He will get banned because most girls will report him, simple as that.

Same thing happens to girls who used to write the "Send me $5 and see what happens", they get mass reported and tinder auto bans them. I don't think they have a hand on approach to banning people.

Those accounts probably do get banned. It just takes time. I've been banned for way more tame things. Just takes a bit longer and obviously I've been using tinder for years even though they've banned like 100+ accounts of mine. Their bans are subjective and thoughtless often times.

Quote: (04-10-2019 01:44 PM)jacknap Wrote:  

Those accounts probably do get banned. It just takes time. I've been banned for way more tame things. Just takes a bit longer and obviously I've been using tinder for years even though they've banned like 100+ accounts of mine. Their bans are subjective and thoughtless often times.

Persistance is your middle name.

Some of these chicks really do melt my head. Was in contact with a chick I banged and stayed with for a few days the last time I was in Poland. She asked recently if I'd be returning and I said sure. I texted her at the beginning of the week to let her know I was back in town. We texted back and forth. Here's what happened toward the end of the conversation.

Her: "How long will you be here for?"
Me: "Two weeks."
Her: "Great then maybe we can meet?"
Me: "Sure. How's Wednesday evening around 7?"

She never said yes. She never said no. In fact she didn't say anything at all. She ghosted, never to be heard from again.

Tinder.

I tried doing boost, seems you have to get $raped$ by tinder in order to get some matches IF you're 'just' average looking. Anyway, Im 40 and not expecting much and, dayymm, these chicks that swipe 'like' on me, even though we're same age, look my goddamn MOTHER (and she's not hot..) or they look like they've slammed the wall HARD. All kinds of trolls popping up on the app. Its frightening, yet interesting.
Do these female beasts actually get laid from this app? I have nothing to be attracted to, except from their looks - and it aint looking good! Seems like a waste of time if youre plus 35. Or I have to change my age, but that seems kinda dodgy. But I guess the entire app is.

Quote: (04-11-2019 02:27 PM)Arising Wrote:  

I tried doing boost, seems you have to get $raped$ by tinder in order to get some matches IF you're 'just' average looking. Anyway, Im 40 and not expecting much and, dayymm, these chicks that swipe 'like' on me, even though we're same age, look my goddamn MOTHER (and she's not hot..) or they look like they've slammed the wall HARD. All kinds of trolls popping up on the app. Its frightening, yet interesting.
Do these female beasts actually get laid from this app? I have nothing to be attracted to, except from their looks - and it aint looking good! Seems like a waste of time if youre plus 35. Or I have to change my age, but that seems kinda dodgy. But I guess the entire app is.

I'm 40 as well, if you aren't in a big city you're pretty much fucked.

What European city is good for Tinder? recently I went to Budapest and Copenhagen coming from the UK I was totally depressed swiping in both these countries. So many pretty girls on Tinder but very little matches it like many don't even bother using Tinder in these city's. The last time I felt it that bad was back in Germany is there such thing as a city where Tinder is very popular out there as that will be my next solo destination.

I ended up gaming in nightclubs in the end I was going to anyway but my god I wish more girls would use Tinder in their countries to show foreign guys there city!

Ive been to Copenhagen last year for two days. Had pipelined 1 week before. Managed to set up two dates with a Lithuanian and a Finnish chick. Unfortunately didnt get the notch but two heavy make out. From texting I was pretty sure they were up for a second date but I didnt have the time. Im Mediterranean looking, so I guess this might he annadvantage there. Im also doing solid in Germany amd Ive heard Budapest is also good...

The worst are for sure Spain, Italy and England. I guess France and whole of East Europe could be alright. But it seems the forum is right and Tinder is slowly dying in Europe, too. Maybe Im too blended though from my horrible results in England for the last months. Had a 3 weeks break in Germany over christmas and smashed 3 chics on 3 days. After that chilled out for christmas?

Quote: (04-11-2019 03:27 PM)quaker13 Wrote:  

Quote: (04-11-2019 02:27 PM)Arising Wrote:  

I tried doing boost, seems you have to get $raped$ by tinder in order to get some matches IF you're 'just' average looking. Anyway, Im 40 and not expecting much and, dayymm, these chicks that swipe 'like' on me, even though we're same age, look my goddamn MOTHER (and she's not hot..) or they look like they've slammed the wall HARD. All kinds of trolls popping up on the app. Its frightening, yet interesting.
Do these female beasts actually get laid from this app? I have nothing to be attracted to, except from their looks - and it aint looking good! Seems like a waste of time if youre plus 35. Or I have to change my age, but that seems kinda dodgy. But I guess the entire app is.

