Great report Mixx.

Your experiences draw many similarities to mine in Riga (Full Data Sheets coming soon), might be a latin thing.

Quote: (09-30-2010 05:36 AM)MiXXmaster27 Wrote:  

my 27 day trip

Mixx,

You mentioned that you're in IT - how do you get to take numerous extended vacations all year long?

exe

Quote: (10-02-2010 09:15 AM)exe Wrote:  

Quote: (09-30-2010 05:36 AM)MiXXmaster27 Wrote:  

my 27 day trip

Mixx,

You mentioned that you're in IT - how do you get to take numerous extended vacations all year long?

exe

I operate my own consulting firm. I choose when to work pretty much

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Nice report, man!
I have already mentioned it in this forum: my dream gf was a slovenian, she had a perfect ass and even too big tits, long brown hair and precious blue/grey eyes...these women are passionate, honest and fun.

Last year I met another slovenian at a mexican resort, she was on a conference (i was in another), well, she spoke great spanish and she had learnt it just by watching telenovelas!

Slovenia is a country closer to Austria than the rest of the balkans in culture, but their race is unique, tons of gret looking girls there.

I can vouch for everything you wrote here, Mixx, Da Truth!!

keep it real, man!

Quote: (10-01-2010 01:30 PM)Vacancier Permanent Wrote:  

Good report Mixx! Make me want to go there too.
Looking forward to reading more of your reports man. Funny that you mentioned the novelas are in Spanish/Portuguese with Slovenian subtitles. Did you meet any of the local ladies that could speak Spanish and or Portuguese there?
How did you find the cost of things there? Cheaper? Same or higher than in other parts of Europe/NA?

60% of girls understood Spanish at an intermediate level and 30% understood intermediate level Portuguese.


Slovenia was definitely less expensive than other European countries. The average salary is 1200 € per month for the middle class worker.

Report updated.

Guys - I am in trouble. It seems this forum is the only place I can use for a sounding board for what I feel.

I can't for the life of me stop thinking about Slovenia, and especially girl 10 - fuck, that girl hit me hard...I cannot stop thinking about her and the women there, and the great time I had...and Its impacting my work. I am now back in the states, and I don't get the smiles, and IOI's as heavily as I did in Slovenia... I had sex with girl 10 to the music of Lady Gaga's "alejandro" which all women there loved, now I find myself on youtube playing that song just to remember how she made me feel.....man..my mind is so fucked up right now...


Damn....

Mixx

But could you see youself living there if you could given the male hostility you encountered? That would get old after a while.

Quote: (10-04-2010 03:33 PM)kindredspirit Wrote:  

But could you see youself living there if you could given the male hostility you encountered? That would get old after a while.

I dunno man....I don't know. Man, I canot get that girl, or Lady Gagas "Alejandro" song out of my head!! Everytime I listen to it, I just see her, girl 10 - dancing it for me, as she undressed herself...and me.


I don't even want to be here, in my office, talking about work...I had no idea I would come back so fucked up in the head by this girl....damn.

Mixx

MiXX, great info!! Thanks a lot for writing about all of it. are you in touch with the girl? Maybe you can see her again...

How did you decide on Slovenia, over all the other European countries? Is Slovenia considered one of the better places to go?

Mixx,
having had one of my perfect "10" gfs from Slovenia, i can feel what you say you have night now, they really strike hard, because their character, fine looks and simple view on life makes them soo damn perfect.

But as everything else, after 3 weeks, everything gets back to normal, for me it always is like that, 3 weeks and i am over.
Unless you want to move there, which is a nice option, a nice country close to everywhere, a bit like a poorer Switzerland with some beaches...not too bad, huh?

Quote: (10-04-2010 03:31 PM)MiXXmaster27 Wrote:  

Guys - I am in trouble. It seems this forum is the only place I can use for a sounding board for what I feel.

I can't for the life of me stop thinking about Slovenia, and especially girl 10 - fuck, that girl hit me hard...I cannot stop thinking about her and the women there, and the great tim

Your body wants to reproduce. Everything we think and feel is simply a design element of a creature that wants to have the fittest possible children.

And the way to reproduce, and know the kid is yours, is to isolate the woman (sexually from other guys) and consistently have sex with her.
It's just your genetic programming.

It seems to be glorified by PUA community, but to pursue women and to pigeonhole it as just another form of recreation like water skiing or basketball is just so existentially backwards and hilariously inaccurate.

