But I love him!" I've also noticed that when these women finally leave their husbands, they don't want anything out of them - they don't ask for alimony or even for child support.
Loyal out of fear of getting a beating if they get caught probably. Also loyal out of being made to feel worthless and not having the courage to leave. Also not wanting money or child support probably because they don't want any kind of contact in any form from a man who abused them. I grew up in an abusive family with a mother who was abused by my father so I see no positives from it at all.
Sorry but if you have to hit a woman to keep her in line then you have no game. I have an eight year old daughter,do I slap her to keep her in line? Nope,she respects me so my word is enough. If you're word is not enough to control your woman then get rid of her,why put up with someone who disrespects you? As soon as a woman gives me shit I tell them straight up that I won't accept behavior like that and that if they pull that shit again I'll kick them out. Does it always work? Nope. So I kick them out,no second chance. Of course I've been hurt by the fact that I've had to do it but I can get a new girl anytime I want,I can go out tonight and get a new girl,so why put up with someone who thinks you're weak enough to take her shit?
Quote: (10-17-2012 02:25 PM)Sargon of Akkad Wrote:
I'm only going to say this once again. Any man who hits someone significantly weaker than them (and it's not out of self defense i.e. being hit first) is a pussy. Like Vorkuta, I grew up under an asshole like that, and there's nothing manly or "alpha" about that kind of behavior.
People can spout all this 1950s barnyard drivel about "being a man and disciplining their women", but if you have to hit someone you're living with to get them to listen to you, partularly if that person can't hold their own against you physically, that shows how much real authority you had in the first place.
Quote: (10-17-2012 02:25 PM)Sargon of Akkad Wrote:
I'm only going to say this once again. Any man who hits someone significantly weaker than them (and it's not out of self defense i.e. being hit first) is a pussy. Like Vorkuta, I grew up under an asshole like that, and there's nothing manly or "alpha" about that kind of behavior.
People can spout all this 1950s barnyard drivel about "being a man and disciplining their women", but if you have to hit someone you're living with to get them to listen to you, partularly if that person can't hold their own against you physically, that shows how much real authority you had in the first place.
Quote: (10-17-2012 04:31 PM)Giovonny Wrote:
Quote: (10-17-2012 02:25 PM)Sargon of Akkad Wrote:
I'm only going to say this once again. Any man who hits someone significantly weaker than them (and it's not out of self defense i.e. being hit first) is a pussy. Like Vorkuta, I grew up under an asshole like that, and there's nothing manly or "alpha" about that kind of behavior.
People can spout all this 1950s barnyard drivel about "being a man and disciplining their women", but if you have to hit someone you're living with to get them to listen to you, partularly if that person can't hold their own against you physically, that shows how much real authority you had in the first place.
I agree. Which might sound hypocritical because I have slapped women in my life. Maybe I should have handled those situations differently, maybe I should have controlled myself better. I'm not proud of what I did but I'm not ashamed of it either. The first girl I slapped was way of line. Talking shit to me in front of my friends. I just instinctively slapped her. I honestly did not make a conscious decision to do it, it just happened. If she would have called the cops I would probably regret doing it because I could have been arrested.
I think there are rare situations where people need to get smacked. I'm not only talking about women. Men need to get smacked too sometimes. Little kids need to get smacked on the ass, dogs need there collars yanked. There is a time for it.
I have seen women beaten into unconsciousness with broken noses, jaws, etc. I have seen women get raped. Almost always the guy doing it is an idiot. Rarely, is the guy a strong alpha who is doing it because he needs to set the world straight. Usually he is just a pussy picking on someone half his size.
Quote: (10-17-2012 06:53 AM)xsplat Wrote:
Quote: (10-17-2012 06:36 AM)j r Wrote:
When was the last time you hit an American woman? And how old was she?
I can't prove that there exists a single cross cultural innate trait. I've lived in the west, but that was over 12 years ago, and so now people tell me that it's all different now.
So you can invalidate all my experience if you want.
But I have strong reasons to believe that these are cross-cultural innate traits common to all female humans.
The legal and cultural issues are another issue. Whether your culture and law supports it or not, women respond positively to appropriate violence.
And you don't have to look far within your own western culture for examples of this.
Quote: (10-17-2012 07:57 PM)UrbanNerd Wrote:
I don't believe in hitting a woman except for self-defense but.....
spitting on someone is the ultimate disrespect (also what that girl on the bus did to the driver).
I still don't know if I would actually "hit" her...but one or two wrestling submission holds is a-comin'
Quote: (10-17-2012 09:21 PM)DarkTriad Wrote:
Quote: (10-17-2012 07:57 PM)UrbanNerd Wrote:
I don't believe in hitting a woman except for self-defense but.....
spitting on someone is the ultimate disrespect (also what that girl on the bus did to the driver).
I still don't know if I would actually "hit" her...but one or two wrestling submission holds is a-comin'
Spitting on you IS an assault. Hitting is perfectly appropriate self defense. You can't speculate as to whether they will continue assaulting you, so a quick left hook that turns their head away from you, and then face plantng them into the ground is an appropiate response. My state has specific case law that hitting someone that spits on you is NOT assault.
Quote: (10-17-2012 06:07 PM)KorbenDallas Wrote:
@Vorkuta
I have never beaten or really hit a woman. One spanking and then a hug and heartfelt apology doesn't constitute beating a woman. The title was meant to be provocative and I feel like you used the provocative post to get up a little too high on your pedestal-if you were directing your comment at me, but I don't think you were so if not disregard. I am in complete agreement against violence, I immiedeitly regretted spanking her without her permission. What I was trying to get across was that she responded well to something I was mortified i had just done. My point was yet another example that women respond to things different than what they say they respond too.
Quote: (10-17-2012 10:36 PM)Majestic Wrote:
We can argue till you become blue in the face but until you discipline your girl with an open hand, you have no idea the effects it has...she is putty in your hand...
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For thousands of years, men all over the world had the authority to give out appropriate corporal punishment to children and spouses.
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...every parent that spanked a child to keep them out of trouble is the same as some sick bastard burning them with cigarettes.
Quote: (10-17-2012 10:36 PM)Majestic Wrote:
Not trying to be a dick, If you HAVE NO EXPERIENCE in "disciplining" your women, then please keep your trap shut on the effects it has or how it's morally wrong.
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Let me get this straight...It's ok to discipline your dog if doesn't follow the rules, but it's not alright if a chick steps out of line.
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I feel more bad for my dog, a dog is completely helpless.
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A chick can defend her herself
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That's why these girls are out of control...not enough men to go around willing to discipline them... that's why they feel like they can cross the line whenever they feel like it, it's because of asses that are afraid to raise their hand.