I'm 40 as well, if you aren't in a big city you're pretty much fucked.

If you can get away with it you need to change your age to 30-33. If you're actually hoping to have success on apps as a legit 40 year old you're going to be very depressed.

Quote: (04-12-2019 05:48 AM)griffinmill Wrote:  

Quote: (04-11-2019 03:27 PM)quaker13 Wrote:  

Quote: (04-11-2019 02:27 PM)Arising Wrote:  

I tried doing boost, seems you have to get $raped$ by tinder in order to get some matches IF you're 'just' average looking. Anyway, Im 40 and not expecting much and, dayymm, these chicks that swipe 'like' on me, even though we're same age, look my goddamn MOTHER (and she's not hot..) or they look like they've slammed the wall HARD. All kinds of trolls popping up on the app. Its frightening, yet interesting.
Do these female beasts actually get laid from this app? I have nothing to be attracted to, except from their looks - and it aint looking good! Seems like a waste of time if youre plus 35. Or I have to change my age, but that seems kinda dodgy. But I guess the entire app is.

I'm 40 as well, if you aren't in a big city you're pretty much fucked.

If you can get away with it you need to change your age to 30-33. If you're actually hoping to have success on apps as a legit 40 year old you're going to be very depressed.

..but but they told us we age like French wine


even MILFs over 40 look for younger guys, from women's point of view there is no use case for 40+ yo man unless its for betabux purposes and that is not what apps are about

Quote: (04-12-2019 05:48 AM)griffinmill Wrote:  

Quote: (04-11-2019 03:27 PM)quaker13 Wrote:  

Quote: (04-11-2019 02:27 PM)Arising Wrote:  

I tried doing boost, seems you have to get $raped$ by tinder in order to get some matches IF you're 'just' average looking. Anyway, Im 40 and not expecting much and, dayymm, these chicks that swipe 'like' on me, even though we're same age, look my goddamn MOTHER (and she's not hot..) or they look like they've slammed the wall HARD. All kinds of trolls popping up on the app. Its frightening, yet interesting.
Do these female beasts actually get laid from this app? I have nothing to be attracted to, except from their looks - and it aint looking good! Seems like a waste of time if youre plus 35. Or I have to change my age, but that seems kinda dodgy. But I guess the entire app is.

I'm 40 as well, if you aren't in a big city you're pretty much fucked.

If you can get away with it you need to change your age to 30-33. If you're actually hoping to have success on apps as a legit 40 year old you're going to be very depressed.

I can't pass for 30-33. My skin hasn't aged but i'm salt and pepper all over. However, I've had success despite that.

Quote: (04-12-2019 09:08 AM)Bananaman711 Wrote:  

even MILFs over 40 look for younger guys, from women's point of view there is no use case for 40+ yo man unless its for betabux purposes and that is not what apps are about

Only the hambeasts and prematurely aged single moms will go for 40+ y/o (average looking) men it seems, it's ridiculous. I can't even get a decent looking 38 y/o, they all look like fucking Gollum.

Got 50+ likes from Tinder Gold, including one traffic accident - and they ALL look like shit. I'm supposed to pay for this "service"?? Is this the Ugly People app?
I'm not wasting any more time on Tinder. Makes me feel deformed.
I superliked 2 people which matched me, too - but no response.

I've had slight success with 23-33 y/o women IRL, so that's where I'll continue.
Man, Tinder's a disappointment. NOT like 2013. And, yes, seemingly I got old.

Those disposable SMS numbers websites don't work for tinder am I right? They immediately ban you or something, not sure why. Any way to circumvent this?

Tinder is an absolute farce now. I want nothing to do with it. Lots of effort on swiping & texting with little to show for it.

More men need to opt out.

Hey Tinderheads, do you ever hit unmatched women up on their snap/Instagram if it's posted, do they ever respond, and does it ever turn into a bang

Quote: (04-12-2019 03:28 PM)SW15 Wrote:  

Tinder is an absolute farce now. I want nothing to do with it. Lots of effort on swiping & texting with little to show for it.