Just think, we're all the result of billions of generations of creatures, from amoebas, to fish, to mice-like creatures, to primates---and not ONE of those BILLIONS of ancestors failed to reproduce- or you wouldn't be here.

Of COURSE trying to reproduce is fundamental-- I don't really think my conscious decision of whether I would like to have some brat running around me right now really has much to do with the absolutely hard-wired in drive to have kids. Our ego (the part of us that feels "me" as an identity) is just a thin surface superstructure, the breeding part of us is the real substance, it couldn't care less about "you" except for your breeding capacity.

Quote: (10-04-2010 09:54 PM)lilactag Wrote:  

Mixx,
... they really strike hard, because their character, fine looks and simple view on life makes them soo damn perfect.

in one word... "feminine"? The lost treasure of the contemporary society..

Ill move there with ya mixx, and take all the leftover friends when they chase the latino! JAJAJAJA

Quote: (10-04-2010 03:58 PM)Chaz Wrote:  

MiXX, great info!! Thanks a lot for writing about all of it. are you in touch with the girl? Maybe you can see her again...

How did you decide on Slovenia, over all the other European countries? Is Slovenia considered one of the better places to go?

I chose Slovenia because it was off the beaten path. I normally like to go places few have traveled since there is a great chance of being the first to discover true gems, like girl 10 I found in a small village called "Lasko". Also, the exotic factor of being the only latino they see in person was a huge benefit; I knew that would pay-off big returns.

I am keeping in touch with girl 10, and girl 6 too for being so cool, but know soon this "magic" will wear off because of the distance between us. I don't plan on hitting Slovenia again until Spring 2011, so I doubt a girl that hot is around single and sex-free that long, especially in College. She has limited financial means to travel, along with the fact she is busy with her school studies. The logistics are just not there for us - Slovenia is just too far away to keep a fire burning long. If she was in Canada it would be easier.

Which is why I already started looking for my next "gangsta bitch" =)


Mixx

Why dont you fly her to your town? You're in Miami right? You could probably get a ticket for about a grand and it sounds like it would be money very well spent.

how long do you think she would last in miami? If she is into the Latino guys (even though I am sure mixx is a cool dude) and she hits Miami beach???? Every tom dick and horny is going to be all over her. I dont know how much money Mixx has but Miami is full of millionaires, I know I have tight game but its like when I went out with a part time victoria secret model in Miami, she had guys taking her and her friends out on Yachts, spending 5-10 grand for hitting a club EVERY night they went out drinking nothing but the huge bottles of Crystal, Dom and V. Cliquot. etc etc... Shes dating a millionaire now, and working at LIV for fun. Very hard to compete with that. They expect you not to blink at stuff like that because they usually date guys who dont.

What Mixx could do is give me her number and I will go keep her warm over the winter for him

Interesting how you loved Slovenia, but you commented that it's hard to get laid there. I've been to Croatia-- lots of hot girls, but many on message boards say that they are like catholics when it comes to sex.

Interesting about Slovenia though. I've been there, although it was in 95. Will definitely have to check it out. Slovenia will be great that you don't have to deal with a devastingly poor country like the Ukraine or Moldova, more close to the Western level.

Quote: (09-30-2010 04:49 PM)oldnemesis Wrote:  

Quote: (09-30-2010 05:36 AM)MiXXmaster27 Wrote:  

If you are older than 35, and look your age, you can forget about bangin younger women - it seems to be a big brick wall that will cost you a notch!! I look like I am in my mid 20's and I often told the girls my real age, 35, and they IMMEDIATELY turned cold!

That happens everywhere in EE. "What is your age?" is not really a question there, it is a test. The society there scorns upon too large age difference (rough rule is that over three years is too large), so there are two basic strategies:

- If you know the girl's age, add two and say this is your age. This is not a good one, since you'll end up telling different age to different girls and then remember who you tell what. But it works well when you're passing by and leaving tomorrow, as this is putting her in a comfortable zone with you (you're older than her, which is good, but not that old that she'd have a feeling you could be her daddy).

- Consider how old you look like by the locals (ask a few of them), and state this age. Then, if a girl ends up being older than you, you always have an option to reveal that you're actually older - or you can just move on. I typically use this strategy, and my age in Romania is 27 (I'm 35 as well).

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I did not find any cougar bars or anything close to that...so, I had to start lying about my age to get laid!

Cougar thing seems to be unique to Western culture. In EE such a woman would be considered a pervert, and frowned upon (jealousy plays some role here too). The only socially acceptable way for an older woman to fuck a young stud is to do it on vacation, far away from her peers.

Had no idea about this age thing. I'm 37, but still look 24-26, (yes, literally).
The local Ukrainian and Polish girls both have much older boyfriends, they are like 20 and 23, with 35-40 y.o guys.

Quote: (10-07-2010 07:20 PM)clr Wrote:  

how long do you think she would last in miami? If she is into the Latino guys (even though I am sure mixx is a cool dude) and she hits Miami beach???? Every tom dick and horny is going to be all over her. I dont know how much money Mixx has but Miami is full of millionaires, I know I have tight game but its like when I went out with a part time victoria secret model in Miami, she had guys taking her and her friends out on Yachts, spending 5-10 grand for hitting a club EVERY night they went out drinking nothing but the huge bottles of Crystal, Dom and V. Cliquot. etc etc... Shes dating a millionaire now, and working at LIV for fun. Very hard to compete with that. They expect you not to blink at stuff like that because they usually date guys who dont.

You don't need to be a millionaire to bang vistorias secret models in Miami - just have a good social circle, and be cool. I don't flaunt any cash at all, and just drive a normal car (by Miami standards) that even guys in Bentleys pull up to admire at gas stations since it is in good taste without any rice bullshit or hype.

I have a friend who bought a used BMW 330i for $6,000USD and is banging models left and right. I have another friend who drives his mothers car, and kills it in Miami just by being a good dancer and is very confident mofo. Proof that you don't need a yacht, a bentley or a mansion on star island or spend 10k to party..that is actually beta shit in my eyes.

Also, don't think that all women who are beautiful are models in Miami, some live humble lives and don't care for that shit, nor the men that hang in those circles. My ex is a nurse who makes no more than 90k a year, and can easily make the cover of Maxim magazine. She is not an exception, she is common to many girls I know in Miami.

Quote: (10-07-2010 07:20 PM)clr Wrote:  

What Mixx could do is give me her number and I will go keep her warm over the winter for him

Ha! I keep it real man, I have no doubt some other college chump is having his way with her now...that's life. I'm an old dawg to know that now, and don;t believe in cheesy romance where a woman waits months for "her true love" to return.

It was fun, it was cool, and it's over.....now, who'll be my next gangsta bitch?

I would go back, but NEVER during summer months - lesson learned.

Mixx

Quote: (10-07-2010 07:01 PM)Brian Wrote:  

Why dont you fly her to your town? You're in Miami right? You could probably get a ticket for about a grand and it sounds like it would be money very well spent.

Too much emotional investment on my part. If you are to stay in control, then she must now make a sacrifice for you. It's the only way to keep you in alpha status and maintain higher value. I already paid and put a lot of risk to find her...now, she must reciprocate. Paying for a woman to fly down to see you is just way too much value she has not yet earned, and sex is something we BOTH enjoyed that night, not a reward for me. She was able to brag to her friends about banging me I'm sure.

So, paying puts all the pressure and risk on you to entertain her: making sure she is happy, comfortable, entertained etc, (lowering your status) vs. her paying to fly down herself and making sure she makes YOU happy in all aspects. You'd be surprised how a woman changes her attitude when the risk of loss is more on her than you.


Mixx

Quote: (10-08-2010 10:08 AM)MiXXmaster27 Wrote:  

Quote: (10-07-2010 07:01 PM)Brian Wrote:  

Why dont you fly her to your town? You're in Miami right? You could probably get a ticket for about a grand and it sounds like it would be money very well spent.

Too much emotional investment on my part. If you are to stay in control, then she must now make a sacrifice for you. It's the only way to keep you in alpha status and maintain higher value. I already paid and put a lost of risk to find her...now, she must reciprocate. Paying for a woman to fly down to see you is just way too much value she has not yet earned, and sex is something we BOTH enjoyed that night, not a reward for me. She was able to brag to her friends about banging me I'm sure.

So, paying puts all the pressure and risk on you to entertain her: making sure she is happy, comfortable, entertained etc, (lowering your status) vs. her paying to fly down herself and making sure she makes YOU happy in all aspects. You'd be surprised how a woman changes her attitude when the risk of loss is more on her than you.


Mixx

Well said.

i gotta disagree w/that. if she was a girl making a USA type of salary then it would be one thing but if she is in a village in Slovenia 1k really is an awful lot of money to her and her family. she may really want to come see you and would really enjoy the opportunity to come see you but its just not financially viable for her. dont underestimate how much money 1k is to someone in that park of the world

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