More men need to opt out.

I suggest joining the MGTOW movement buddy, you will fit right in.

Quote: (04-12-2019 09:29 PM)Tinder Scientist Wrote:  

Quote: (04-12-2019 03:28 PM)SW15 Wrote:  

Tinder is an absolute farce now. I want nothing to do with it. Lots of effort on swiping & texting with little to show for it.

More men need to opt out.

I suggest joining the MGTOW movement buddy, you will fit right in.

Opting out of Tinder does not mean opting out of sex and interacting with females. There are multiple other venues.

The sex ratios are really bad on Tinder.

Not every channel is worth the effort.

Quote: (04-12-2019 09:52 PM)SW15 Wrote:  

Quote: (04-12-2019 09:29 PM)Tinder Scientist Wrote:  

Quote: (04-12-2019 03:28 PM)SW15 Wrote:  

Tinder is an absolute farce now. I want nothing to do with it. Lots of effort on swiping & texting with little to show for it.

More men need to opt out.

I suggest joining the MGTOW movement buddy, you will fit right in.

Opting out of Tinder does not mean opting out of sex and interacting with females. There are multiple other venues.

The sex ratios are really bad on Tinder.

Not every channel is worth the effort.

The ratios are bad anywhere for any woman worth pursuing. Actually you are right if you are old and ugly please leave online game and night game, you scare off the women for the rest of us.

tind3r (alternative web based tinder client) seems to be down for me, (has been for awhile). anyone else still able to use tind3r - or any other alternatives?

Going back to the app seems so slow and inefficient after tind3r

Quote: (04-12-2019 09:29 PM)Tinder Scientist Wrote:  

The ratios are bad anywhere for any woman worth pursuing. Actually you are right if you are old and ugly please leave online game and night game, you scare off the women for the rest of us.

I have enjoyed your posts so far, but you are being a bit of a douche here.

Quote: (04-13-2019 09:47 PM)ChefAllDay Wrote:  

Quote: (04-12-2019 09:29 PM)Tinder Scientist Wrote:  

The ratios are bad anywhere for any woman worth pursuing. Actually you are right if you are old and ugly please leave online game and night game, you scare off the women for the rest of us.

I have enjoyed your posts so far, but you are being a bit of a douche here.

I admit I was in the wrong, something unrelated to that comment pissed me off and I guess I took it out on the forum.

My tinder is desperately in need of a reset. What's the best way to go about it?

If it matters a few weeks ago I paid for a 6-month Gold membership

Quote: (04-13-2019 09:20 PM)dirty_old Wrote:  

tind3r (alternative web based tinder client) seems to be down for me, (has been for awhile). anyone else still able to use tind3r - or any other alternatives?

Going back to the app seems so slow and inefficient after tind3r

Try using the website (tinder.com) beats using the app on your phone and you can spoof location very easily.

Quote: (04-13-2019 10:11 PM)Snag87 Wrote:  

My tinder is desperately in need of a reset. What's the best way to go about it?

If it matters a few weeks ago I paid for a 6-month Gold membership

You need to delete the account and use a new number/facebook.
If you ever paid for plus/gold (your case) you can't use the same apple id/ google play account. Do not link spotify or instagram again.

Only other way to reset is to delete account and waiting 90-100 days, after that they should delete your data and you can use the same number/accounts and they won't identify you.

In your case, you are better off not resetting unless you want to pay for tinder gold again. Since as soon as you restore your purchase you will be identified.

I think the new algorithm is officially "live". I'm getting more matches than I was getting in te past few weeks (still not using boosts or Plus now).

The reason I think the algorithm update is active is because now you can't even swipe left if you're out of swipes for the day. Before, they restricted the swipe limit to right swipes. Now it's all swipes. So if "activity" is what gives you a boost in the algorithm, you could theoretically be out of swipes but still swipe left, and then the app would recognize you're being active. Now, that's no longer possible...

So to have any "activity" on the app, you either need to wait or pay up.

I tell them we should talk on Facebook Messenger but sometimes they do not want to share it because the I know their identity. Same with WhatsAapp. Which app do you guys ask them to talk on? And what do you say if they say they do not have it? Now I am experimenting with asking for Snapchat because many seem to have it.